QUOTE(BMJ @ May 26 2008, 01:03 AM)

I keep checking every day to see if my case has been touched, this is so frustrating, not sure who else is like me but not having any control in this and it being left up to others to determain my life, Mark's life, and that of the kids just about kills me. I have good days and bad, on the good days I am full of faith, and all smiles, on the bad days I am filled with what ifs and I am scared.
I really need to try and relax more, lately I have had a lot of stress/anxiety attacks because of how overwhelming this all is having to count on other people to do their part. It is great to have people here to talk to who are going through the same process we are, and it helps to know we are not alone.
I need to remember to relax a bit more and trust that God will see us through this.
Good luck everyone and God bless! Make sure you tell us when you hear something!
I completely understand...I have those days when I know it will be ok and I know that I can make it through the wait. Then I have those days where the world is caving in and I just want it to be over and I don't think I can make it another day...but I have to, that's all we can do. We'll make it through this. Right now the USCIS website seems to be broken...there is a January filer who received their NOA2 by mail and their petition is at the foreign embassy, but the USCIS website is still saying they are "pending approval". It doesn't stop me from logging in at least twice a day...but it does give me a little bit comfort when there is nothing new. K1 visas are almost NEVER rejected unless you don't have proof that you've met. Even then...they'll RFE and demand more evidence...they won't just deny it. Our approvals WILL COME, a year from now we'll all be married and this wait will be like a nightmare...horrible, but over. Just keep the faith, we're going through this for a reason...and it's worth it. *hug*