hello everyone,
I m married 3 years, I never sent AOS.. my husband just abonded me 2 moths ago,I m living with his mother, please tell me what I need to do, If I have chance on GC. Thank you guys alot .

I am sorry about that, sure there is something you can do i know you can get your GC via the I-360. Hope somebody will come along and tell you more.

Good luck

I'm sorry to hear about your present status. It's good his mother is helping you.

Without knowing if you came to the US on a K1, K3,CR-1 visa, it's hard to say what you can do. I looked at your previous posts and didn't find much about your history in the US. I-360 maybe an option, however, I would suggest finding an immigratation lawyer to help you. You shouldn't be doing this by yourself as the USCIS is confusing if you are following their rules and have a simple case. You have overstayed your time to file for AOS, and need professional help if you are to stay in the US.

Good Luck

Peter and Thi

I-129F Sent : 2007-05-26
I-129F NOA1 : 2007-06-11
I-129F RFE(s) :
RFE Reply(s) :
I-129F NOA2 : 2007-10-26
Touched: 2007-11-02
NVC Recieved: 2007-11-16
Consulate recieved ??????
Packet 3 sent 2007-12-11
Packet 3 received 2007-12-24
Packet 3 returned 2007-12-28
Packet 4 sent 2008-1-14
Email Reply with Interview Date 2008-1-23
Interview Date 2008-2-27
Passed Interview 2008-02-27
Visa Pick Up Date 2008-3-05
Received Visa 2008-2-29 (called to pick up earlier)
POE 2008-3-05 Los Angeles

For that you need evidence of abbuse.

my husband diid nopt abused me.. he abonded me.. after 3 years of merriage

I suggest you raise some money for airfare.

waaaaaaht?? she needs ideas for raising it??

OP seems to have come here on an H1b visa, overstayed and then got married.
So not a hope in hell IMHO....

Unless of course, her husband rethinks his abandonment....

cute baby.

why thank you




(I'm trying to be more festive!)

Lets hope you never find yourself in the same situation as the OP and you look for help and meet someone who offers as much help and understanding as you did to this OP...

some people are beyond belief....

Kez

Ya pues, there aren't many options unless the I-360 is used which demands abuse. People could say it more nicely, but VJ turns ones heart to stone.

I agree totally!!


Oops, must have missed the help YOU were offering

The OP has already got the best advice possible.... get help from a Immigration lawyer.... and any info I gave to the OP was in PM... but your remarks were totally uncalled for.....


Kez

Pardon me?

She asked for ADVICE, and that's what I gave.

What should she do in her situation? Return home is the obvious choice in my eyes. I could have said 'HELL NO' are you going to get a green card, but decided to merely say what I did.

Just because YOU don't like MY answer doesn't make it uncalled for.

You didn't offer advice. You offered a smartass answer to someone who genuinely needs help. Had your answer been a real thoughtful reply, you'd have phrased it much differently, much more compassionately. Of course going home is an option, the OP would have to be an idiot not to have thought of it. It goes without saying, especially the way you said it.

And you really need to consider what you're suggesting. The OP has been here for 3 years...this is their home now. What kind of life do you think they might have to go back to? No job, no home, no means of support. It might be that the OP decides to go home, or is even forced home. But that's a very personal decision, and they don't need you to point it out to them.

I completely agree Mox.

I agree

I get a kick out of people that think just because someone's marriage is breaking up that the alien should just jump on the next plane.

Why?

If something were to happen to my marriage, I would stay here. This is where I live and work now. My son likes it here so why would I move back?

Because, had you not filed AOS, it would be the law. Like it or not, tough.

But...as everyone else has stated...you do NOT need to be so rude and give smartass answers.

"Need", 'rude' and 'smartass answers' are highly subjective.
I answered the question as I saw fit, and will continue to do so.

Touché. Just be prepared for the same when you need help.

thank you alot for everythings, all anserw etc. thanks special for nice anserw.. yeah, I come here for h2b visa.. I overstayed visa around 1, I got merried, but I never filled AOS, because always somethings what going on in my life.. money difficulties.. So, I was thiniking about back to home.. but I don't wanna so muich.. I live here 5 years..so.. I don't know wthat to do... my husband just left... ande good that his mother is with me. .. yeah... probbaly I have to take layer.. becuase I 360 it is not for me.. he didi noy abused me..

You need some love..

But my sympathy is for the OP.

such great support. some of the replies i see on this site are great and helpful. others are just down right mean and vindicative. i agree and hope they never find themselves in that situation. i am a firm believer in what goes around comes around

yeah.. I need some love... thank you guys alot for all support... ANY ADVICE... ???? concern my situation... oki. I have one more question... becuase above somebody says taht I wait to long to filed AOS.. it is true?? is this mean that I can not aplly for AOS now???

If your marriage is no longer a viable marriage, then, yes, that is correct. You don't have a basis upon which to file. Unless there was some abuse by the USC to prevent the adjustment of status application from being filed. You mentioned money problems. Was it that your USC spouse couldn't or wouldn't pay for the filing costs? Or that he could not qualify as a sponsor?

hire an immigration lawyer. don't go home.

Sad as it is this can be the nature of VJ, Since I joined in January 2004 I've seen so much of it and have been through the cticisms myself.. Having said that there are many people on here who are kind and very supportive.

Try and get to a Catholic charity which is pro bono.They may be able to help you and advise you on any options that you may have.

Good Luck


Shona

Stay with his mother. send in AOs anyway. have her sign a letter for you>