good idea,

i'm about to file a grievance against my child, i just don't understand how he can bounce into tables that are two feet away from him and knock everyting over. its like he has a wind that follows him *cha*

Yes, I can agree with that.
But I also feel that the wife doesn`t mean much to them either if they are willing to disrespect her by cheating.


Men will do what they feel they can get away with.

If they were 100% sure the wife would leave, then they wouldn`t...

If there is an area that I know something about and I can help someone step in the right direction, then I will do it - I won't apologize for the fact that I work in the legal field - I fought long and hard to get where I am in my career - I also won't apologize for the fact that I fell in love with a man from another country or that I post here, even though we haven't made a decision as a couple how we are going to proceed as of yet. I am not quite sure what your problem is or why you continually take an attitude with my posts - But if you don't like them, don't read them -


Morning everyone

I agree, boy do I agree. I've lived this experience 1st hand with my kids father. I don't care if the chic is just a pin cushion, you disrespected me and our relationship, BUH-BYE loser. I deserve better. But on another note it took me awhile to get to that point, I always believed that I would never take back a cheater but when the situation involves yourself and your self esteem isn't where it should be its hard.

OKAY,

NEXT QUESTION

how do u handle people who don't respect your relationship - or think your s/o is with you only to get their papers.


mr jengles met this older guy from j.a. at school, the guy lives with his daughter, the guy is in his 50's mr jengles says. ok so they talk every once in a while. the school had something for xmas and mr jengles made two dishes. They guy calls and invites mr jengles over to his house for xmas dinner. so mr jengles asks me if we can go, so i said sure in the evening. the guy then calls mr jengles and says to him, too bad mr jengles couldn't come over and cook xmas dinner for him and his daughter. I'm like huh???? mr jengles just took it as a complement to his cooking. I didn't cause u know the man has his family so what the hell are u talking about. anyway xmas day I was sick so we didn't go anywhere.

then the man calls and mr jengles says to him he is going to j.a. and the man could call me and get mr jengles cellphone number in j.a. o.k cool. the man calls a week later when he thinks mr jengles is in j.a. (remember now he lost his passport) so he was supposed to be in j.a. when the man called. the man says oh my duaghter went down yesterday. she's wasn't even staying anywhere around ochi, but still that is what u're calling him to tell him. not how u are doing or how is j.a. Is it just me reading too much into something. I asked one of my friends and she said I wasn't, just want to make sure. I haven't said anything to mr. jengles. the man has been calling since mr jengles has been gone but never when i'm home. so how do deal with something like that??

sounds good to me, but then maybe u can vomit pon him shoes and ask for the b.

clairen...i think we is all addicted myself and how u ask Lita for change and we nuh see how much money u give her. lol

i'm really really going to bed now. i told mr jengles i was going to bed two hours ago and all now mi still sitting by the computer

good idea,

i'm about to file a grievance against my child, i just don't understand how he can bounce into tables that are two feet away from him and knock everyting over. its like he has a wind that follows him *cha*

good idea,

i'm about to file a grievance against my child, i just don't understand how he can bounce into tables that are two feet away from him and knock everyting over. its like he has a wind that follows him *cha*

that is absolute foolishness, the department of homeland security should do what. a lie and they have time to do that??? mi can't believe my tax dollars is being spent on that foolishness. it would have been better if he did say a social worker. all dem people that adopt every day from china the homeland security is going to fi dem house. u about to get me UPSET. I think someone should try calling the american embassy and speaking to someone else. because was pure foolishness and phuckry was dropping from that CO's mouth.

YES!!!!! MI waan fi hear deh answer tuh dis...cause all hell is about to set loose inna fi mi family when dem here wat mi a guh duh! IT'S GOT 'STELLA' ALL OVER IT.... ...But only Ken and I know it's NOT!!

Bless,Gill

MAWIN GILL...don't worry -- You a nu di only STELLA.... we really need to link up, have a good drink and eeehhhhh labrish on.

MAWNIN English...I really am getting sick of working in D.C. Have you ever been to Red Apple?

Lita u know me and husband used to fight when were separated not that we don't now..but what i did by the advice of a friends mother..she seh wah is the sense oonuh a go talk everyday and cuss waste of money...So u know what i did stopped calling everyday all thru the day..and u know it helped..maybe u need to back off a little..maybe just send the emails and texts and so but limit the phone talk it brings frustration of missing each other so near but yet so far kinda thing...hope it works out

so i had a salad with turkey today plus some baby carrot with ranch dressing and all i've been wanting is water...everytime i see water i wanna be in it..

I actually went back and tried to see where I offended you and i'm not seeing it. I can read what i want, but I won't bother with answering them and i'm thinking u have a problem with me because I have zero with you and if you thought I did, you could have used the PM function, but it's all good.

I think sometimes through the internet the 'wrong' message can be derived from normal conversation.....I never detected attitude, or saw anything that I could construe as such though.....


Yuh hear nutting bout Mr JENgles and di scrap yawd?

I agree with Kimmie on this one. I had the same problem with Mike only the other way around. I was the one complaining. We would talk everyday, sometimes twice a day and after the second visit in October, I started to miss him so much more and would tell him how I felt but he would not reciprocate. He would be silent and I always asked if I am talking to the phone and wasting money. He always says "telling you I miss you and all that is not gonna change the fact that we can't be together right now. I know how you feel and you know how I feel. Talking about it is not the solution right now, because when we get off the phone, it's not gonna change." The more I heard that the angrier I became and then I decided to back off and not call him as much and would purposefully miss his calls. Now ehen we talk it is so fullfilling and we have so much more to talk about. We now talk maybe 2-3 times a week and I am better able to handle the separation.

Lita, I also think you should try backing off a little. Some men are die-hard romantics and like to hear sweet nuiances in their ears. I think also Evan is missing his baby and needs to hears those things to re-affirm your love for him.

Just my $0.20.

Now ge me back me change

good idea,

i'm about to file a grievance against my child, i just don't understand how he can bounce into tables that are two feet away from him and knock everyting over. its like he has a wind that follows him *cha*

right back to the regularly scheduled programming....

he's another one that got my head hot last night, he hasn't gotten his passport yet, because he lost his j.a. liscense he's need a ride to get into town...u twin has a taxi...maybe it's just me. him a shop round junkyards today...shouldn't this have been done before...yuh see wah mi a deal wid?

If there is an area that I know something about and I can help someone step in the right direction, then I will do it - I won't apologize for the fact that I work in the legal field - I fought long and hard to get where I am in my career - I also won't apologize for the fact that I fell in love with a man from another country or that I post here, even though we haven't made a decision as a couple how we are going to proceed as of yet. I am not quite sure what your problem is or why you continually take an attitude with my posts - But if you don't like them, don't read them -


Morning everyone

I think sometimes through the internet the 'wrong' message can be derived from normal conversation.....I never detected attitude, or saw anything that I could construe as such though.....


Yuh hear nutting bout Mr JENgles and di scrap yawd?

I actually went back and tried to see where I offended you and i'm not seeing it. I can read what i want, but I won't bother with answering them and i'm thinking u have a problem with me because I have zero with you and if you thought I did, you could have used the PM function, but it's all good.

Do I understand this correct (sorry my Jamaican patois is not that good LOL).. Your fam doesnt know your getting married?
I sorta kept it a secret too .. although my mom and aunt came to St Lucia to meet Louis. I didnt tell them till I got the K1 paperwork ready.
My mom was always a B when it came to my men... she Loves Louis so she wasnt surprised when she found out what was happening... I can't beleive I talk about wedding plans with my mom! Its amazing.
I am sure your family will Love him as you do.. they will know it is the real thing!!!

Morning Yardie Sistas!!!!!

I read in the one of the JA newspapers yesterday about two little bwoy pickneys that got on a bus after school heading to MoBay.

They made it to MoBay and got off near the airport. These little bwoy pickneys are 6 & 7. They followed the sounds of the planes and walked in that direction.

After finding Dead End, the climbed over a cement wall and other obstacles and made it to the runway.

The wind from the planes taking off had knocked them to the tarmack twice before the airport authorities got to them.

They told the authorities that they.......GET THIS.....wanted to travel abroad.

Shame on those little pickneys.......

Peace & Love,
Tonya

right back to the regularly scheduled programming....

he's another one that got my head hot last night, he hasn't gotten his passport yet, because he lost his j.a. liscense he's need a ride to get into town...u twin has a taxi...maybe it's just me. him a shop round junkyards today...shouldn't this have been done before...yuh see wah mi a deal wid?

Lawny, yes mi memba mi seet now, we go to a grocery store in Silver Spring just a block down from there...Can't remember the name right now, but they seem FAIRLY reasonable....Where do you do your grocery shopping???

Lawny, yes mi memba mi seet now, we go to a grocery store in Silver Spring just a block down from there...Can't remember the name right now, but they seem FAIRLY reasonable....Where do you do your grocery shopping???

sounds like you've met him,

I just have to laugh

The Carribbean store on New Hampshire avenue. Dem tieef too, but wah mi ago do.

OK, my question for the day is suppose you had a friend who was in a relationship and for whatever reason, you thought the man was using her.
You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.
DO you tell her?
Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???

If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?
Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?

OK, my question for the day is suppose you had a friend who was in a relationship and for whatever reason, you thought the man was using her.
You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings.
DO you tell her?
Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone???

If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react?
Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up?

sounds like you've met him,

I just have to laugh

The Carribbean store on New Hampshire avenue. Dem tieef too, but wah mi ago do.

Without evidence, I choose to stay quiet.

English - he has his NY perimit...he tried to get the passport last monday, but when the guy came with the car
there was someting wrong with the car...i called thinking he should be on his way back from town and instead they act the mechanic shop. ugh

ok, that's cool then

here in MD, you have to surrender your foreign license when you are issued with the MD one...

Without evidence, I choose to stay quiet.

sometimes j.a. men talk rough and have no idea how they are coming accross.