QUOTE(pushbrk @ Mar 15 2008, 02:45 AM)

QUOTE(Paula&Minya @ Mar 14 2008, 04:51 PM)

QUOTE(ihavenoclue @ Mar 14 2008, 06:43 PM)

i am seeing a lawyer next week, so i shall see what can be done..the fact that we have had contact whilst the divorce was in process and the fact that i have emails text messeges and instant msgs from her saying things like she loves me etc then thats some real good proof there that the marraige was legit..i have tax forms and marriage license bank staements, and affidavits thats bout it for now
It seems to me that you have some 'documentation' that your marriage was bona-fide while it lasted. You have tax-returns (filing as a married couple, i assume) and your common bank statements, and your affidavits.
DM's advice, on withdrawing your initial application and re-applying is spot-on.
Good luck,
-P
So, since there's a chance you'll never see any documents your wife may have destroyed or anything back from USCIS, it would seem productive to focus on how to proceed accordingly. Does the lack of any of the documents you no longer have, prevent you from withdrawing and filing again? If so, which documents? Can they be obtained again?
My approach to problem solving is to clearly identify the details of the problem and take them on one step at a time. Not your cup of tea? Then no need to respond. I'm here to help, not argue or take abuse.
OMG! Abuse? Oh, please don't be so melodramatic, and try not to personalize, it takes the topic waaaay off course, and this is not about "you" or "me" it is all about answering the OP's questions. Sound familiar

I have a problem when a member gives misinformation, clearly inaccurate information, and then when corrected either ignores the matter entirely, or a objects to something else.
The point is pushbrk, that this comment could be relied upon to the OP's detriment, without more clarification.
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You don't need them. File to adjust status on your own.
The "harm" in sending copies of the documents to you is simply that you are not "entitled" to them, even if it would be a nice thing to do. Why do you need them?
First, let's all agree to use proper terminology, to begin with. This stage is the "removal of conditions". While many refer to it as an adjustment of status, status is not adjusted, but terms and/or conditions attached to that status are lifted, or removed.
Secondly, the statement "you don't need them" could be misinterpreted. He does need documentation
[emphasis added], in fact, I'd be willing to say that if his is the average case of a divorced alien at this stage in the process, he needs ALL of the documentation he refers to having been thrown away that was part of the submission for AOS and the joint I-751. I am sure you wanted to convey that he doesn't need "those"
[emphasis added] particular copies of documentation, as he could probably, with a little time, create the whole collection again, but not everyone on this board is in your line of work, and even in your line of work, it is customary to provide indication of how you wish the information to be read!
Thirdly, there is no "harm" done to USCIS to send him his documents. USCIS doesn't look upon returning documents in terms of whether or not is a bother. Aliens that wish any original documentation returned simply submit a G-884.
And finally, he is fully entitled to what he has submitted, see the above form to be used in such an instance. And furthermore, he is fully "entitled"
[emphasis added]to see his A-file, save for a couple of proprietary pieces, if he is prepared to submit a FOIA request!