QUOTE(stephiejoyce @ Mar 12 2008, 08:13 AM)

But how does border patrol know what's really going on? The sitaution that I am in, seriously makes me want to call border patrol and tell them exactly who is doing this. Is this something that I should take action on or just let go?
There are a number of Canadians who live in border cities who cross over daily to work in the US. They have the appropriate visas for employment. I am not sure if getting married to an American, but still retaining a residence in Canada and crossing the border daily to go to work on their employment type visa is illegal or not. If they were living in the US with their spouse and still had the employment visa, I am not sure if they are in violation or not. Where I used to live there were lots of nurses who would work 12 hour shifts in the US for 3 days a week, staying overnight there in a room, and then returning home to Canada on their off days. There was a special visa specifically for nurses as they were in short supply in the US at the time.
If a border guard suspects that the individual is in violation of a visa, or if they are actually 'living' in the US without a proper visa they will stop and question the individual or deny them entry until they can prove otherwise. I think you may not have full possessions of the facts. On what type of visa is your acquaintance working in the States? There are also cross border individuals who live in one country and attend school/university every day in the other crossing the border on a regular basis. Again, they require student visas to do so. At what point marriage to a citizen of the other country negates their existing visa - especially if they retain a daily residence on their own side of the border - is something that you would need to find out before you filed a complaint.
It works both ways as well - Canadians working in the US and Americans working in Canada.
I am doing it legally, I am waiting for my CR1 visa to be approved and once that is in my hand I will be moving down to Washington and commuting back and forth every day to B.C.
When I travel back and forth now for weekends, I carry paperwork to prove I still live in Canada.