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Krikit
After you and/or other members have gone out of their way to politely respond to another member's question, does it bother you that they don't post a thank you for your input?
JenT
Not really... I have pretty low expectations as far as this board goes... whistling.gif esp with newbies who don't really know their netiquette.
Krikit
QUOTE(JenT @ Mar 19 2008, 07:10 AM) *
Not really... I have pretty low expectations as far as this board goes... whistling.gif esp with newbies who don't really know their netiquette.

laughing.gif

I keep having faith in my fellow human, so I am constantly disappointed but unfailingly optimistic that they will do the right thing. You'd think I'd learn. blush.gif

I know! idea9dv.gif Maybe I'll just go through each unacknowledged thread and post a "You're welcome" message! Kinda like I do when I open the door for someone and they walk right through without saying anything. tongue_ss.gif
jego ryu
QUOTE(Crikey! @ Mar 19 2008, 06:53 PM) *
After you and/or other members have gone out of their way to politely respond to another member's question, does it bother you that they don't post a thank you for your input?


NO....I DONT EXPECT ANYTHING FROM THEM
Nova17
NO. When I help I don't to expect thank you's but it's still better to hear them say it to let us know they appreciate it.
JenT
QUOTE(Crikey! @ Mar 19 2008, 07:17 AM) *
QUOTE(JenT @ Mar 19 2008, 07:10 AM) *
Not really... I have pretty low expectations as far as this board goes... whistling.gif esp with newbies who don't really know their netiquette.

laughing.gif

I keep having faith in my fellow human, so I am constantly disappointed but unfailingly optimistic that they will do the right thing. You'd think I'd learn. blush.gif

I know! idea9dv.gif Maybe I'll just go through each unacknowledged thread and post a "You're welcome" message! Kinda like I do when I open the door for someone and they walk right through without saying anything. tongue_ss.gif


Kinda like you do with kids when they don't remember their manners....
Nagishkaw
It's just the right thing to do, IMO.
NavarreMan
QUOTE(Crikey! @ Mar 19 2008, 05:53 AM) *
After you and/or other members have gone out of their way to politely respond to another member's question, does it bother you that they don't post a thank you for your input?


No, but thank you for asking. I would imagine that you have not given much thought to thanking those who have taken part in your poll. I also do not expect a waiter to follow me to the parking lot and fall to their knees thanking me for the tip I left for them. Most information here is gratuitous and I do not think most expect a thank you, but it never hurts to be grateful and to express that gratitude.
NavarreMan
QUOTE(Nagishkaw @ Mar 19 2008, 06:57 AM) *
It's just the right thing to do, IMO.


Nagi, I agree that a thank you is the right thing but I don't think one should expect it nor be too put off when a thank you is not forthcoming. Politeness can go along way toward developing good relationships here and in most aspects of our lives.
Jenn!
It bugs me if I've typed out a detailed response and only they thank the person who wrote something inane with a luv.gif attached to it.
Krikit
QUOTE(NavarreMan @ Mar 19 2008, 07:57 AM) *
QUOTE(Crikey! @ Mar 19 2008, 05:53 AM) *
After you and/or other members have gone out of their way to politely respond to another member's question, does it bother you that they don't post a thank you for your input?


No, but thank you for asking. I would imagine that you have not given much thought to thanking those who have taken part in your poll. I also do not expect a waiter to follow me to the parking lot and fall to their knees thanking me for the tip I left for them. Most information here is gratuitous and I do not think most expect a thank you, but it never hurts to be grateful and to express that gratitude.

ohmy.gif

*contemplates another poll on un-called for rude posts* mad.gif
Alex & Rachel
QUOTE(Jenn! @ Mar 19 2008, 12:01 PM) *
It bugs me if I've typed out a detailed response and only they thank the person who wrote something inane with a luv.gif attached to it.

I agree! Not that I've really had this happen to me, but I imagine it would annoy me if it did, and I feel for those whose posts are ignored.
LaL
Thank you's are cool, but it bugs me more when someone asks the same question (or states the should-now be corrected info) over and over again despite it being answered a few times over previously. I just wind up ignoring the subsequent requests.

lol @ Jenn luv.gif
charles!
QUOTE(Crikey! @ Mar 19 2008, 07:23 AM) *
QUOTE(NavarreMan @ Mar 19 2008, 07:57 AM) *
QUOTE(Crikey! @ Mar 19 2008, 05:53 AM) *
After you and/or other members have gone out of their way to politely respond to another member's question, does it bother you that they don't post a thank you for your input?


No, but thank you for asking. I would imagine that you have not given much thought to thanking those who have taken part in your poll. I also do not expect a waiter to follow me to the parking lot and fall to their knees thanking me for the tip I left for them. Most information here is gratuitous and I do not think most expect a thank you, but it never hurts to be grateful and to express that gratitude.

ohmy.gif

*contemplates another poll on un-called for rude posts* mad.gif

that one set off my sarcasm meter laughing.gif
consolemaster
Doesn't matter. It's Divine to Forgive! Not many people understand that. tongue.gif
Nagishkaw
QUOTE(NavarreMan @ Mar 19 2008, 07:00 AM) *
QUOTE(Nagishkaw @ Mar 19 2008, 06:57 AM) *
It's just the right thing to do, IMO.


Nagi, I agree that a thank you is the right thing but I don't think one should expect it nor be too put off when a thank you is not forthcoming. Politeness can go along way toward developing good relationships here and in most aspects of our lives.


NavarreMan,
Thank you.
Krikit
QUOTE(LaL @ Mar 19 2008, 08:37 AM) *
Thank you's are cool, but it bugs me more when someone asks the same question (or states the should-now be corrected info) over and over again despite it being answered a few times over previously. I just wind up ignoring the subsequent requests.

lol @ Jenn luv.gif

Does the name Daisy spring to mind? laughing.gif
Queen Jenn
I put no. Sometimes I don't even know if they have thanked me, because I don't always have time to go back and read that thread after I've answered the question.
Parivar CSK
It doesn't bother me...I don't write much visa info these days but I answer other questions on the boards sometimes and ask questions. I think a "thank you everyone" is fine instead of having to thank each one individually, especially if you get lots of responses.
LaurenR
I don't know if I've offered any advice yet (since I'm pretty new to it all). If I did put my two cents in and didn't get a thank you, I don't think it would bother me much. I know how hectic all of this can get. I do however try to make it a point to thank anyone who offers answers to the questions I post (but I've probably forgotten to do this once or twice whistling.gif ) So... I put no but I think it's polite to post thank yous.
LaL
QUOTE(Crikey! @ Mar 19 2008, 07:57 AM) *
QUOTE(LaL @ Mar 19 2008, 08:37 AM) *
Thank you's are cool, but it bugs me more when someone asks the same question (or states the should-now be corrected info) over and over again despite it being answered a few times over previously. I just wind up ignoring the subsequent requests.

lol @ Jenn luv.gif

Does the name Daisy spring to mind? laughing.gif


No, I was just speaking in generalities thinking back on the years here. blush.gif
A.J.
QUOTE(Crikey! @ Mar 19 2008, 06:53 AM) *
After you and/or other members have gone out of their way to politely respond to another member's question, does it bother you that they don't post a thank you for your input?

I don't offer input. I try to be as unhelpful as possible. So I don't know. You have no choice for N/A. Therefore this poll is flawed.
Scott and Marta
It doesn´t bother me but a thank you every now and then is nice too smile.gif
Bassi and Zainab
QUOTE(Crikey! @ Mar 19 2008, 08:23 AM) *
QUOTE(NavarreMan @ Mar 19 2008, 07:57 AM) *
QUOTE(Crikey! @ Mar 19 2008, 05:53 AM) *
After you and/or other members have gone out of their way to politely respond to another member's question, does it bother you that they don't post a thank you for your input?


No, but thank you for asking. I would imagine that you have not given much thought to thanking those who have taken part in your poll. I also do not expect a waiter to follow me to the parking lot and fall to their knees thanking me for the tip I left for them. Most information here is gratuitous and I do not think most expect a thank you, but it never hurts to be grateful and to express that gratitude.

ohmy.gif

*contemplates another poll on un-called for rude posts* mad.gif


I didn't find that post to be rude at all. So everyone sees things differently, but I would agree with him. I don't really need to have someone tell me thank you. The sharing of information is the purpose of this board. Thank yous are nice in this instance, but I wouldn't react or be upset if I didn't get one. Honestly, I probably wouldn't even notice if I got one or not.
Nessa
no. thanks for asking tongue.gif
bakofoil
QUOTE(Nagishkaw @ Mar 19 2008, 01:12 PM) *
QUOTE(NavarreMan @ Mar 19 2008, 07:00 AM) *
QUOTE(Nagishkaw @ Mar 19 2008, 06:57 AM) *
It's just the right thing to do, IMO.


Nagi, I agree that a thank you is the right thing but I don't think one should expect it nor be too put off when a thank you is not forthcoming. Politeness can go along way toward developing good relationships here and in most aspects of our lives.


NavarreMan,
Thank you.


Thank you Nagi for making me chuckle smile.gif
Kazan' Tiger
No. I am far more bothered by people that attack other posters trying to offer suggestions or words of encouragement.
Krikit
QUOTE(Bassi and Zainab @ Mar 19 2008, 02:56 PM) *
QUOTE(Crikey! @ Mar 19 2008, 08:23 AM) *
QUOTE(NavarreMan @ Mar 19 2008, 07:57 AM) *
QUOTE(Crikey! @ Mar 19 2008, 05:53 AM) *
After you and/or other members have gone out of their way to politely respond to another member's question, does it bother you that they don't post a thank you for your input?


No, but thank you for asking. I would imagine that you have not given much thought to thanking those who have taken part in your poll. I also do not expect a waiter to follow me to the parking lot and fall to their knees thanking me for the tip I left for them. Most information here is gratuitous and I do not think most expect a thank you, but it never hurts to be grateful and to express that gratitude.

ohmy.gif

*contemplates another poll on un-called for rude posts* mad.gif


I didn't find that post to be rude at all. So everyone sees things differently, but I would agree with him. I don't really need to have someone tell me thank you. The sharing of information is the purpose of this board. Thank yous are nice in this instance, but I wouldn't react or be upset if I didn't get one. Honestly, I probably wouldn't even notice if I got one or not.


It's okay Bassi and Zainab... my response was actually kind of tongue-in-cheek, which I think was how NavarreMan's post was too. smile.gif

Well, everybody. At this point in time I would like to thank you all for taking part in the poll. It was very kind of you to participate and offer a response. Thank you. good.gif
Krikit
QUOTE(VJ Troll @ Mar 19 2008, 02:50 PM) *
I don't offer input. I try to be as unhelpful as possible. So I don't know. You have no choice for N/A. Therefore this poll is flawed.

I intentionally omitted an option for anything but a yes or no response. As you know, pollsters do this on purpose. Your input, as always, is appreciated. tongue_ss.gif
almaty
QUOTE(VJ Troll @ Mar 19 2008, 01:50 PM) *
QUOTE(Crikey! @ Mar 19 2008, 06:53 AM) *
After you and/or other members have gone out of their way to politely respond to another member's question, does it bother you that they don't post a thank you for your input?

I don't offer input. I try to be as unhelpful as possible. So I don't know. You have no choice for N/A. Therefore this poll is flawed.


here is some input for you....stfu, you Persian Shoe
darkhorse
I wouldn't care less if I get a thank you or not.
But if it makes certain people happy...
Thank you for posting this poll good.gif
jundp
QUOTE(stina&suj @ Mar 19 2008, 09:27 AM) *
It doesn't bother me...I don't write much visa info these days but I answer other questions on the boards sometimes and ask questions. I think a "thank you everyone" is fine instead of having to thank each one individually, especially if you get lots of responses.


I agree.

And in case I've forgotten to thank people over the months....Thank you smile.gif
rhymeswithcandi
It doesn't really bother me...

I don't know if it means much now but, to all who've given me advise/ congrats/ help on this forum - If I didn't say it, Thank YOU!! ... and sorry if I didn't say so before smile.gif
Olivia*
hardly
JVKn'CVO
Not at all. Actually, the other way around. With a few exceptions, I'm not fond of posts that say only "thank you!" or just have one smiley.
There are exceptions, but if I have to scroll 7 pages to find an actual post, it bugs me ranting33va.gif

Saludos,
Caro

Not at all. Actually, the other way around. With a few exceptions, I'm not fond of posts that say only "thank you!" or just have one smiley.
There are exceptions, but if I have to scroll 7 pages to find an actual post, it bugs me ranting33va.gif

Saludos,
Caro
rebeccajo
I think anytime you post an answer to a thread, you should go back and read the ensuing discussion. You may find that the answer you were hoping to get a thank-you for has evolved into a discussion adding a dimension you had not thought of.
Krikit
QUOTE(rebeccajo @ Mar 19 2008, 11:17 PM) *
I think anytime you post an answer to a thread, you should go back and read the ensuing discussion. You may find that the answer you were hoping to get a thank-you for has evolved into a discussion adding a dimension you had not thought of.

And it's been closed. laughing.gif
mc2000ch
There are bigger issues than, just a simple one.
If it does bother you drink to it, you will forget it the next day.
Krikit
QUOTE(mc2000ch @ Mar 20 2008, 08:02 AM) *
There are bigger issues than, just a simple one.
If it does bother you drink to it, you will forget it the next day.

blink.gif

Is this a babelfish translation? laughing.gif
canalien
QUOTE(jundp @ Mar 19 2008, 05:45 PM) *
QUOTE(stina&suj @ Mar 19 2008, 09:27 AM) *
It doesn't bother me...I don't write much visa info these days but I answer other questions on the boards sometimes and ask questions. I think a "thank you everyone" is fine instead of having to thank each one individually, especially if you get lots of responses.


I agree.

And in case I've forgotten to thank people over the months....Thank you smile.gif



I see that you are in Fairfax, good luck! The district is a little behind in processing cases ( coz of volume) but my interview experience was painless!
charles!
QUOTE(JVKn @ Mar 19 2008, 07:41 PM) *
Not at all. Actually, the other way around. With a few exceptions, I'm not fond of posts that say only "thank you!" or just have one smiley.
There are exceptions, but if I have to scroll 7 pages to find an actual post, it bugs me ranting33va.gif

Saludos,
Caro

Not at all. Actually, the other way around. With a few exceptions, I'm not fond of posts that say only "thank you!" or just have one smiley.
There are exceptions, but if I have to scroll 7 pages to find an actual post, it bugs me ranting33va.gif

Saludos,
Caro

tongue_ss.gif
Sinergy
QUOTE(JenT @ Mar 19 2008, 07:10 AM) *
Not really... I have pretty low expectations as far as this board goes... whistling.gif esp with newbies who don't really know their netiquette.

I agree 100%
rebeccajo
QUOTE(Crikey! @ Mar 20 2008, 07:34 AM) *
QUOTE(rebeccajo @ Mar 19 2008, 11:17 PM) *
I think anytime you post an answer to a thread, you should go back and read the ensuing discussion. You may find that the answer you were hoping to get a thank-you for has evolved into a discussion adding a dimension you had not thought of.

And it's been closed. laughing.gif


Yeah well, sometimes that happens too!! tongue.gif
bakofoil
It doesn't bother me if people say thank you as long as they are generally pleasant and not snarky when dealing with questions. I think generally I make a point of thanking people and definitely did so as a newbie. I relied on VJ a LOT and would never take for granted the help I got then and still receive now.
JVKn'CVO
QUOTE(charlesandnessa @ Mar 20 2008, 10:08 AM) *
QUOTE(JVKn @ Mar 19 2008, 07:41 PM) *
Not at all. Actually, the other way around. With a few exceptions, I'm not fond of posts that say only "thank you!" or just have one smiley.
There are exceptions, but if I have to scroll 7 pages to find an actual post, it bugs me ranting33va.gif

Saludos,
Caro

Not at all. Actually, the other way around. With a few exceptions, I'm not fond of posts that say only "thank you!" or just have one smiley.
There are exceptions, but if I have to scroll 7 pages to find an actual post, it bugs me ranting33va.gif

Saludos,
Caro

tongue_ss.gif


headbonk.gif

Saludos,
Caro
Nagishkaw
whistling.gif
JVKn'CVO
QUOTE(Nagishkaw @ Mar 21 2008, 12:08 AM) *
whistling.gif


laughing.gif Hi Nagi, how's it going? luv.gif

Saludos,
caro
charles!
QUOTE(JVKn @ Mar 20 2008, 10:25 PM) *
QUOTE(Nagishkaw @ Mar 21 2008, 12:08 AM) *
whistling.gif


laughing.gif Hi Nagi, how's it going? luv.gif

Saludos,
caro

how come nagi posts one smiley and she gets a hi, i post a smiley and i get bonked! cray5ol.gif
eau_xplain
QUOTE(LaL @ Mar 19 2008, 08:37 AM) *
Thank you's are cool, but it bugs me more when someone asks the same question (or states the should-now be corrected info) over and over again despite it being answered a few times over previously. I just wind up ignoring the subsequent requests.

lol @ Jenn luv.gif


It doesn't bother me if I don't get a "thank you" for my responses. But I am usually happily surprised whenever I do get a thank you luv.gif

I am with LaL about posters who keep asking the same question even though they have already received answers.
panamania79
QUOTE(Crikey! @ Mar 19 2008, 05:53 AM) *
After you and/or other members have gone out of their way to politely respond to another member's question, does it bother you that they don't post a thank you for your input?


Not really.Some people are greatful and some are not.
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