We’ve been on the site for a little while, but I thought that maybe someone could gain insight from our experience.
Our Journey is between Bolivia and USA. The process we used is likely similar for many countries.
Here is our journey.
We met on the internet in April 2006. Since we had both had bad relationship experience, we were cautious about starting anything quickly. After about 10 months of almost daily emails and weekly phone calls, but never speaking about a relationship between us. Only friend, although we did talk about our bad experiences and what we looked for in a mate. Finally, I told her I wanted to come and meet her in person. I’ve usually been very observant of things. I could usually determine right away if a relationship would not work for the long run. She was just too perfect and there had to be something wrong… I had to meet her. How could we seem to think so much alike? So I planned it, and went. It was perfect, from start to finish. It was at this time we discussed the possibility of marriage, but neither of us committed to anything. We were simply adults, very comfortable together and discussing the pros and cons of a relationship between us. She was everything I ever dreamed of in a woman, plus more. She was the woman that I thought never existed, so, I asked her, she said yes and we were engaged.
Her family did not want her to leave the country without being married first. Even though we knew it would take longer, we wanted to maintain family peace, so we planned everything around that.
THE PAPERWORK
Now for the part that will hopefully help other.
1. Birth Certificate: has to be certified by the state that issued it.
2. Divorce Declaration: Proof of termination from any previous marriage(s). This had to be certified by county clerks office.
3. Declaration of Eligibility to Marry: This is a sworn statement to being free to marry. This was not really easy to find, but I was able to write my own:
(Sample Oath: http://www.visajourney.com/gallery/display...=1631&pos=0 )
I'm no lawyer, but it did work. It needed to be witnessed by two other people and notarized.
Now that doesn’t seem so hard… oh, but first, any notarized document has to sent to the state, to certify the notary signature and stamp are authentic.
Ok, now take the originals and have them translated into Spanish by a certified translator, who then notarizes them.
Are we done? Nope! Now send them back to the state for certifying the notary of the translations. Does it ever end? Eventually. After receiving the certified papers back, now take all the original English and original translated copies and send them to the Bolivian Consulate. The Consulate will confirm and stamp each document. This makes them legal.
To top it all off, every certification costs money. Not a lot, but it adds up. The translation was not cheap in my home town.
I should write a book about this.
Now I have all my original certified documents in English and my certified translations, certified by the state and certified by Bolivia Consulate.
Now, off to Bolivia to get married.
Married? …not yet. After arriving in Bolivia, we submitted all the documents to an attorney, who prepared the necessary paperwork for civil marriage, which cost a couple hundred. I then had to go and obtain a special purpose visa, which was another $100+. We can get married now? Nope, have to wait about a week for the visa to be approved.
Finally, we can get married.
AFTER MARRIAGE
There are a couple ways to go about it, but this is the process we took.
Now it was my wife’s turn. She had to have all of her documents translated (certified and notarized) into English. These documents had to be taken to U.S. Consulate for certification. These certified translations, along with mine, were then used to petition for immigration.
Petition I-130 for immigration of spouse…after receiving NOA1, we petitioned I-129F for K-3 visa.
And now we are enduring the time apart, while we wait for approval. Time apart is very difficult, but I’ve been looking for her all my life. I will wait for her, no matter the time.
RECOMMEND
I would recommend K-1 to anyone that is planning to marry and immigrate if it is at all possible. You might even be able to have a religious ceremony in your fiancé’s country prior to legal ceremony in the USA. You will save yourself a lot of money, difficulty and time apart. This was not an option for us.
I wish you a speedy journey with happiness as your goal.