Gurl, yuh right...nuttin nah guh suh! Cyan I seh 100% fuh sure...no, but 99.9% is pretty dyam close and yuh doan knoa what Bobby seh..."time will tell!"

Bless,
Gill

Girl mi not even know...mi hear smaddy seh I could but neva did..

Hush Kimmy (((Hugs))) I hope you feel better soon. I have a mad headache as well and all the tablets I have taken so far hasn't touched it a bit

We both need to stop. This week was not a good week and there this women at work last weekend we both weighed in, whom ever loose the most each week buys the other one lunch. I think i'll be buying her lunch with all the junk I ate this week...The only thing that could save me is the workin out.

I think it is a good thing. I've known some people in my life who were crazy jealous and it bugged me to no end.

I think it all boils down to trusting the other person.

I'd tell em fi keep dem dutty mout close!! This is the stuff that I think so many of us on the yardie thread have issues with, friends, family cowokers, joe schmoe on the street trying fi tell yuh that yuh man no good cause they just got a "hunch", from what they hear about "jamaican men". If its not hard facts, then why stir the pot in someones relationship, that does nothing but cause extra stress in the relationship and will probably make your friendship alot more distant.

JG,

my husband is like that he thinks it's a great thing..mi tell him he wouldn't know if i ever cheated on him

Honestly, I don't think she would have ever got to that "friend" status with me, If she was that type. Now if she was already my "friend" cause like I said shyt happens, then u probaby right, but I'd still be busy when she call me....

Gill check ur PM



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lol....mi did look pan unu pic and tink unu match

But this never works. No woman is gonna listen to another woman tell her about her man....we are just too stubborn that way. I say yall all adults deal wit yuh own problems when dem arise. unless she ASK you something, then say nothing until you have HARD evidence that something bad is happening.

It's so much better then the alternative, Kimmy. Kashi is a wise man.

My husband is like that too. And, I love it.

yea ..tank God !

Good question, I don't know. Yep it feels good. If I'm lookin good he'll seh ah wha a boyfriend u a go look , but I'm thinkin not, I know when I'm feeling a bit jealous, mosly when I'm insecure, and not feeling good about myself and I know thats not a good thing. I'm guessin it shouldn't be a good thing for him either, but who's perfect?

Gill,

I'm right behind you. Remember my family already start pon mi back in September in Jamaica. Bout mi look like im madah...damn brite. Mi tell dem seh...see FLAT BRIDGE deh...go chuck aff a it. I think my mom will give me the hardest time, but like you seh...u a big ooman.

Woo! well tell me! Cause if me ah find dis ere out mi ah box im dung!!

How u a do Kimmy?

I would feel extra if I cheated...I would tell on myself... that what I tell him, You think I've gone thought all the stuff to look at you everyday an den go out and get the next man...what sense dose that make.

Lawny mi deh yah..mi find out Horlicks no wuk nor does turkey hot dogs mi head deh yah kill mi same way...wah u deh pon..afta u no look like him modda inna di pic..ppl out a order eein man

You know I really do think it is seperation frustration on his part. he is not dealing with it at all. he told me that sometimes he misses and needs me so much and that he wonders if i feel the same, and when i don't send him little affectionate notes and stuff he starts to feel depressed. I realize that I get so much support from you ladies and VJ and I kind of know whats going on in the process and he doesnt have that. He is kinda in limbo, not truly understanding why it takes so long even if I try to explain it to him. I do think that even though he wants more time, we need to take a break an talk a bit less. Cause I start to get frustrated and I'm usually really easy going, he's always been a bit more anxious with things. Thanks so much for all your supprt ladies.. love yuh!

Noooooo...your husband looks genuine, he passed the JAEssumption test

don't they make teh cutest couple

Woiee!! wear yuh studs gyal wear yuh studs!! nah wear deh loops dem!

I could do that, but it's too much like spending my OWN money on a present lol!

I didn't know they called that "extreme" bowling? Thats the only bowling mi ever do, haha.

you are funny, english couldn't say anything to u, because she neva have any evidence .lol. Lawny did see him a crossroads a whine up pon somebady, but true she a yuh good good friend she never say a ting. cause she cameraphone nah work, put mi woulda at least mention it in passing.




English,

i'm loving it, now u a mek up u own words.

dats, right English u bettah coem wid evidence.....at least mi can count pon yuh Jengs ..tanks

Nah.....all our money goes into the same accounts. At least that way, I am ASSURED I will get something I really want!

yup same here....my friends were so excited for him to come here...then when he was here....the calls stopped....

No JENGS, mi nevah see, but I've people tell me things. I don't brother him though. In the past I would ask and he would say no he don't know such and such. Then come to find out, he knew the person for years. So, it's all good. WHAT YOU DO IN THE DARK, will one day come to LIGHT (grannie again).

Gill, mi olda sista is the gossip network fi mi fambly. I hate it!! She was the one who told my dad of my engagement before I could do it. And she was the one who spread all this negative thinking and energy about him while I was planning my wedding. Thus making half my family not even support my engagement and not plan to go to my wedding. And don't get me started at how she went on at the wedding. Mi swear!!! Mi wan fi box her right then and there inna mi wedding dress!

back from the dr.s...i will be so glad when i am done with this clinic....they make me wanna scream.....
but on a good note....the baby's heart rate is great in good position....butt up.... and everything seems to be going as planned.....

Whew! Thank Gawd! cause yuh kno mi nah gwaan deal wit dat.

I thought u did tell anyone, I did the same thing, i didn't tell everyone because originally i had planned to have a wedding up here, but after but they all knew and said oh you never tell me u was getting married, mi just seh, anyway, this is my husband and this is my daughter, because mi never tell mi pregnant either...cause nobody nah tell mi nuttin same way.

I said she might start thinking about it, I really wouldn't expect a yes u right, right then and there, but let her do her own check and it doesn't have to be about green card, sometimes people use people for place to live an stuff like that.

ooohhh!! he's lonely, mr jengles suffered from this. he used to come home and twiddle his thumbs and just talk to me. to solve this problem, i traveled down there more, he paid for a couple of trips but this was during low season and i'm coming from nyc. i was there at least every six weeks. this way soon after i left he had something to look forward too, can you do shorter but more frequent trips??




right??? mek mi go home and e-mail yah a picture, but people say we look like brother and sister, me nuh see it but is what dem seh

that was jealousy, she married???

dyam come in like , mi a write to meself

Gosh is it Friday yet? I am so tired and my head a kill me

So what's the next topic? We a go through dem like foolishness

haha, this what people say about us all the time too. We walk around in JA and people like "a who dis, yuh sista?" im like, " nah, mi wife dis!" Then yuh hear a couple ah bumbo's and rass' and dem seh, " ah wha?! Mi seh yuh look same way!" lawd mi tell yuh, Sometimes I'm like ok, mek mi juss kiss yuh dung, when mi first meet yuh friend dem, so dem nah tink mi yuh sista.

yeah it was some serious jealousy. She not married but "supposedly" engaged and then not engaged...who knows. But get this.....she was supposed to get my dad from his hotel day of wedding. Why was i already like 1.5hrs late for my wedding cause people left me at the hotel by myself. Then when i finally get there, my dad is MIA. I'm pissed, cause I think he's not trying to walk me down the aisle or something. So I say I'll walk mi own rass self. Den dem seh no no, yuh cyaan do dat. So a brother frum mi husband church walk me. My dad....never been to JA, had to hail his own taxi and got to the site while I was at the alter.....all cause my sister didn't go get him. WOOOIIIEEEE!!!! Mi on fiyah!!!!! So then she get mad all day at the wedding cause people start fi chat so how she nah want mi dadfi walk mi (the younger sister) down the aisle before im walk har.......lawd god, if I didn't have Evan there, and just the spirit to enjoy being withhim and getting married that day i swear yuh would heard ol head of dutty wud cum out mi mout!

come up with something, Mi done, who's next?? oh wait u had your turn

nope never lost any friends but once my cousin seen my ex in a car with a chick i heard he was messing around with she follow the car and cuss him out then came and got me thats was so funny

Whoa! She is jealous something awful I can't believe she pulled all of that and on your wedding day of all day Mi woulda vex and cuss some dutty wuds Cyaan tek dat kinda foolishness!

that is bullsh!t, on the real, i'm just shaking my head, she could have done better than that. but i can do u one better, my sister baby father is mr jengles twin. and mi done.

Someone muss have a question or dilemma?!? Yuh cousin brodda mother auntie nah have no problems? Mi knoa sey smaddy have sumting dem a wonda about and dem juss afraid fi ask. Come out wid it! Mek we chat sumting else fi deh ress of deh day