QUOTE(ks71905 @ Mar 21 2008, 03:58 PM)

Do not scoop litter when pregnant....Dont even get close to dirty litter....It can cause severe deformation...my nurse discussed it with me at my 1st doc appt...Kitty litter...Not good!!
Dirty kitty litter cannot cause deformation.
What your nurse SHOULD have told you, and many are totally either uninformed or just plain stupidly spreading rumors, is that IF your cat carries TOXOPLASMA, and IF you were to contract it, then this is the disease in question in the warning of coming into contact with fecal matter (and thus the warning about kitty litter). Cats are not the sole carriers of toxoplasmosa, and most people who carry it (up to 20% of the population in Hawaii) catch it from consuming undercooked meat. Not all cats carry toxoplasmosa, and you have to ingest it to catch it. So basically, you have to touch the fecal matter then somehow injest said fecal matter if you are going with the scenario for kitty boxes. This is also assuming your cat carries toxo.
Then, once you catch it, you have a low percentage of passing it on to the fetus. You must be newly infected when pregnant. This, hopefully you are all catching on, involves a lot of low percentages and Ifs. You have (in my opinion, as long as you have a normal dislike of touching fecal matter and then touching your mouth) a better chance of catching it by touching affected fruits and vegetables that have contamination on them or eating undercooked meat. Cats catch it from eating raw infected animals and then also from the fecal matter of infected cats (you know how they are always cleaning themselves and others). if you cats are indoors, the chances of them having toxo is really low. They'd likely have to catch it from some insect or your food you fed them.
Here is the CDC fact sheet.
Toxoplasmosis here is the CDC fact sheet protion for pregnancy:
pregnancy and toxoplasmosisWhen I was growing up, we had 3 cats with toxo. I may or may not show elevated antibodies, which is their only test for the disease-- but it doesn't prove if you have it or not, only exposure. I know several women who were flat out told by their doctor to drop their cats off at the shelter and dump them when they became pregnant. I cannot believe the incredible ignorance perpeturated in the medical community about this disease. It's amazing. It's as if they are peddling Santa and magic as real things. For as much as they claim to be based in science (which they are only partially using science in our western medicine and it, in itself, is NOT a science), they really use a lot of fear and suspicion against women-- especially pregnant women. The ammount of times they mislead women about osteoporosis, menopause, fertility, pregnancy, and especially giving birth-- it's a wonder we don't wise up and revolt. Toxo reminds me of the AIDS scare of the 80s and early 90s and all the rumors the medical community perpetuated at that point as well.
Bridget-- if your cats are indoor cats, and if you are worried, you can always test them for the toxo antibodies. If you have had these cats from before you were pregnant (and you have) then you will have likely either caught it or not by now. Believe me, unless you are immuno-compromised, it's difficult to catch it from their fecal matter as we tend to not touch it then touch our mouths-- we usually wash our hands instead.
QUOTE(sereia @ Mar 21 2008, 04:14 PM)

speaking of names... do all of you plan to always have arabic names for the baby? or did any of you do western names also? just curious! seems like everyone goes with the arabic for the most part!
We're doing names that work for both-- Noah, Adam, Leyna (it's Hebrew so really neither), Dalia (I want to toss an H into the english), Sarah... That kind of thing.