You all are making me reflect back today.
Andre and I talked every day for hours a day when we were seperated. I can only remember a few arguments. Otherwise, we used the time to get to know each other better and better. We talked about some crazy stuff all the time. Today, it's much the same. I still talk to him a few times a day via the phone, especially if our schedules conflict. And, we'll sit for hours and talk about crazy stuff, liking the double rocker on our back porch best of all. It's one of my favorite things about us.
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QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 10:11 AM) 
Hey Jamie, did you get any presents????
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Dang,
Have to go to HR since the girl I was working with filed a grievance against me last week. I cannot work with her becuase of her body order and HR knows about this. It's very OFFENSIVE. I'm not the only one that has complained to her manager. So, she goes and tells them that I cuss her out in my language in front of a room of people. But I think the real reason is does not like me becuase I'm Jamaican and her EX (is also JAMAICAN)...so here we go. I think I'll sit on my HANDS for this meeting. I'll bring a jar of VASELINE just in case
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Very smart man.
Have to go to HR since the girl I was working with filed a grievance against me last week. I cannot work with her becuase of her body order and HR knows about this. It's very OFFENSIVE. I'm not the only one that has complained to her manager. So, she goes and tells them that I cuss her out in my language in front of a room of people. But I think the real reason is does not like me becuase I'm Jamaican and her EX (is also JAMAICAN)...so here we go. I think I'll sit on my HANDS for this meeting. I'll bring a jar of VASELINE just in case
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 6 2008, 11:16 AM)
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 10:11 AM)
Hey Jamie, did you get any presents????
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Very smart man.
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 11:11 AM)
Hey Jamie, did you get any presents????
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
de man feed yuh pon ya birthday and yuh a complain....last year mr jengles got me a bottle of wine and had someone make a fruitcake for me...how about i was around 5 months pregnant...
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 6 2008, 11:18 AM)
Dang,
Have to go to HR since the girl I was working with filed a grievance against me last week. I cannot work with her becuase of her body order and HR knows about this. It's very OFFENSIVE. I'm not the only one that has complained to her manager. So, she goes and tells them that I cuss her out in my language in front of a room of people. But I think the real reason is does not like me becuase I'm Jamaican and her EX (is also JAMAICAN)...so here we go. I think I'll sit on my HANDS for this meeting. I'll bring a jar of VASELINE just in case
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Very smart man.
Have to go to HR since the girl I was working with filed a grievance against me last week. I cannot work with her becuase of her body order and HR knows about this. It's very OFFENSIVE. I'm not the only one that has complained to her manager. So, she goes and tells them that I cuss her out in my language in front of a room of people. But I think the real reason is does not like me becuase I'm Jamaican and her EX (is also JAMAICAN)...so here we go. I think I'll sit on my HANDS for this meeting. I'll bring a jar of VASELINE just in case
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 6 2008, 11:16 AM)
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 10:11 AM)
Hey Jamie, did you get any presents????
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Very smart man.
Is this the same girl, who said doesn't your son have a father??
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 6 2008, 11:14 AM)
You all are making me reflect back today.
Andre and I talked every day for hours a day when we were seperated. I can only remember a few arguments. Otherwise, we used the time to get to know each other better and better. We talked about some crazy stuff all the time. Today, it's much the same. I still talk to him a few times a day via the phone, especially if our schedules conflict. And, we'll sit for hours and talk about crazy stuff, liking the double rocker on our back porch best of all. It's one of my favorite things about us.
Andre and I talked every day for hours a day when we were seperated. I can only remember a few arguments. Otherwise, we used the time to get to know each other better and better. We talked about some crazy stuff all the time. Today, it's much the same. I still talk to him a few times a day via the phone, especially if our schedules conflict. And, we'll sit for hours and talk about crazy stuff, liking the double rocker on our back porch best of all. It's one of my favorite things about us.
I have to work on this when mr jengles comes, back he had gotten so used to us talking through out the day when he was in j.a. and I slacked off when he came up, because to me i'm thinking i'm going home to you, so i'll talk to u when i get there
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 10:32 AM)
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 6 2008, 11:18 AM)
Dang,
Have to go to HR since the girl I was working with filed a grievance against me last week. I cannot work with her becuase of her body order and HR knows about this. It's very OFFENSIVE. I'm not the only one that has complained to her manager. So, she goes and tells them that I cuss her out in my language in front of a room of people. But I think the real reason is does not like me becuase I'm Jamaican and her EX (is also JAMAICAN)...so here we go. I think I'll sit on my HANDS for this meeting. I'll bring a jar of VASELINE just in case
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Very smart man.
Have to go to HR since the girl I was working with filed a grievance against me last week. I cannot work with her becuase of her body order and HR knows about this. It's very OFFENSIVE. I'm not the only one that has complained to her manager. So, she goes and tells them that I cuss her out in my language in front of a room of people. But I think the real reason is does not like me becuase I'm Jamaican and her EX (is also JAMAICAN)...so here we go. I think I'll sit on my HANDS for this meeting. I'll bring a jar of VASELINE just in case
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 6 2008, 11:16 AM)
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 10:11 AM)
Hey Jamie, did you get any presents????
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Very smart man.
Is this the same girl, who said doesn't your son have a father??
Hang in there Tre.
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 11:32 AM)
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 6 2008, 11:18 AM)
Dang,
Have to go to HR since the girl I was working with filed a grievance against me last week. I cannot work with her becuase of her body order and HR knows about this. It's very OFFENSIVE. I'm not the only one that has complained to her manager. So, she goes and tells them that I cuss her out in my language in front of a room of people. But I think the real reason is does not like me becuase I'm Jamaican and her EX (is also JAMAICAN)...so here we go. I think I'll sit on my HANDS for this meeting. I'll bring a jar of VASELINE just in case
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Very smart man.
Have to go to HR since the girl I was working with filed a grievance against me last week. I cannot work with her becuase of her body order and HR knows about this. It's very OFFENSIVE. I'm not the only one that has complained to her manager. So, she goes and tells them that I cuss her out in my language in front of a room of people. But I think the real reason is does not like me becuase I'm Jamaican and her EX (is also JAMAICAN)...so here we go. I think I'll sit on my HANDS for this meeting. I'll bring a jar of VASELINE just in case
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 6 2008, 11:16 AM)
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 10:11 AM)
Hey Jamie, did you get any presents????
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Very smart man.
Is this the same girl, who said doesn't your son have a father??
Yes, a di same one. She was totally out of line. Well, the meeting lasted all of 7 minutes. She didn't know that I had people backing me. Now, she's totally EMBRASSED about her odor. She was told to apologize to me, but she got up and walked out. I told the HR manager that she makes comments about Jamaicans all the time (and I don't go running to HR) to file a grievance. So, now they moved her out of my work group. THANK THE LORD! Now, I can BREATHE a sign of RELIEF.
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 6 2008, 11:55 AM)
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 11:32 AM)
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 6 2008, 11:18 AM)
Dang,
Have to go to HR since the girl I was working with filed a grievance against me last week. I cannot work with her becuase of her body order and HR knows about this. It's very OFFENSIVE. I'm not the only one that has complained to her manager. So, she goes and tells them that I cuss her out in my language in front of a room of people. But I think the real reason is does not like me becuase I'm Jamaican and her EX (is also JAMAICAN)...so here we go. I think I'll sit on my HANDS for this meeting. I'll bring a jar of VASELINE just in case
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Very smart man.
Have to go to HR since the girl I was working with filed a grievance against me last week. I cannot work with her becuase of her body order and HR knows about this. It's very OFFENSIVE. I'm not the only one that has complained to her manager. So, she goes and tells them that I cuss her out in my language in front of a room of people. But I think the real reason is does not like me becuase I'm Jamaican and her EX (is also JAMAICAN)...so here we go. I think I'll sit on my HANDS for this meeting. I'll bring a jar of VASELINE just in case
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 6 2008, 11:16 AM)
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 10:11 AM)
Hey Jamie, did you get any presents????
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Very smart man.
Is this the same girl, who said doesn't your son have a father??
Yes, a di same one. She was totally out of line. Well, the meeting lasted all of 7 minutes. She didn't know that I had people backing me. Now, she's totally EMBRASSED about her odor. She was told to apologize to me, but she got up and walked out. I told the HR manager that she makes comments about Jamaicans all the time (and I don't go running to HR) to file a grievance. So, now they moved her out of my work group. THANK THE LORD! Now, I can BREATHE a sign of RELIEF.
a sigh of relief and a breath of fresh air. lol
good for you, she started it and then wanted to turn around and file a complaint against you. dumb
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 6 2008, 11:55 AM)
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 11:32 AM)
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 6 2008, 11:18 AM)
Dang,
Have to go to HR since the girl I was working with filed a grievance against me last week. I cannot work with her becuase of her body order and HR knows about this. It's very OFFENSIVE. I'm not the only one that has complained to her manager. So, she goes and tells them that I cuss her out in my language in front of a room of people. But I think the real reason is does not like me becuase I'm Jamaican and her EX (is also JAMAICAN)...so here we go. I think I'll sit on my HANDS for this meeting. I'll bring a jar of VASELINE just in case
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Very smart man.
Have to go to HR since the girl I was working with filed a grievance against me last week. I cannot work with her becuase of her body order and HR knows about this. It's very OFFENSIVE. I'm not the only one that has complained to her manager. So, she goes and tells them that I cuss her out in my language in front of a room of people. But I think the real reason is does not like me becuase I'm Jamaican and her EX (is also JAMAICAN)...so here we go. I think I'll sit on my HANDS for this meeting. I'll bring a jar of VASELINE just in case
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 6 2008, 11:16 AM)
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 10:11 AM)
Hey Jamie, did you get any presents????
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Very smart man.
Is this the same girl, who said doesn't your son have a father??
Yes, a di same one. She was totally out of line. Well, the meeting lasted all of 7 minutes. She didn't know that I had people backing me. Now, she's totally EMBRASSED about her odor. She was told to apologize to me, but she got up and walked out. I told the HR manager that she makes comments about Jamaicans all the time (and I don't go running to HR) to file a grievance. So, now they moved her out of my work group. THANK THE LORD! Now, I can BREATHE a sign of RELIEF.
and BREATHE in some FRESH AIR
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 6 2008, 11:55 AM)
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 11:32 AM)
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 6 2008, 11:18 AM)
Dang,
Have to go to HR since the girl I was working with filed a grievance against me last week. I cannot work with her becuase of her body order and HR knows about this. It's very OFFENSIVE. I'm not the only one that has complained to her manager. So, she goes and tells them that I cuss her out in my language in front of a room of people. But I think the real reason is does not like me becuase I'm Jamaican and her EX (is also JAMAICAN)...so here we go. I think I'll sit on my HANDS for this meeting. I'll bring a jar of VASELINE just in case
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Very smart man.
Have to go to HR since the girl I was working with filed a grievance against me last week. I cannot work with her becuase of her body order and HR knows about this. It's very OFFENSIVE. I'm not the only one that has complained to her manager. So, she goes and tells them that I cuss her out in my language in front of a room of people. But I think the real reason is does not like me becuase I'm Jamaican and her EX (is also JAMAICAN)...so here we go. I think I'll sit on my HANDS for this meeting. I'll bring a jar of VASELINE just in case
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 6 2008, 11:16 AM)
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 10:11 AM)
Hey Jamie, did you get any presents????
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Very smart man.
Is this the same girl, who said doesn't your son have a father??
Yes, a di same one. She was totally out of line. Well, the meeting lasted all of 7 minutes. She didn't know that I had people backing me. Now, she's totally EMBRASSED about her odor. She was told to apologize to me, but she got up and walked out. I told the HR manager that she makes comments about Jamaicans all the time (and I don't go running to HR) to file a grievance. So, now they moved her out of my work group. THANK THE LORD! Now, I can BREATHE a sign of RELIEF.
wow i can't believe that...some people just need to grow up and be a big person about a situation instead of running to tell the teacher....people like that bug me....
Lawny thank God you got that stinking woman outta your group!
JAE - No presents...just went out to dinner which was really nice. My siblings are taking me extreme bowling tomorrow night. Bowling in the dark with black lights and some crazy music playing from 9:30-11:30 should be interesting but don't these kids know I am an old woman now and can't stay up that late I am going to have to take a nap first
JAE - No presents...just went out to dinner which was really nice. My siblings are taking me extreme bowling tomorrow night. Bowling in the dark with black lights and some crazy music playing from 9:30-11:30 should be interesting but don't these kids know I am an old woman now and can't stay up that late
I am going to have to take a nap first
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 6 2008, 11:07 AM)
Lawny thank God you got that stinking woman outta your group!
JAE - No presents...just went out to dinner which was really nice. My siblings are taking me extreme bowling tomorrow night. Bowling in the dark with black lights and some crazy music playing from 9:30-11:30 should be interesting but don't these kids know I am an old woman now and can't stay up that late I am going to have to take a nap first
JAE - No presents...just went out to dinner which was really nice. My siblings are taking me extreme bowling tomorrow night. Bowling in the dark with black lights and some crazy music playing from 9:30-11:30 should be interesting but don't these kids know I am an old woman now and can't stay up that late
I am going to have to take a nap first Oh, I love extreme bowling. So fun.
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 6 2008, 12:07 PM)
Lawny thank God you got that stinking woman outta your group!
JAE - No presents...just went out to dinner which was really nice. My siblings are taking me extreme bowling tomorrow night. Bowling in the dark with black lights and some crazy music playing from 9:30-11:30 should be interesting but don't these kids know I am an old woman now and can't stay up that late I am going to have to take a nap first
JAE - No presents...just went out to dinner which was really nice. My siblings are taking me extreme bowling tomorrow night. Bowling in the dark with black lights and some crazy music playing from 9:30-11:30 should be interesting but don't these kids know I am an old woman now and can't stay up that late
I am going to have to take a nap first I am so glad you explained what it was, for a minute there i got an impression of bowling at people. don't mind me.
QUOTE(nannygirl82 @ Mar 6 2008, 12:05 PM)
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 6 2008, 11:55 AM)
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 11:32 AM)
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 6 2008, 11:18 AM)
Dang,
Have to go to HR since the girl I was working with filed a grievance against me last week. I cannot work with her becuase of her body order and HR knows about this. It's very OFFENSIVE. I'm not the only one that has complained to her manager. So, she goes and tells them that I cuss her out in my language in front of a room of people. But I think the real reason is does not like me becuase I'm Jamaican and her EX (is also JAMAICAN)...so here we go. I think I'll sit on my HANDS for this meeting. I'll bring a jar of VASELINE just in case
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Very smart man.
Have to go to HR since the girl I was working with filed a grievance against me last week. I cannot work with her becuase of her body order and HR knows about this. It's very OFFENSIVE. I'm not the only one that has complained to her manager. So, she goes and tells them that I cuss her out in my language in front of a room of people. But I think the real reason is does not like me becuase I'm Jamaican and her EX (is also JAMAICAN)...so here we go. I think I'll sit on my HANDS for this meeting. I'll bring a jar of VASELINE just in case
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 6 2008, 11:16 AM)
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 10:11 AM)
Hey Jamie, did you get any presents????
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Very smart man.
Is this the same girl, who said doesn't your son have a father??
Yes, a di same one. She was totally out of line. Well, the meeting lasted all of 7 minutes. She didn't know that I had people backing me. Now, she's totally EMBRASSED about her odor. She was told to apologize to me, but she got up and walked out. I told the HR manager that she makes comments about Jamaicans all the time (and I don't go running to HR) to file a grievance. So, now they moved her out of my work group. THANK THE LORD! Now, I can BREATHE a sign of RELIEF.
wow i can't believe that...some people just need to grow up and be a big person about a situation instead of running to tell the teacher....people like that bug me....
Trust me. I tried to be a professional about this as possible. But when she said, DON'T YOUR SON HAVE A FATHER...I lost it. But I didn't cuss at her, I just let her know that's none of her business, I said it in Patwah, because I was so upset. She goes and tells HR I cussed her using Jamaican badwords and the people at the meeting told the HR manager they understood everything I said and heard no badwords. And trust me, the people I work with know the JAMAICAN badwords better than I do.
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 07:01 AM)
OK, my question for the day is suppose you had a friend who was in a relationship and for whatever reason, you thought the man was using her.
You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.
DO you tell her?
Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???
If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?
Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?
You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.
DO you tell her?
Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???
If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?
Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?
Hmmm that is a tough one for me. I think a lot of it depends on the friend. If it is someone I am really close with and know that she would appreciate hearing my concerns I would tell her...but only once and wouldn't make a big deal out of it...just sort of a "hey I thought you should be aware" type of talk. If I wasn't too close to the person or knew they couldn't handle it I wouldn't tell them anything unless I had hard evidence. If I had hard evidence I would tell...but again only once and what they choose to do with the evidence is their choice and I would respect their choice as they are grown people.
I would want my close friends to tell me their suspicions or present any evidence they had...but only close friends who I am really connected with. I wouldn't want someone who I am not really good friends with coming and telling me something unless they had really hard evidence.
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 11:56 AM)
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 6 2008, 11:55 AM)
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 11:32 AM)
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 6 2008, 11:18 AM)
Dang,
Have to go to HR since the girl I was working with filed a grievance against me last week. I cannot work with her becuase of her body order and HR knows about this. It's very OFFENSIVE. I'm not the only one that has complained to her manager. So, she goes and tells them that I cuss her out in my language in front of a room of people. But I think the real reason is does not like me becuase I'm Jamaican and her EX (is also JAMAICAN)...so here we go. I think I'll sit on my HANDS for this meeting. I'll bring a jar of VASELINE just in case
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Very smart man.
Have to go to HR since the girl I was working with filed a grievance against me last week. I cannot work with her becuase of her body order and HR knows about this. It's very OFFENSIVE. I'm not the only one that has complained to her manager. So, she goes and tells them that I cuss her out in my language in front of a room of people. But I think the real reason is does not like me becuase I'm Jamaican and her EX (is also JAMAICAN)...so here we go. I think I'll sit on my HANDS for this meeting. I'll bring a jar of VASELINE just in case
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 6 2008, 11:16 AM)
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 10:11 AM)
Hey Jamie, did you get any presents????
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
My dear husband gave me NOTHING (apart from dinner) so I am living vicariously through others lol!!
Mine is to the point where he'll say go buy what you want and then show me what I got you! Smart man!!!!
Very smart man.
Is this the same girl, who said doesn't your son have a father??
Yes, a di same one. She was totally out of line. Well, the meeting lasted all of 7 minutes. She didn't know that I had people backing me. Now, she's totally EMBRASSED about her odor. She was told to apologize to me, but she got up and walked out. I told the HR manager that she makes comments about Jamaicans all the time (and I don't go running to HR) to file a grievance. So, now they moved her out of my work group. THANK THE LORD! Now, I can BREATHE a sign of RELIEF.
a sigh of relief and a breath of fresh air. lol
good for you, she started it and then wanted to turn around and file a complaint against you. dumb
lol, great minds!
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 6 2008, 12:14 PM)
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 07:01 AM)
OK, my question for the day is suppose you had a friend who was in a relationship and for whatever reason, you thought the man was using her.
You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.
DO you tell her?
Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???
If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?
Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?
You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.
DO you tell her?
Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???
If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?
Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?
Hmmm that is a tough one for me. I think a lot of it depends on the friend. If it is someone I am really close with and know that she would appreciate hearing my concerns I would tell her...but only once and wouldn't make a big deal out of it...just sort of a "hey I thought you should be aware" type of talk. If I wasn't too close to the person or knew they couldn't handle it I wouldn't tell them anything unless I had hard evidence. If I had hard evidence I would tell...but again only once and what they choose to do with the evidence is their choice and I would respect their choice as they are grown people.
I would want my close friends to tell me their suspicions or present any evidence they had...but only close friends who I am really connected with. I wouldn't want someone who I am not really good friends with coming and telling me something unless they had really hard evidence.
I'm kinda different in that I would WANT to hear.
I would never let what someone said break up a relationship, but I would like the chance to hear what they think is going down, if even to be able to laugh at the notion.
I would be PISSED if someone I knew said to me AFTER the fact they thought this and that....
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 09:20 AM)
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 6 2008, 12:14 PM)
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 07:01 AM)
OK, my question for the day is suppose you had a friend who was in a relationship and for whatever reason, you thought the man was using her.
You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.
DO you tell her?
Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???
If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?
Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?
You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.
DO you tell her?
Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???
If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?
Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?
Hmmm that is a tough one for me. I think a lot of it depends on the friend. If it is someone I am really close with and know that she would appreciate hearing my concerns I would tell her...but only once and wouldn't make a big deal out of it...just sort of a "hey I thought you should be aware" type of talk. If I wasn't too close to the person or knew they couldn't handle it I wouldn't tell them anything unless I had hard evidence. If I had hard evidence I would tell...but again only once and what they choose to do with the evidence is their choice and I would respect their choice as they are grown people.
I would want my close friends to tell me their suspicions or present any evidence they had...but only close friends who I am really connected with. I wouldn't want someone who I am not really good friends with coming and telling me something unless they had really hard evidence.
I'm kinda different in that I would WANT to hear.
I would never let what someone said break up a relationship, but I would like the chance to hear what they think is going down, if even to be able to laugh at the notion.
I would be PISSED if someone I knew said to me AFTER the fact they thought this and that....
I see what you mean. I would want to hear it but only from people that are a part of my life. I wouldn't want my co-worker who has seen my spouse all of 2 times tell me what they think about my relationship but I would want my friend or family member that has actually been around us and is actively involved in my life to tell me their suspicions. It all comes down to the source of the info for me.
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 12:20 PM)
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 6 2008, 12:14 PM)
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 07:01 AM)
OK, my question for the day is suppose you had a friend who was in a relationship and for whatever reason, you thought the man was using her.
You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.
DO you tell her?
Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???
If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?
Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?
You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.
DO you tell her?
Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???
If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?
Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?
Hmmm that is a tough one for me. I think a lot of it depends on the friend. If it is someone I am really close with and know that she would appreciate hearing my concerns I would tell her...but only once and wouldn't make a big deal out of it...just sort of a "hey I thought you should be aware" type of talk. If I wasn't too close to the person or knew they couldn't handle it I wouldn't tell them anything unless I had hard evidence. If I had hard evidence I would tell...but again only once and what they choose to do with the evidence is their choice and I would respect their choice as they are grown people.
I would want my close friends to tell me their suspicions or present any evidence they had...but only close friends who I am really connected with. I wouldn't want someone who I am not really good friends with coming and telling me something unless they had really hard evidence.
I'm kinda different in that I would WANT to hear.
I would never let what someone said break up a relationship, but I would like the chance to hear what they think is going down, if even to be able to laugh at the notion.
I would be PISSED if someone I knew said to me AFTER the fact they thought this and that....
right, at that point shut up!!
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 6 2008, 12:23 PM)
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 09:20 AM)
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 6 2008, 12:14 PM)
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 07:01 AM)
OK, my question for the day is suppose you had a friend who was in a relationship and for whatever reason, you thought the man was using her.
You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.
DO you tell her?
Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???
If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?
Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?
You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.
DO you tell her?
Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???
If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?
Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?
Hmmm that is a tough one for me. I think a lot of it depends on the friend. If it is someone I am really close with and know that she would appreciate hearing my concerns I would tell her...but only once and wouldn't make a big deal out of it...just sort of a "hey I thought you should be aware" type of talk. If I wasn't too close to the person or knew they couldn't handle it I wouldn't tell them anything unless I had hard evidence. If I had hard evidence I would tell...but again only once and what they choose to do with the evidence is their choice and I would respect their choice as they are grown people.
I would want my close friends to tell me their suspicions or present any evidence they had...but only close friends who I am really connected with. I wouldn't want someone who I am not really good friends with coming and telling me something unless they had really hard evidence.
I'm kinda different in that I would WANT to hear.
I would never let what someone said break up a relationship, but I would like the chance to hear what they think is going down, if even to be able to laugh at the notion.
I would be PISSED if someone I knew said to me AFTER the fact they thought this and that....
I see what you mean. I would want to hear it but only from people that are a part of my life. I wouldn't want my co-worker who has seen my spouse all of 2 times tell me what they think about my relationship but I would want my friend or family member that has actually been around us and is actively involved in my life to tell me their suspicions. It all comes down to the source of the info for me.
right, because what do they know.
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 11:20 AM)
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 6 2008, 12:14 PM)
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 07:01 AM)
OK, my question for the day is suppose you had a friend who was in a relationship and for whatever reason, you thought the man was using her.
You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.
DO you tell her?
Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???
If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?
Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?
You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.
DO you tell her?
Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???
If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?
Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?
Hmmm that is a tough one for me. I think a lot of it depends on the friend. If it is someone I am really close with and know that she would appreciate hearing my concerns I would tell her...but only once and wouldn't make a big deal out of it...just sort of a "hey I thought you should be aware" type of talk. If I wasn't too close to the person or knew they couldn't handle it I wouldn't tell them anything unless I had hard evidence. If I had hard evidence I would tell...but again only once and what they choose to do with the evidence is their choice and I would respect their choice as they are grown people.
I would want my close friends to tell me their suspicions or present any evidence they had...but only close friends who I am really connected with. I wouldn't want someone who I am not really good friends with coming and telling me something unless they had really hard evidence.
I'm kinda different in that I would WANT to hear.
I would never let what someone said break up a relationship, but I would like the chance to hear what they think is going down, if even to be able to laugh at the notion.
I would be PISSED if someone I knew said to me AFTER the fact they thought this and that....
Exactly. I had someone tell me something my BF said and did 6 months before we broke up. He said, oh, I knew you guys were going to break up cause he did this and said that way back in July. I was like WTF didn't you tell me?
?????
has anyone lost friendships because of your relationships.
for either reason because they thought your s/o wasn't going to make u happy, he was using you or because you were happy??
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 12:40 PM)
?????
has anyone lost friendships because of your relationships.
for either reason because they thought your s/o wasn't going to make u happy, he was using you or because you were happy??
has anyone lost friendships because of your relationships.
for either reason because they thought your s/o wasn't going to make u happy, he was using you or because you were happy??
When I was with my daughter's sperm donor (wink) I lost so many friendships. That was my fault. I let him isolate me. But they were my real friends and I got them all back. They just couldnt stand there and watch me life go down the tubes....
I think I have an agreement with all my close girlfriends... if our man is messing around and we know it - we tell. And always give our honest opnion about boyfriends, husbands whatever.... I have known my 3 best friend since kindergarten!
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 11:40 AM)
?????
has anyone lost friendships because of your relationships.
for either reason because they thought your s/o wasn't going to make u happy, he was using you or because you were happy??
has anyone lost friendships because of your relationships.
for either reason because they thought your s/o wasn't going to make u happy, he was using you or because you were happy??
Nope.
QUOTE(IrieCat @ Mar 6 2008, 12:43 PM)
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 12:40 PM)
?????
has anyone lost friendships because of your relationships.
for either reason because they thought your s/o wasn't going to make u happy, he was using you or because you were happy??
has anyone lost friendships because of your relationships.
for either reason because they thought your s/o wasn't going to make u happy, he was using you or because you were happy??
When I was with my daughter's sperm donor (wink) I lost so many friendships. That was my fault. I let him isolate me. But they were my real friends and I got them all back. They just couldnt stand there and watch me life go down the tubes....
I think I have an agreement with all my close girlfriends... if our man is messing around and we know it - we tell. And always give our honest opnion about boyfriends, husbands whatever.... I have known my 3 best friend since kindergarten!
i did that in a previous relationship, but it got me closer to his family and now he hates it, because we are no longer together and his family still loves me. they invite me everywhere, my son calls his mother grandma and his sister is my daughther's godmother.
7 pages since morning. I'm like Gill now....stop it already 
.
.
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 12:40 PM)
?????
has anyone lost friendships because of your relationships.
for either reason because they thought your s/o wasn't going to make u happy, he was using you or because you were happy??
has anyone lost friendships because of your relationships.
for either reason because they thought your s/o wasn't going to make u happy, he was using you or because you were happy??
I didn't lose any friends but some of my friendships changed. These people supported me while during my long distance relationship with Damien. But when he came the calls stopped or they never ask about him. I think that's strange.
Others didn't expect Damien to do so well or we would last. They never said it but I can tell...
QUOTE(sjb1221 @ Mar 6 2008, 01:07 PM)
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 12:40 PM)
?????
has anyone lost friendships because of your relationships.
for either reason because they thought your s/o wasn't going to make u happy, he was using you or because you were happy??
has anyone lost friendships because of your relationships.
for either reason because they thought your s/o wasn't going to make u happy, he was using you or because you were happy??
I didn't lose any friends but some of my friendships changed. These people supported me while during my long distance relationship with Damien. But when he came the calls stopped or they never ask about him. I think that's strange.
Others didn't expect Damien to do so well or we would last. They never said it but I can tell...
I experienced this and i'm sort of at a loss as to why, and when i go to call, it's oh i was going to call u.
QUOTE(brownnskinn @ Mar 6 2008, 01:02 PM)
7 pages since morning. I'm like Gill now....stop it already .
.hey where you been?? having a good day so far
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 10:32 AM)
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 09:16 AM)
I actually went back and tried to see where I offended you and i'm not seeing it. I can read what i want, but I won't bother with answering them and i'm thinking u have a problem with me because I have zero with you and if you thought I did, you could have used the PM function, but it's all good.
I think sometimes through the internet the 'wrong' message can be derived from normal conversation.....I never detected attitude, or saw anything that I could construe as such though.....
Yuh hear nutting bout Mr JENgles and di scrap yawd?
I agree, I't soo easy to read between the lines, I read and reread as well and could not see the attitude, and knew Jengs was jus makin fun. bout her son.
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 6 2008, 11:07 AM)
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 09:01 AM)
OK, my question for the day is suppose you had a friend who was in a relationship and for whatever reason, you thought the man was using her.
You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.
DO you tell her?
Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???
If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?
Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?
You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.
DO you tell her?
Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???
If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?
Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?
Without evidence, I choose to stay quiet.
Ditto... and with evidence I choose to stay quiet.
QUOTE(IrieCat @ Mar 6 2008, 11:28 AM)
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 10:25 AM)
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 10:01 AM)
OK, my question for the day is suppose you had a friend who was in a relationship and for whatever reason, you thought the man was using her.
You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.
DO you tell her?
Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???
If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?
Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?
You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.
DO you tell her?
Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???
If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?
Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?
I would tel her, but it's all about the timing. don't tell her when they are all lovey dovey, wait until she complaining about something he did and then say something like. yeah i notice he always does such and such and keept it moving. she may not agree with you are say anything at all, but she will start thinking about it.
That is a good idea... make her think it is her that saw the light!
Even better, take your friend with you, he's bound to show up with the other woman, if you seen him at a certian place at different times. sometimes they just have to see it for them selves.. You can talk till your blue in the face but usually it comes off as being judgemental and many times the other person dosen't want to hear it and the friendship is lost. I don't want to come off a bad mouthing the realtionship, some lessions are just meant to be learn in the first person, when a person has had enough it will usually work it selfout. I just set back and be a listening ear.
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 6 2008, 01:07 PM)
Lawny thank God you got that stinking woman outta your group!
JAE - No presents...just went out to dinner which was really nice. My siblings are taking me extreme bowling tomorrow night. Bowling in the dark with black lights and some crazy music playing from 9:30-11:30 should be interesting but don't these kids know I am an old woman now and can't stay up that late I am going to have to take a nap first
JAE - No presents...just went out to dinner which was really nice. My siblings are taking me extreme bowling tomorrow night. Bowling in the dark with black lights and some crazy music playing from 9:30-11:30 should be interesting but don't these kids know I am an old woman now and can't stay up that late
I am going to have to take a nap first Funny old women...
QUOTE(IrieCat @ Mar 6 2008, 01:43 PM)
I have known my 3 best friend since kindergarten!
Same here. I have the same bestfriend from about 3rd grade.
I just ran an errand at lunch and a song came on that makes me think of my relationship everytime -
Anyone heard this?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=BLz2MtdHb3E
I love the words -
Anyone heard this?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=BLz2MtdHb3E
I love the words -
QUOTE(clairern @ Mar 5 2008, 08:46 PM)
QUOTE(kimmykashi @ Mar 5 2008, 11:34 PM)
Lita u know me and husband used to fight when were separated not that we don't now..but what i did by the advice of a friends mother..she seh wah is the sense oonuh a go talk everyday and cuss waste of money...So u know what i did stopped calling everyday all thru the day..and u know it helped..maybe u need to back off a little..maybe just send the emails and texts and so but limit the phone talk it brings frustration of missing each other so near but yet so far kinda thing...hope it works out
so i had a salad with turkey today plus some baby carrot with ranch dressing and all i've been wanting is water...everytime i see water i wanna be in it..
so i had a salad with turkey today plus some baby carrot with ranch dressing and all i've been wanting is water...everytime i see water i wanna be in it..
I agree with Kimmie on this one. I had the same problem with Mike only the other way around. I was the one complaining. We would talk everyday, sometimes twice a day and after the second visit in October, I started to miss him so much more and would tell him how I felt but he would not reciprocate. He would be silent and I always asked if I am talking to the phone and wasting money. He always says "telling you I miss you and all that is not gonna change the fact that we can't be together right now. I know how you feel and you know how I feel. Talking about it is not the solution right now, because when we get off the phone, it's not gonna change." The more I heard that the angrier I became and then I decided to back off and not call him as much and would purposefully miss his calls. Now ehen we talk it is so fullfilling and we have so much more to talk about. We now talk maybe 2-3 times a week and I am better able to handle the separation.
Lita, I also think you should try backing off a little. Some men are die-hard romantics and like to hear sweet nuiances in their ears. I think also Evan is missing his baby and needs to hears those things to re-affirm your love for him.
Just my $0.20.
Now ge me back me change
Ain't this the truth. And i always seem to find these guys. This is EXACTLY what he wants. He basically said that he would like me to do little romantic things for him more, like sing a song, write a poem, cute texts, tell him he look nice....and i'm like
, that is just not me. I'm not dead inside or anything and I show affection just obviously not how he wants so then he feels like I don't care and i feel like he doesn't appreciate what I do. But I told him that maybe we should stop talking so much since talking at minimum once a day was not enough for him. I do think that will be best. i also don't think he understands just how expensive calling and texting him is. I spent $50 just yesterday to argue 
, like Kimmy say dat nuh mek nah sense.
English u waant mi forward one pic of use cause mi waan know u betta no wait til him lef mi and den u tell mi..."girl, i had a feeling" 
u betta no wait til him lef mi and den u tell mi..."girl, i had a feeling"
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 02:13 PM)
hey where you been?? having a good day so far
Good. Got some much needed sleep.
Dem play yard music in my step class last night...
I was like oh yell yes, time to burn some blubber .
if my this was a longtime friend of mine not just smaddy mi just meet i would say something..but like Enlgish seh mi wouldn't press it once and dats it..den she a go tell mi how mi bad mind mi no waan si har happy a ray teh teh!!
QUOTE(sus @ Mar 6 2008, 04:38 AM)
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 09:25 PM)
good idea,
i'm about to file a grievance against my child, i just don't understand how he can bounce into tables that are two feet away from him and knock everyting over. its like he has a wind that follows him *cha*
i'm about to file a grievance against my child, i just don't understand how he can bounce into tables that are two feet away from him and knock everyting over. its like he has a wind that follows him *cha*
If there is an area that I know something about and I can help someone step in the right direction, then I will do it - I won't apologize for the fact that I work in the legal field - I fought long and hard to get where I am in my career - I also won't apologize for the fact that I fell in love with a man from another country or that I post here, even though we haven't made a decision as a couple how we are going to proceed as of yet. I am not quite sure what your problem is or why you continually take an attitude with my posts - But if you don't like them, don't read them -
Morning everyone
Did I miss something here?
Lita, good I think that is the best thing...continue to send ur emails and snail mail but fall back on the phone calls...
QUOTE(IrieCat @ Mar 6 2008, 12:43 PM)
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 12:40 PM)
?????
has anyone lost friendships because of your relationships.
for either reason because they thought your s/o wasn't going to make u happy, he was using you or because you were happy??
has anyone lost friendships because of your relationships.
for either reason because they thought your s/o wasn't going to make u happy, he was using you or because you were happy??
When I was with my daughter's sperm donor (wink) I lost so many friendships. That was my fault. I let him isolate me. But they were my real friends and I got them all back. They just couldnt stand there and watch me life go down the tubes....
I think I have an agreement with all my close girlfriends... if our man is messing around and we know it - we tell. And always give our honest opnion about boyfriends, husbands whatever.... I have known my 3 best friend since kindergarten!
Lost mostly of my very close male friends that were like brothers to me (while he kept his female friends). He NEVER trusted me and always accussed me of doing things. He had a guilty, because he was out there doing his own thing. It just took me a long time to find out about it. I didn't figure it out until he started telling me he don't trust me and accusing me (if I work late) of going to see another man or (GET THIS)...if I come in the house and go take a shower, it's because I was just with a man! I would get so pissed and tell him, if I had just finished having SEX I would have taken a shower at my OTHER man's house
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 6 2008, 01:44 PM)
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 11:40 AM)
?????
has anyone lost friendships because of your relationships.
for either reason because they thought your s/o wasn't going to make u happy, he was using you or because you were happy??
has anyone lost friendships because of your relationships.
for either reason because they thought your s/o wasn't going to make u happy, he was using you or because you were happy??
Nope.
Not here.
QUOTE(brownnskinn @ Mar 6 2008, 02:06 PM)
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 6 2008, 01:44 PM)
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 6 2008, 11:40 AM)
?????
has anyone lost friendships because of your relationships.
for either reason because they thought your s/o wasn't going to make u happy, he was using you or because you were happy??
has anyone lost friendships because of your relationships.
for either reason because they thought your s/o wasn't going to make u happy, he was using you or because you were happy??
Nope.
Not here.
mi tink sey, i have to put u on speed dial, i have two starches and lasgne. and somewhere i'm deluding myself that i want to lose 25lbs. i trying to get to the weight i was after I had my daughter mr. jengles and his blasted cooking is making me pile on the lbs.
so mi tell mr jengles a little while ago that mi want to lose the weight and hear him "yes is dat big food weh u a eat a nitetime" "u should eat hard crackers and juice for dinner" nuh jailfood dat??? him nuh even say eat vegetables!!
I can't see myself keeping a friend around who cheats on her hubby. I'd be busy everytime she called me.
QUOTE(Deyoungting @ Mar 6 2008, 06:20 AM)
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 05:35 PM)
YES!!!!! MI waan fi hear deh answer tuh dis...cause all hell is about to set loose inna fi mi family when dem here wat mi a guh duh!
IT'S GOT 'STELLA' ALL OVER IT.... ...But only Ken and I know it's NOT!! Bless,Gill
All now mi a wait fi answer on what to do, mi nuh get it yet!!!
anyway, you haven't told your family about Ken yet?? are they invited to the wedding??
Jengy,
I told my 'supportive' family members and my father. Aunts, Uncles...everyone one else jus a guh haffi find thorugh my family's gossip network! They will all talk ish amongst each other...but not to my face! I tried to tell the 'head' of deh gossip tree last night( so she could kick hoff deh new 'NEWS')...but as soon as she hear seh mi a guh Kingston...she start wan bag ah fussin'! Mi neva even git round fi tell har WHY mi a guh Kingston!
It's exhausting...I told 2 more family members this week...both of them immediately said the sane thing..."Yuh sure hit not Green cyard em a look!" On one hand I know I have matured alot ...cause deh old Gill wouldda cuss dem han keep moving. I see it as them looking out for me...which is sweet! But I'm a grown-a$$ ooman...Good or bad is my decision fi mek!
Yup their all coming to the wedding! It'll be VERY INTERESTING!!
Bless,
Gill
QUOTE(brownnskinn @ Mar 6 2008, 02:09 PM)
I can't see myself keeping a friend around who cheats on her hubby. I'd be busy everytime she called me.
when the shoe is on ur foot it's quite a dif situation. u'll be surprised...she's ur friend b4 he is ur friend..plus man do it all di blasted time...it no right but a so
Gilli girl nuff ppl a go seh suh.."a no GC him want" u just affi mek sure a no suh..well den again liek useh a fi ur decision fi mek good or bad !
bwoy mi ave one RASS headache it a mad mi !
QUOTE(kimmykashi @ Mar 6 2008, 02:18 PM)
bwoy mi ave one RASS headache it a mad mi !
Sarry fi hear dat Sweet...yuh tek hennyting? Yuh cyan tek tylenol right?
Bless,
Gill
oh yea a dis mi did waan seh....
What if ur husband doesn't show signs of jealousy is this good or bad thing ?
I think i would feel a little good if my husband shows some jealousy sometimes..not crazu checkin phones and stuff like that but things that makes a girl smile
What if ur husband doesn't show signs of jealousy is this good or bad thing ?
I think i would feel a little good if my husband shows some jealousy sometimes..not crazu checkin phones and stuff like that but things that makes a girl smile
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