QUOTE(vee @ Mar 5 2008, 04:50 PM)

Geez
This is not fair. my relationship is so concrete and real we didnt even meet on internet like the norm those r the relationships people need to watch, because predators thrive online and we all know that . They can also do it in person but u would expect it more online u know nothing about them but what they type versus being around them in person. This is what they sent me
Please be careful with implying that relationships found on the internet cannot be real and concrete ...... I've found that a lot of people on here met their partners on the internet ..... we all connect for different reasons.
Personally I've found there to be more predators in nightclubs and bars

.... but this is
my experience
At least on the internet you have the opportunity to get to know someone better as there are no expectations .....
Out of all of my friends in England, I'm the one with the relationship which is the most real and concrete .... and
we met on the internet.
We took 2 years to get to the point of marrying, and that was with talking every day (3+ hours a night) and visits every few weeks. We are sooo close, that we hate being apart for 5 minutes, let alone for months on end with no view of a finish line
The geography is such a crying shame.
I understand that you believe people have more opportunity to lie on the internet, but trust me on this .... if someone's a liar, they will be whether you meet them online or face to face.
The US Government knows what it's doing .... and infact they have a list of countries which are 'high risk' for visa fraud .... these are the one's they pay more attention to .... regardless of whether the relationship is kosher or not.
I pray you get your approval soon, as it does seem you've been waiting forever .... but please don't judge other people's relationships .... we're
all feeling the heat of being separated from our soulmates .... regardless of how we all met.
God bless you