My husband and I are so upset, a good friend had agreed to be our joint sponser because my husband doesn't make enough to make the requirements. She has had the forms for over two weeks and today when I called to ask how she was coming with the forms because we needed to submit them to complete our case she told me after reading the forms she is having concerns and doesnt feel comfortable doing it (not that she doesnt trust us, it is the government she doesnt trust!). I told her that if anything ever happened to my husband I would just move back to Canada so she didnt have to worry. We are now trying to find another joint sponser, don't know what we will do if we can't find anyone. The crazy thing is that I am still going to work in Canada because we live so close to the border and do not need support. There is something in the instructions about using the intending immigrant's income if it is going to continue from the same source but when I called NVC before about it they said it had to be U.S. income (which doesnt make sense because how could it be U.S. income if you were not allowed to work in the U.S.). Here is the part in the instructions.
If the intending immigrant is your spouse, his or her income can be included if it will continue from the same source after he or she obtains lawful permanent resident status.
I am going to call the NVC again in the morning to ask again, maybe I will get a different answer (hopefully the one we want to hear)
Just when we thought we were almost finished and it wouldnt be too long until we can live together permanently. I know it will work out in the end but it so stressful!
