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Yardiewife
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 13 2008, 02:54 PM) *
Ok, mi have one topic....

Why do you think it is that there are large concentrations of one or the other gender marrying certain nationalities???

Ie, with American/Jamaican marriages, the WOMAN is most often AMERICAN same for MENA and African marriages, in Russian/American marriages, the MAN is most often American and the same for Filipino/American relationships.....


You know I have thought about this a lot and haven't really come to a good conclusion. I know they discuss this all the time in the MENA and Russia forum and have quite a varying degree of what they thing contributes to such a vast difference in certain genders seeking other nationalities. Not sure what I think about it all...I am going to have to think on this more.
Forever Young
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 14 2008, 10:48 AM) *
QUOTE(BelwinMills @ Mar 13 2008, 08:04 PM) *
Congrats Gill!! It was lovely hearing about your interview.. My husband use to work at the Holiday Inn Sunpree as a musician. Congrats on your new journey he will be sooner than you know it. Welcome back good.gif



A lot of us on here have that HI connection.



FUH REAL!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm glad I found that out AFTER the interview...or I'd been suspicous (sp?) unsure.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif

Bless,Gill
Mrs. Cole
QUOTE(Deyoungting @ Mar 14 2008, 10:49 AM) *
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 14 2008, 10:48 AM) *
QUOTE(BelwinMills @ Mar 13 2008, 08:04 PM) *
Congrats Gill!! It was lovely hearing about your interview.. My husband use to work at the Holiday Inn Sunpree as a musician. Congrats on your new journey he will be sooner than you know it. Welcome back good.gif



A lot of us on here have that HI connection.



FUH REAL!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm glad I found that out AFTER the interview...or I'd been suspicous (sp?) unsure.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif

Bless,Gill


Firstly congrats to Gill!! We got approved on Tuesday as well!!!! You can wear whatever you want. There is no dresscode. If you have any shyness get rid of it because they talk to you through a speaker where everyone can hear what they say to you! We went there early, checked in. You have to the appt letter in your hand before they will let you in and they check for your name on the list. You go through security and metal detectors, and then take a short walk bacak to where the actual embassy is. You go to the check-in desk, the space is so small so make sure you stand where you can fit, but also so no one tries to take your spot in line. I carried a folder with dividers and all the forms very organized. The reception guy was so impressed. He asked for 4 photos, the DS 156/DS 157, the police, birth, non-impediment, and passport. He checked them and gave us a number and we went in and took a seat in section A. They called our number and requested the same docs the recptionist did, plus my tax info and I-134. She was tossing our stuff around, guess she was having a bad day, but then she asked me to stand to the left and let Andrew be in the center. She checked the docs, kept them and told us to proceed to section B. In section B, you just wait to be called for fingerprinting. Andrew had trouble with this. He is an electrical technician at Federated Pharmaceutical and they work him to the bone literally. The guy had trouble trying to get his fingerprints because they were rubbed off a bit. After that you proceed to section C. This is where you can hear everyone's interview. So many people got denied or turned around because they didn't have all the docs. If you can go with your fiance to this interview..please do! Those who were there without their partner were given a very hard time. Everyone was getting denied left and right and you could hear every reason why...not all the docs, not making enough money, one guy was being fraudulent. He had tried to sneak into the US before. Lots of people were lying when asked questions.....how did you meet, when, when did you get engaged, how, how do you know they love you, where is proof....ect. It was so scary to watch. Then our number was called....we got to the window and had to swear to tell the truth. She asked us how long we have been talking Andrew said Dec. 23, 2005..I said...no, it's 2006. Then she asked how we met and he said myspace.com. Then she got hard in asking well how is it the two of you got together, do you want to marry everyone there, do you date all who sends you a message...just gave him a hard time. He stutters a bit at times, but this time he was having an extremely hard time, so I asked if I could answer, she was rude and said no..he should no for himself. Finally she let me answer, truth is he went blank. Then she asked him when the wedding was and we said June and she told me in my statement of intent I out April, and I said yeah because I didn't know Jamaica would take so long so we had to push it back! Then she asked him what kind of work I do and he answered. Then she granted us the visa. Told us to have a happy marriage! I should have been happy, which I was, but I was so upset with Andrew because he forgot and tensed up..we went to airpack just across the street, and then we left. I apologized to Andrew, we made up and had a great day and I am looking forward to him being here soon. His family is not so happy because he is leaving. They feel like he is abandoning them. his mom won't speak to him and all....so much. if they only would remember how they felt when they found love..once you find it, you do what you have to to keep it and help it grow. We also went to the movies that night. It was his first time there at Carib. We went to see Step Up 2. I had already watched it before. It was a lovely evening and now my family and I are just awaiting his arrival....and our big day...June 7, 2008 @ 2pm!!! To God be the glory for all He has done!! He is good all the time and all the time He is good!!! Sorry so long, but I want you to have as much info about going to the interview as possible. If anyone has any questions, let me know. God bless you all!!
Yardiewife
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 14 2008, 07:48 AM) *
QUOTE(BelwinMills @ Mar 13 2008, 07:53 PM) *
QUOTE(Islandwoman @ Mar 13 2008, 10:47 AM) *
QUOTE(kimmykashi @ Mar 13 2008, 11:30 AM) *
Yaads..U CYAA GET PUMPKIN ???!!!! laughing.gif laughing.gif


Kimmy, the only time I can buy pumpkin is around Halloween & Thanksgiving ---- and I live in the same GD state as you - LOL! whistling.gif I already warned Anthony we will have to make the trip to the "city" once a month to buy groceries for him.

Oh my goodness my favorite. Only can get that in the fall season. I wanted that for my wedding in JA. I asked for it and they served me Manish soup what is up with that. EWWWW. The person I got for my food at my wedding stunk. Wish I would of listened to my wedding coordinator. mad.gif I cant wait for my mother inlaw to cook me some this summer. smile.gif



You have to have that at your wedding....tradition!



yes.gif Mannish water is sooooo yummy!


Welcome back Rhonda!!! luv.gif

Hope you start feeling better D heart.gif
Yardiewife
Congrats Nbesaw kicking.gif Sorry they were so rough with you guys. Some of those questions seem so out of order but they are the govt and they can ask whatever they want rolleyes.gif Glad that you guys made up and had a great evening. Congrats on the wedding date! luv.gif
Jengles


hey everyone,


I just haven't been in a good mood over the past couple of days.
Yardiewife
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 14 2008, 08:57 AM) *
hey everyone,


I just haven't been in a good mood over the past couple of days.


(((JENGS))) Sorry to hear that. I hope things get better for you soon. If you ever need to vent or anything I am there for ya luv.gif
Jomo's girl
QUOTE(Deyoungting @ Mar 14 2008, 09:45 AM) *
Mawning Fams,

I just thought of something for those filing after me!

Make sure you have a copy of your original petition. Make a copy and send it to your SO. That's where they get MAJORITY of their questions from...duh! I didn't realize that until I keep seeing the same pattern of questions being asked over and over again.

Also if you haven't filed yet. Make your description of how you met as brief and concise as possible. The more details you give them...the more questions they can ask! I only wrote a paragraph of how we met (because I was too dyam lazy & annoyed fuh go inna more details at the time). But it worked out for the best in the end!

For those of you that have interviews coming up...GET YOUR 2007 tax returns!! If you have those for whatever reason they are pleased! You DO NOT have to have the transcripts for 2007...just the return. Nuff people went up with 2006 and they seemed annoyed...some people even got a blue slip to come back when they have them!

Hmmmmm...I think that's it!

Bless, Gill

P.S.- How is everyone tiddeh?



I've been saying that for years now, Gill.....take copies of all the originals you sent in from the very beginning.

QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 14 2008, 09:49 AM) *
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 13 2008, 02:54 PM) *
Ok, mi have one topic....

Why do you think it is that there are large concentrations of one or the other gender marrying certain nationalities???

Ie, with American/Jamaican marriages, the WOMAN is most often AMERICAN same for MENA and African marriages, in Russian/American marriages, the MAN is most often American and the same for Filipino/American relationships.....


You know I have thought about this a lot and haven't really come to a good conclusion. I know they discuss this all the time in the MENA and Russia forum and have quite a varying degree of what they thing contributes to such a vast difference in certain genders seeking other nationalities. Not sure what I think about it all...I am going to have to think on this more.



I think it's just the luck of the draw. Depends on where you vacation sometimes. I know a whole bunch of Jamaicans married to Canadian women and English women as well.
Hotlegz
Morning all...

Jengs my girl....u ever been soo pissed and u look at baby Jengs and all she does is SMILE ..think of that.. good.gif heart.gif rose.gif when she start frown den yuh worry laughing.gif tongue_ss.gif
Forever Young
QUOTE(nbesaw @ Mar 14 2008, 10:56 AM) *
Firstly congrats to Gill!! We got approved on Tuesday as well!!!! You can wear whatever you want. There is no dresscode. If you have any shyness get rid of it because they talk to you through a speaker where everyone can hear what they say to you! We went there early, checked in. You have to the appt letter in your hand before they will let you in and they check for your name on the list. You go through security and metal detectors, and then take a short walk bacak to where the actual embassy is. You go to the check-in desk, the space is so small so make sure you stand where you can fit, but also so no one tries to take your spot in line. I carried a folder with dividers and all the forms very organized. The reception guy was so impressed. He asked for 4 photos, the DS 156/DS 157, the police, birth, non-impediment, and passport. He checked them and gave us a number and we went in and took a seat in section A. They called our number and requested the same docs the recptionist did, plus my tax info and I-134. She was tossing our stuff around, guess she was having a bad day, but then she asked me to stand to the left and let Andrew be in the center. She checked the docs, kept them and told us to proceed to section B. In section B, you just wait to be called for fingerprinting. Andrew had trouble with this. He is an electrical technician at Federated Pharmaceutical and they work him to the bone literally. The guy had trouble trying to get his fingerprints because they were rubbed off a bit. After that you proceed to section C. This is where you can hear everyone's interview. So many people got denied or turned around because they didn't have all the docs. If you can go with your fiance to this interview..please do! Those who were there without their partner were given a very hard time. Everyone was getting denied left and right and you could hear every reason why...not all the docs, not making enough money, one guy was being fraudulent. He had tried to sneak into the US before. Lots of people were lying when asked questions.....how did you meet, when, when did you get engaged, how, how do you know they love you, where is proof....ect. It was so scary to watch. Then our number was called....we got to the window and had to swear to tell the truth. She asked us how long we have been talking Andrew said Dec. 23, 2005..I said...no, it's 2006. Then she asked how we met and he said myspace.com. Then she got hard in asking well how is it the two of you got together, do you want to marry everyone there, do you date all who sends you a message...just gave him a hard time. He stutters a bit at times, but this time he was having an extremely hard time, so I asked if I could answer, she was rude and said no..he should no for himself. Finally she let me answer, truth is he went blank. Then she asked him when the wedding was and we said June and she told me in my statement of intent I out April, and I said yeah because I didn't know Jamaica would take so long so we had to push it back! Then she asked him what kind of work I do and he answered. Then she granted us the visa. Told us to have a happy marriage! I should have been happy, which I was, but I was so upset with Andrew because he forgot and tensed up..we went to airpack just across the street, and then we left. I apologized to Andrew, we made up and had a great day and I am looking forward to him being here soon. His family is not so happy because he is leaving. They feel like he is abandoning them. his mom won't speak to him and all....so much. if they only would remember how they felt when they found love..once you find it, you do what you have to to keep it and help it grow. We also went to the movies that night. It was his first time there at Carib. We went to see Step Up 2. I had already watched it before. It was a lovely evening and now my family and I are just awaiting his arrival....and our big day...June 7, 2008 @ 2pm!!! To God be the glory for all He has done!! He is good all the time and all the time He is good!!! Sorry so long, but I want you to have as much info about going to the interview as possible. If anyone has any questions, let me know. God bless you all!!


Yeah Nbees,

I agree she was really mean to Andrew(We were sitting in the back...Ken had on a light Green shirt & I had on a black & white dress)...which I thought was unecessary! I also agree that if you can GO for the interview! For whatever reason they are brutal on those that go without their SO.. I heard one interviewer ask "This is a very big day for you...Why isn't your fiance/wife here?" A number of times to different applicants.

I swear so many people were trying to get over...it started to piss me off! Cause it just makes it harder for legit couples to get through...Everyone han dem Momma filed a 'Fiance Visa'!!

Mi seh people can say what they want about VJ and my Yardie thread...but if you come in and ASK yuh questions dem...yuh won't go wrong! Ken was like Thank you VJ!! DYAM RIGHT!!! good.gif good.gif

Blessed,
Gill

Hotlegz
Hey Gilli...
Marlita
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 14 2008, 08:01 AM) *
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 14 2008, 07:48 AM) *
QUOTE(BelwinMills @ Mar 13 2008, 07:53 PM) *
QUOTE(Islandwoman @ Mar 13 2008, 10:47 AM) *
QUOTE(kimmykashi @ Mar 13 2008, 11:30 AM) *
Yaads..U CYAA GET PUMPKIN ???!!!! laughing.gif laughing.gif


Kimmy, the only time I can buy pumpkin is around Halloween & Thanksgiving ---- and I live in the same GD state as you - LOL! whistling.gif I already warned Anthony we will have to make the trip to the "city" once a month to buy groceries for him.

Oh my goodness my favorite. Only can get that in the fall season. I wanted that for my wedding in JA. I asked for it and they served me Manish soup what is up with that. EWWWW. The person I got for my food at my wedding stunk. Wish I would of listened to my wedding coordinator. mad.gif I cant wait for my mother inlaw to cook me some this summer. smile.gif



You have to have that at your wedding....tradition!



yes.gif Mannish water is sooooo yummy!


Welcome back Rhonda!!! luv.gif

Hope you start feeling better D heart.gif



Yuk!! Mannish wata smells good, but oh no the things floating around in it... no0pb.gif

Nbes, that was a great story. Thanks for sharing. I'm sure his family is just sad to see him leave. I mean its not like he's moving to another parish or something its a whole nother country....and a country that they don't have the ability to visit very often. This whole visa process and the move really does affect more than just the 2 people in the relationship, I'm sure they'll come around after they have the time to process him being away. I went to Carib...i think it was Carib...its the big theater right? I saw Jumper there.

***I haven't checked the VJ Jamaica portal, but just a reminder to you all with recent interviews to post your experience on the Embassy experience page. Those really do help us pre-interviewees alot. I

QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 14 2008, 08:57 AM) *
hey everyone,


I just haven't been in a good mood over the past couple of days.



(((Jengs))) luv.gif
Forever Young
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 14 2008, 12:21 PM) *
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 14 2008, 08:01 AM) *
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 14 2008, 07:48 AM) *
QUOTE(BelwinMills @ Mar 13 2008, 07:53 PM) *
QUOTE(Islandwoman @ Mar 13 2008, 10:47 AM) *
QUOTE(kimmykashi @ Mar 13 2008, 11:30 AM) *
Yaads..U CYAA GET PUMPKIN ???!!!! laughing.gif laughing.gif


Kimmy, the only time I can buy pumpkin is around Halloween & Thanksgiving ---- and I live in the same GD state as you - LOL! whistling.gif I already warned Anthony we will have to make the trip to the "city" once a month to buy groceries for him.

Oh my goodness my favorite. Only can get that in the fall season. I wanted that for my wedding in JA. I asked for it and they served me Manish soup what is up with that. EWWWW. The person I got for my food at my wedding stunk. Wish I would of listened to my wedding coordinator. mad.gif I cant wait for my mother inlaw to cook me some this summer. smile.gif



You have to have that at your wedding....tradition!



yes.gif Mannish water is sooooo yummy!


Welcome back Rhonda!!! luv.gif

Hope you start feeling better D heart.gif



Yuk!! Mannish wata smells good, but oh no the things floating around in it... no0pb.gif

Nbes, that was a great story. Thanks for sharing. I'm sure his family is just sad to see him leave. I mean its not like he's moving to another parish or something its a whole nother country....and a country that they don't have the ability to visit very often. This whole visa process and the move really does affect more than just the 2 people in the relationship, I'm sure they'll come around after they have the time to process him being away. I went to Carib...i think it was Carib...its the big theater right? I saw Jumper there.

***I haven't checked the VJ Jamaica portal, but just a reminder to you all with recent interviews to post your experience on the Embassy experience page. Those really do help us pre-interviewees alot. I

QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 14 2008, 08:57 AM) *
hey everyone,


I just haven't been in a good mood over the past couple of days.



(((Jengs))) luv.gif

Lawd Lita,

I love Mannish wata! Yuh kindda haffi navigate AROUND deh floating tings Lita! laughing.gif

I posted my experience already!

Bless,Gill
Marlita
QUOTE(Deyoungting @ Mar 14 2008, 09:12 AM) *
Yeah Nbees,

I agree she was really mean to Andrew(We were sitting in the back...Ken had on a light Green shirt & I had on a black & white dress)...which I thought was unecessary! I also agree that if you can GO for the interview! For whatever reason they are brutal on those that go without their SO.. I heard one interviewer ask "This is a very big day for you...Why isn't your fiance/wife here?" A number of times to different applicants.

I swear so many people were trying to get over...it started to piss me off! Cause it just makes it harder for legit couples to get through...Everyone han dem Momma filed a 'Fiance Visa'!!

Mi seh people can say what they want about VJ and my Yardie thread...but if you come in and ASK yuh questions dem...yuh won't go wrong! Ken was like Thank you VJ!! DYAM RIGHT!!! good.gif good.gif

Blessed,
Gill


Thats very true. I know there are many reasons why a person can't be there...financial...work...other commitments...but it is a big day and its like not showing up for a job interview. Even though the visa is for your SO, the ONLY reason why they are even in the process of getting this visa is cause of you so I beiliev you should definitely go and treat it just like it was the 2 of you having the interview.


So for all these fiance visas that you guys say people were there for, were their SO there too? I wonder about these "fradulent' cases. Were these people like someone who was trying to get over on their SO, or do you think it was a situation where the SO from the States new this was a sting operation all along?
Forever Young
QUOTE(kimmykashi @ Mar 14 2008, 12:16 PM) *
Hey Gilli...

Hey Chica,

What are we doing bout yuh dyam tings dem!?!?! Dem jussa sit inna mi fridge a wait pon yuh! Let mi knoa how yuh waan fi duh this! Lawd, Ken & I felt like we were on some claating scavenger hunt looking fuh halla items dem! We got the Cane outsida Ochi and deh rest of deh tings dem inna Falmouth from a Ras!! I was so happy when we got the last item on the list...yuh doan knoa!

Bless,Gill

P.S.- It's a DYAM good ting I love yuh RASS!!!! laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif Han waan seh yuh give burt tuh a nice fat baby! luv.gif ...CHO!
clairern
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 14 2008, 10:09 AM) *

Aint that some sh!t??? mad.gif mad.gif
Marlita
Gill, mi seh mi luv yuh meez outfit dem!!
Hotlegz
QUOTE(Deyoungting @ Mar 14 2008, 12:27 PM) *
QUOTE(kimmykashi @ Mar 14 2008, 12:16 PM) *
Hey Gilli...

Hey Chica,

What are we doing bout yuh dyam tings dem!?!?! Dem jussa sit inna mi fridge a wait pon yuh! Let mi knoa how yuh waan fi duh this! Lawd, Ken & I felt like we were on some claating scavenger hunt looking fuh halla items dem! We got the Cane outsida Ochi and deh rest of deh tings dem inna Falmouth from a Ras!! I was so happy when we got the last item on the list...yuh doan knoa!

Bless,Gill

P.S.- It's a DYAM good ting I love yuh RASS!!!! laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif Han waan seh yuh give burt tuh a nice fat baby! luv.gif ...CHO!



hahaa..mi a go link yuh lata..fi cme a fi yuh bush whistling.gif
Yardiewife
QUOTE(kimmykashi @ Mar 14 2008, 09:42 AM) *
QUOTE(Deyoungting @ Mar 14 2008, 12:27 PM) *
QUOTE(kimmykashi @ Mar 14 2008, 12:16 PM) *
Hey Gilli...

Hey Chica,

What are we doing bout yuh dyam tings dem!?!?! Dem jussa sit inna mi fridge a wait pon yuh! Let mi knoa how yuh waan fi duh this! Lawd, Ken & I felt like we were on some claating scavenger hunt looking fuh halla items dem! We got the Cane outsida Ochi and deh rest of deh tings dem inna Falmouth from a Ras!! I was so happy when we got the last item on the list...yuh doan knoa!

Bless,Gill

P.S.- It's a DYAM good ting I love yuh RASS!!!! laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif Han waan seh yuh give burt tuh a nice fat baby! luv.gif ...CHO!



hahaa..mi a go link yuh lata..fi cme a fi yuh bush whistling.gif


Lawd Kimmy yuh love fi bodda everyone about living in deh bush! laughing.gif
Mrs. Cole
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 14 2008, 11:04 AM) *
Congrats Nbesaw kicking.gif Sorry they were so rough with you guys. Some of those questions seem so out of order but they are the govt and they can ask whatever they want rolleyes.gif Glad that you guys made up and had a great evening. Congrats on the wedding date! luv.gif



Thank You so Much!!
Forever Young
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 14 2008, 12:27 PM) *
QUOTE(Deyoungting @ Mar 14 2008, 09:12 AM) *
Yeah Nbees,

I agree she was really mean to Andrew(We were sitting in the back...Ken had on a light Green shirt & I had on a black & white dress)...which I thought was unecessary! I also agree that if you can GO for the interview! For whatever reason they are brutal on those that go without their SO.. I heard one interviewer ask "This is a very big day for you...Why isn't your fiance/wife here?" A number of times to different applicants.

I swear so many people were trying to get over...it started to piss me off! Cause it just makes it harder for legit couples to get through...Everyone han dem Momma filed a 'Fiance Visa'!!

Mi seh people can say what they want about VJ and my Yardie thread...but if you come in and ASK yuh questions dem...yuh won't go wrong! Ken was like Thank you VJ!! DYAM RIGHT!!! good.gif good.gif

Blessed,
Gill


Thats very true. I know there are many reasons why a person can't be there...financial...work...other commitments...but it is a big day and its like not showing up for a job interview. Even though the visa is for your SO, the ONLY reason why they are even in the process of getting this visa is cause of you so I beiliev you should definitely go and treat it just like it was the 2 of you having the interview.


So for all these fiance visas that you guys say people were there for, were their SO there too? I wonder about these "fradulent' cases. Were these people like someone who was trying to get over on their SO, or do you think it was a situation where the SO from the States new this was a sting operation all along?

Bwoy Lita,

I'm telling you. One lady Ken saw at his medical was at the interview and told the USCIS officer she met her fiance over the phone! OK, she was like 60 years old...yeah I know love don't have an age but...The interviewer was like so he just randomly called your number one day? No, my uncle set us up! Oh, then you just fell in love with him...over the phone???The lady was like "Hmmmm...Yes...I guess so?!" He came to visit you once in 2 years and you know this is the man for you? "Hmmmm....Yes...I believe so!"

NOW C'MON!!!!!

A next young gyal was just a mess and the USCIS told her she was going to throw her out of the Embassy if she didn't stop lying! On the original paperwork is wrote that she was living with a man...but then when the interviewer asked she said she was by herself when she met her Fiance!

Then she asked her for proof...pictures, cards, ...letters phone bills! She pulls out phone bills...The interviewer was like "You went MONTHS without speaking to your fiance and that was ok with you!? You're a very trusting woman...cause I couldn't do that! Can you give me ONE reason ...just one as to why you have to go to the States?"

Deh dyam fool gyal seh..."I don't know...tuh see him!" NO WRONG ANSWER!!! "BECAUSE I LOVE HIM AND CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT HIM!!!" The interviewer LACED har rass!!

"1). I in no way shape or form believe your cock & bull story! 2). Do you know that the JA gov't. can have you arrested for lying to an international officer! 3). Yuh cyan see your 'fiance' deh next time he comes down here, if that's the only reason you NEED to go! You are denied!"

Both of those 2 examples were by themselves.

The next guy that was WITH his 'fiance' had been married and tried to enter the US previously...only to be denied entrance b/c the wife withdrew her paperwork BEFORE he got there...because he had had another woman file a fiance visa for him! And his current Fiancee knew nothing about any of this! But the dyam fool ooman stood by his side anyway! They called her into a room...by herself... and I know that had to ask her if she knew what she was doing!?

I don't agree with the wear whatever you want statement. Dress as if you are going to an interview. Honestly, in my opinion the people that came in jeans and looking sloven & raggedy...they kindda pushed harder. They KNOW this is a big day for you and I think they expect you to dress the part! Not a suit, but a button down dress shirt or polo and a pair of dockers will work.

Bless,
Gill
rhondapayter
QUOTE(BelwinMills @ Mar 13 2008, 09:10 PM) *
Welcome back Rhonda!!!

Thanks jest.gif I can't believe you only have about 6 weeks to go!!! How's the pregnancy going? Got any names picked out?
Forever Young
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 14 2008, 12:28 PM) *
Gill, mi seh mi luv yuh meez outfit dem!!

Thanks Chica...but time fi change up now...she's been rockijng that for AWHILE!!! laughing.gif laughing.gif It was very similar to the outfit I wore down!

Bless,Gill
rhondapayter
QUOTE(classychic77 @ Mar 13 2008, 10:18 PM) *
Glad to have you back Rhonda, can't wait to see pics yes.gif

Yeah, I need help with that wacko.gif How do I put a pic up? Do you put it right into your signature? I'm computer illiterate sometimes! All my photos are thru Kodak gallery. I finally figured out how to send them to family and friends, but I'm not sure how to post one on here.

QUOTE(nannygirl82 @ Mar 14 2008, 09:11 AM) *
Welcome back Rhonda!!!! goofy.gif can't wait to see the pictures!!!

Hey there! I can't believe you and Jax are both having girls!! It seems everyone I know lately is having a girl. How's it going?
JaEnglishGirl
Heyyyy Rhonda!!!

Go to www.tinypic.com and upload a photo there.
You will see a code starting with [ img ]
Copy the entire string.
Then go to your VJ contrl panel and click on 'edit signature'
Then paste the url you got from tinypic and voila!!
rhondapayter
QUOTE(Deyoungting @ Mar 14 2008, 01:04 PM) *
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 14 2008, 12:28 PM) *
Gill, mi seh mi luv yuh meez outfit dem!!

Thanks Chica...but time fi change up now...she's been rockijng that for AWHILE!!! laughing.gif laughing.gif It was very similar to the outfit I wore down!

Bless,Gill

Gill, HUGE CONGRATS on finally getting the Visa kicking.gif I'm so happy for you. I love your little pics at the bottom! Where are you guys getting those? They're so cute.
Marlita
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WOoo!!! Gill mi seh dat storey deh was like wan soap episode! haha. I never knew there were situations like this at the embassy. Wha mek deh people dem loose dem rass head? The 60year old ...woooieeee!!
rhondapayter
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 14 2008, 01:13 PM) *
Heyyyy Rhonda!!!

Go to www.tinypic.com and upload a photo there.
You will see a code starting with [ img ]
Copy the entire string.
Then go to your VJ contrl panel and click on 'edit signature'
Then paste the url you got from tinypic and voila!!

Thank you! It worked - but why is my pic so big?
Yardiewife
wub.gif Love the pic Rhonda! She is so cute!!! heart.gif
clairern
QUOTE(rhondapayter @ Mar 14 2008, 12:17 PM) *
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 14 2008, 01:13 PM) *
Heyyyy Rhonda!!!

Go to www.tinypic.com and upload a photo there.
You will see a code starting with [ img ]
Copy the entire string.
Then go to your VJ contrl panel and click on 'edit signature'
Then paste the url you got from tinypic and voila!!

Thank you! It worked - but why is my pic so big?

What a beautiful little girl? She is adorable. Congrats Rhonda on that beautiful bundle of joy good.gif good.gif
Marlita
Your daughter is sooo cute. Love her smile, I can see your features in her.
TRELAWNY PARISH
QUOTE(Deyoungting @ Mar 14 2008, 10:49 AM) *
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 14 2008, 10:48 AM) *
QUOTE(BelwinMills @ Mar 13 2008, 08:04 PM) *
Congrats Gill!! It was lovely hearing about your interview.. My husband use to work at the Holiday Inn Sunpree as a musician. Congrats on your new journey he will be sooner than you know it. Welcome back good.gif



A lot of us on here have that HI connection.



FUH REAL!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm glad I found that out AFTER the interview...or I'd been suspicous (sp?) unsure.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif

Bless,Gill


Gwaan weh u deh guh Gill. I told yah! I met Marcel also in building 1 floor 4
clairern
Totally offtopic45vn.gif Here goes.

How are interviews scheduled anyways? Do they set aside certain amount of interview appointments for K-1, K-3, IR-1, CR-1, visitors, working visas? Or do they just randomly schedule them, as the applications are approved? Any thoughts or ideas on this for you experienced ones?
tnw
QUOTE(Deyoungting @ Mar 14 2008, 10:45 AM) *
Mawning Fams,

I just thought of something for those filing after me!

Make sure you have a copy of your original petition. Make a copy and send it to your SO. That's where they get MAJORITY of their questions from...duh! I didn't realize that until I keep seeing the same pattern of questions being asked over and over again.

Also if you haven't filed yet. Make your description of how you met as brief and concise as possible. The more details you give them...the more questions they can ask! I only wrote a paragraph of how we met (because I was too dyam lazy & annoyed fuh go inna more details at the time). But it worked out for the best in the end!

For those of you that have interviews coming up...GET YOUR 2007 tax returns!! If you have those for whatever reason they are pleased! You DO NOT have to have the transcripts for 2007...just the return. Nuff people went up with 2006 and they seemed annoyed...some people even got a blue slip to come back when they have them!

Hmmmmm...I think that's it!

Bless, Gill

P.S.- How is everyone tiddeh?

Hey Gill....Welcome Back!

Thanks for the info about the interview process....you shoulda seen the Post I made last week while u were away.....I think I'm taking TOO much info, actually..... laughing.gif

Congrats!
JaEnglishGirl
QUOTE(rhondapayter @ Mar 14 2008, 12:17 PM) *
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 14 2008, 01:13 PM) *
Heyyyy Rhonda!!!

Go to www.tinypic.com and upload a photo there.
You will see a code starting with [ img ]
Copy the entire string.
Then go to your VJ contrl panel and click on 'edit signature'
Then paste the url you got from tinypic and voila!!

Thank you! It worked - but why is my pic so big?

awww...so cute!!

You needed to have hit 'resize' when uploading, but I did it for you, just hit 'reply' to this message and copy the string from my post and paste it into your sig.



Rhonda, I think she looks SO much like her dad!
Hotlegz
Rhonda she is soooo gosh darn it cute..God bless !!
Jomo's girl
Rhonda........she is BEAUTIFUL.

How's it feel to be back at work? How's Tony?
rhondapayter
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 14 2008, 01:51 PM) *
You needed to have hit 'resize' when uploading, but I did it for you, just hit 'reply' to this message and copy the string from my post and paste it into your sig.

Rhonda, I think she looks SO much like her dad!


Thanks good.gif Some say she looks like Tony, some think she looks like me. She has his nose and my eyes! I love her blue eyes - I hope they don't change color!
sjb1221
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 14 2008, 01:26 PM) *
Your daughter is sooo cute. Love her smile, I can see your features in her.


Ditto. She's beautiful. Welcome back.
rhondapayter
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 14 2008, 01:53 PM) *
Rhonda........she is BEAUTIFUL.

How's it feel to be back at work? How's Tony?

It sucks mad.gif I miss Monique! Also, all the employees are laid off this week (and next week) due to a supplier strike so we're just here doing "busy work". I'd rather be doing my real job - it helps the time go by.

Tony is on "mom" duty this week and next week whistling.gif
rhondapayter
WOW! I never knew this picture thing was so easy kicking.gif Now I'm gonna put pics up all the time!
sunnyja21
Good Afternoon Yardies!


Gill, Congrats again girl. What a huge step for you guys.


All the beautiful babies are driving me nuts. Anyone need a babysitter? BEAUTIFUL BABIES. JaEnglish-Everyday I look forward to a new pic of that baby... He's so handsome.

I hope everyone is enjoying their day so far. I'm counting down until it's time to go home. (2 hours, 13 minutes and 46 seconds) 45, 44, 43, 42, 41, 40, 39. 38. 37 lol
clairern
QUOTE(rhondapayter @ Mar 14 2008, 01:04 PM) *
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 14 2008, 01:53 PM) *
Rhonda........she is BEAUTIFUL.

How's it feel to be back at work? How's Tony?

It sucks mad.gif I miss Monique! Also, all the employees are laid off this week (and next week) due to a supplier strike so we're just here doing "busy work". I'd rather be doing my real job - it helps the time go by.

Tony is on "mom" duty this week and next week whistling.gif

Rhonda, your baby seems to be a very happy baby. She looks like she worked so hard helping Santa, she fell asleep on the job laughing.gif laughing.gif
TRELAWNY PARISH
QUOTE(Deyoungting @ Mar 14 2008, 01:02 PM) *
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 14 2008, 12:27 PM) *
QUOTE(Deyoungting @ Mar 14 2008, 09:12 AM) *
Yeah Nbees,

I agree she was really mean to Andrew(We were sitting in the back...Ken had on a light Green shirt & I had on a black & white dress)...which I thought was unecessary! I also agree that if you can GO for the interview! For whatever reason they are brutal on those that go without their SO.. I heard one interviewer ask "This is a very big day for you...Why isn't your fiance/wife here?" A number of times to different applicants.

I swear so many people were trying to get over...it started to piss me off! Cause it just makes it harder for legit couples to get through...Everyone han dem Momma filed a 'Fiance Visa'!!

Mi seh people can say what they want about VJ and my Yardie thread...but if you come in and ASK yuh questions dem...yuh won't go wrong! Ken was like Thank you VJ!! DYAM RIGHT!!! good.gif good.gif

Blessed,
Gill


Thats very true. I know there are many reasons why a person can't be there...financial...work...other commitments...but it is a big day and its like not showing up for a job interview. Even though the visa is for your SO, the ONLY reason why they are even in the process of getting this visa is cause of you so I beiliev you should definitely go and treat it just like it was the 2 of you having the interview.


So for all these fiance visas that you guys say people were there for, were their SO there too? I wonder about these "fradulent' cases. Were these people like someone who was trying to get over on their SO, or do you think it was a situation where the SO from the States new this was a sting operation all along?

Bwoy Lita,

I'm telling you. One lady Ken saw at his medical was at the interview and told the USCIS officer she met her fiance over the phone! OK, she was like 60 years old...yeah I know love don't have an age but...The interviewer was like so he just randomly called your number one day? No, my uncle set us up! Oh, then you just fell in love with him...over the phone???The lady was like "Hmmmm...Yes...I guess so?!" He came to visit you once in 2 years and you know this is the man for you? "Hmmmm....Yes...I believe so!"

NOW C'MON!!!!!

A next young gyal was just a mess and the USCIS told her she was going to throw her out of the Embassy if she didn't stop lying! On the original paperwork is wrote that she was living with a man...but then when the interviewer asked she said she was by herself when she met her Fiance!

Then she asked her for proof...pictures, cards, ...letters phone bills! She pulls out phone bills...The interviewer was like "You went MONTHS without speaking to your fiance and that was ok with you!? You're a very trusting woman...cause I couldn't do that! Can you give me ONE reason ...just one as to why you have to go to the States?"

Deh dyam fool gyal seh..."I don't know...tuh see him!" NO WRONG ANSWER!!! "BECAUSE I LOVE HIM AND CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT HIM!!!" The interviewer LACED har rass!!

"1). I in no way shape or form believe your cock & bull story! 2). Do you know that the JA gov't. can have you arrested for lying to an international officer! 3). Yuh cyan see your 'fiance' deh next time he comes down here, if that's the only reason you NEED to go! You are denied!"

Both of those 2 examples were by themselves.

The next guy that was WITH his 'fiance' had been married and tried to enter the US previously...only to be denied entrance b/c the wife withdrew her paperwork BEFORE he got there...because he had had another woman file a fiance visa for him! And his current Fiancee knew nothing about any of this! But the dyam fool ooman stood by his side anyway! They called her into a room...by herself... and I know that had to ask her if she knew what she was doing!?

I don't agree with the wear whatever you want statement. Dress as if you are going to an interview. Honestly, in my opinion the people that came in jeans and looking sloven & raggedy...they kindda pushed harder. They KNOW this is a big day for you and I think they expect you to dress the part! Not a suit, but a button down dress shirt or polo and a pair of dockers will work.

Bless,
Gill


Gill, I met to tell you. You said you was wearing a black dress, right? I think my friend was either sitting near you or standing near you and Ken inside. She too heard a lot of people getting denied and they're no discrete about it. It took her a while to get through, because they mixed up her paperwork. People getting the wrong answers as far as dates and names and how many kids your fiancee, wife, husband have. She said it was just crazy. And I too agree, you have to look PRESENTABLE. That goes a long way and SMILE (even if you don't mean it) and be polite. Nothing wrong with asking what's taking so long, just be polite about it.

Gill how long did it take you to get through.
clairern
Hey guys, going to take a nap--have to work tonight. Will catch up on the posts while at work tonight. Have a great rest of the day. Bye
sjb1221
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 14 2008, 12:01 PM) *
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 14 2008, 08:57 AM) *
hey everyone,


I just haven't been in a good mood over the past couple of days.


(((JENGS))) Sorry to hear that. I hope things get better for you soon. If you ever need to vent or anything I am there for ya luv.gif


Ditto...take care.
classychic77
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 14 2008, 12:53 PM) *
Rhonda........she is BEAUTIFUL.

How's it feel to be back at work? How's Tony?


She is absolutley adorable!!!
mommy2B
Hi everyone,

I would like to thank everyone again for welcoming me to this board a month ago when I joined. I haven't been on much due to being extremely busy at work and trying to put together my K1 petition, oh yea and when I'm not doing that, I'm always sleeping smile.gif I'm almost done with the application and I'm planning to send it early next week, just waiting on the G-325A from my SO and I have to take my passport pic.

Anyway, wanted to say congrats to the ladies who got approved! must be a big relief to say the least. I've just caught up with the last few pages and saw the two reports on the embassy experience, now I'm a little worried and was hoping to get some clarification:

1) I was told the fiancee was not required to be with the SO at the interview. I'm thinking if we get lucky enough, and lets say my SO gets an interview when I'm in my third trimester and really pregnant and can't travel to go to the interview with him, will this be held against him? If the interview is some time after I give birth, I def. plan to be there.

2) The G325A form asks for employment history for last 5 years. My SO was attending UWI until this last semester when he was forced to take a leave cause he couldn't afford tuition, when he did work during this time, it was doing odd jobs and not on the books. He just recently was able to get a legit job. Will this be held against him? Should I put that he was a student in that section, or leave it blank?

3)I've gathered pretty much all of the evidence that we have to prove our relationship including pictures, emails, phone records, and travel itineraries. The problem is when I flew there to see him I did not keep the boarding passes wacko.gif I was thinking of copying the stamps on my passport and putting it together with the email confirmations that I received when I booked my airfare online. Is this enough proof of travel? I don't have prove of hotel receipts b/c my SO paid for the hotel when I visited.

4)Finally, how do I put together all that information? in a binder with tabs? scrapbook?

Thanks!

ps: sorry for the long post.
Forever Young
QUOTE(rhondapayter @ Mar 14 2008, 01:02 PM) *
QUOTE(BelwinMills @ Mar 13 2008, 09:10 PM) *
Welcome back Rhonda!!!

Thanks jest.gif I can't believe you only have about 6 weeks to go!!! How's the pregnancy going? Got any names picked out?



RHONDAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA....YOU'RE DAUGHTER IS BEAUTIFUL!!!! I'D MISS HER TOO!! luv.gif luv.gif luv.gif

Many many blessings to all of you!

Gill

P.S.- I LOVE CHUCKY BABIES!!!!! And she is a CHUNKSTER!!! luv.gif heart.gif luv.gif heart.gif
Jomo's girl
QUOTE(mommy2B @ Mar 14 2008, 01:53 PM) *
Hi everyone,

I would like to thank everyone again for welcoming me to this board a month ago when I joined. I haven't been on much due to being extremely busy at work and trying to put together my K1 petition, oh yea and when I'm not doing that, I'm always sleeping smile.gif I'm almost done with the application and I'm planning to send it early next week, just waiting on the G-325A from my SO and I have to take my passport pic.

Anyway, wanted to say congrats to the ladies who got approved! must be a big relief to say the least. I've just caught up with the last few pages and saw the two reports on the embassy experience, now I'm a little worried and was hoping to get some clarification:

1) I was told the fiancee was not required to be with the SO at the interview. I'm thinking if we get lucky enough, and lets say my SO gets an interview when I'm in my third trimester and really pregnant and can't travel to go to the interview with him, will this be held against him? If the interview is some time after I give birth, I def. plan to be there.

2) The G325A form asks for employment history for last 5 years. My SO was attending UWI until this last semester when he was forced to take a leave cause he couldn't afford tuition, when he did work during this time, it was doing odd jobs and not on the books. He just recently was able to get a legit job. Will this be held against him? Should I put that he was a student in that section, or leave it blank?

3)I've gathered pretty much all of the evidence that we have to prove our relationship including pictures, emails, phone records, and travel itineraries. The problem is when I flew there to see him I did not keep the boarding passes wacko.gif I was thinking of copying the stamps on my passport and putting it together with the email confirmations that I received when I booked my airfare online. Is this enough proof of travel? I don't have prove of hotel receipts b/c my SO paid for the hotel when I visited.

4)Finally, how do I put together all that information? in a binder with tabs? scrapbook?

Thanks!

ps: sorry for the long post.


You can just write student.
Use the passport stamps. You can just copy the pages.
I used a folder, ACCO clips, and tabbed sections. Andre took copied pictures and scrapbooks.
I did not attend the interview. He was well prepared and did just fine on his own.
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