Just look at the men, nice bunch of guys, just waiting to strike a friendship up with you.
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Seems like these men who marry for GC should spend some time on the general population in our lovely prisons. Than send them home, so they can share the lovely memories of their time spent with Baba.
Just look at the men, nice bunch of guys, just waiting to strike a friendship up with you.
Just look at the men, nice bunch of guys, just waiting to strike a friendship up with you.
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Another consequence is, because of people like that, foreign spouses/fiance(e)s are usually thought to be using the USC until they can prove otherwise.
Saludos,
Caro
Saludos,
Caro
Ya!! It's a sad state of affairs. This stereotype has developed over MANY years and will be very hard to deconstruct.
What would really interest me is to have cold hard figures of how many marriages end because the relationship didnt work, and how many end because the person got what they wanted and left. Not some concocted/opinionated figures.. but TRUE facts.
Its a very easy out to say "HE/SHE used me!!"
anyway....
Cstacee - 09:52am Jun 23, 2003 (136. 185/1145)
Need a divorce.
I was married in 1997 to a man in Jordan. I filed all of the paperwork when to the adjustment of staus interview in 1998, and never heard anything else. He never came to the US because he wanted to make sure everything was OK in Jordan and wanted to receive his visa before he left Jordan. In 1999, I was told that he had married aMuslim woman in Jordan, and did not want to come here anymore. I have had no contact with him since. Recently, I have decided to remarry, and contacted his cousins who are in my city to have a copy of my divorce papers sent from Jordan. I found out that he never divorced me. Now I have called divorce lawyers who say to call immigration lawyers, and immigration lawyers who say to call divorce lawyers. Even the courthouse where I live tell me that I am unble to obtain a divorce, because he is in another country and can't be served by Sheriffs. What can I do?
How does this apply to my quote, please?
Also, how can one apply for AOS if the beneficiary has never been to the US? What exactly was she adjusting?
Second, cant she asked for an islamic divorce by means that he has been "away" form her for an exdended period? I think this is grounds. Someone correct me if Im wrong here please. After solid, proven efforts to get US divorce papers signed by the other party, you can move forward with it on your own. (again, someone please correct me if Im wrong) It seems that you wouldnt be "trapped" in a marriage by (by US laws and standards) just because the other party wont sign ????
Lisa
Yes, that "quote" is completely wrong.
You can file a petition in court, then make a good faith effort with your attorney to contact the party. If you have been abandoned - you can get an ex-parte divorce. No problem. I almost got one myself - um - but decided not to - I chased that "thing" down - and shamed it well. [ I just thought of a few "choice" words in my head while thinking of that ... thing. ]
You just need to wait 6 months for a "reasonable" time tp pass for contact by the defendant.
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People shouldn't post misinformation like that ... On legal subjects, and other subjects which they are evidently NOT knowledgeable on.
Thanks, I thought it sounded like complete and utter nonsense.
Im obviously not a lawyer, but I do have some common sense.. hee hee
Lisa
actually Lisa there is some truth to it
Here in Florida I know some women women stuck in foreign marriages they cannot get out of
The reason is that florida says you can get divorce with publishing in a newspaper...perhaps the responder can get divorced in jordann but i cant easily..Im not a resident or former one. I would have to show I mailed something and it was returned and algeria will not do this.There is also no service of papers there or membership in any reciprocal group (they are NOT members of the hague)If my child was taken there I have no rights to force my husband to send her back and he can divorce me without service just cause he feels like it and I cant do the same...Its the mudawana there...so overseas marriages that go south can sometimes be very dangerous to the american.....there are cases of children still kept in algeria and egupt from their american mothers...The laws are NOT like here...It should not be minimised ...I have a close friend whos children have been in tunisia for 2 years and she cannot take them out....shes a floridian too...
Ya, I know about the custody laws.
As far as divorce laws.. Im sure there is a judge somewhere to hear the case and use some good judgment. Or, one would hope so anyway.
That is very sad about your friend... I would be on a plane asap.... I guess I would die there trying to get my children back if I had to. Poor thing.
It not the judge issue...When you divorce someone without service...you have to show a returned letter.This is very hard to do overseas...if you can get a letter thats says adressee unknown,then you can publish for 6 months..its getting the letter returned....otherwise you have to serve them.If the overseas husband is NOT cooperative,then you can be trapped in a marriage you cannot easily extricate them from....Plane rides over there do not help...mena law prevails...this is something to consider when you have kids....watching this happen to a girl I have known 7 years hasnt been easy
Ya, thats why I said I would die trying. I have a 4 year old son, and would do ANYTHING to keep him safe.. (or die trying)
As far as the husband not being cooperative.. thats why I was thinking/hoping a judge would be able to look at the case and realize that all attempts were made. As far as I have ever read and heard, no one can be "stuck" in a marriage in America. But it sounds like Florida is quite difficult to deal with in such matters.
I feel sorry for anyone who has had to go through something like that.
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