does it matter when the examples of our bank statements are randomly dated, meaning i cant find our bank statements in order but found a couple from last year and one from this yr...should that be ok? Plus our bill statements are the same

They are not looking at the balances, they just want to see co-mingling of funds, and that it is a joint account.

Yes they do look at balances. They want to see if the accounts are being used for real, or just set up and have limited activity and real small balance. The IO at our AOS interview said that is something that USCIS checks to see if the joint account truely is "joint".
Yes, I realize you are removing conditions, but since the IO mentioned this about the wasy USCIS views joint accounts, I'd thought I'd mention it.

umm, I didn't even send in the whole bank statement ..lol just the page that showed it was a joint account and the address..

Same here. I just sent in the front page. The account activity was not included.