Ok ladies...so the man, comes home and admits to doing something wrong...what is the consequence?? besides leaving him? U want to forgive, but can't let this become a chronic habit...man going to the club every friday and coming home and saying sorry.

Well...not to toot my own horn or anything...




Sorry mi couldn't resist

YAARDS !!! U BAD today

if him do something wrong and still a participate inna di same "ring" and no change him no genuine den...so is either u stop partying every week, go counseling or soemthing mi nah tolerate sorry every friday night...no sah afta mama neva raise no dyam fool and mi yeye dem no shet

Lawd she gone mad an a chat wid herself Her head nah right fi tru

Lawd ave merci...YARDS a wah deh pon u tideh...last week a did mi innah heatttt...but hear yah!

hahaa a cyaa laugh..woieee ok mek mi try dis a gain

Hey Jalove how u feeling these days ?

and by di way mi name KIMMY not KIM

Well sometimes yuh go by KimKim and all those other pet names. Plus when yuh head nah right yuh neva knoa

yardie it's the hormones!

Well I was going to say that the price was a little low for my talent but I just went with it

only if u SPECIAL u can call mi KIMKIM and dat a still no KIM




dem emoticons yah no enuff fi mi..mi waa pap some big laugh and all mi get is cho..Yaards help mi out deh

Tru dat! How much longer we haffi wait fi it tuh be ova?!?

alright mi soon come wid deh laughing stuff...

OK Shemonya..i have to ask is that a real JOB...YARDI SPECIALIST !!

Ok so everyone is talking about forgiving, that's it and I'm sorry...I've know ladies who manage to wring a few concessions from the man during this process..

Yeah..dem get some brawta !! like wah so..cause mi couldn't bribe di man and stay wid him

Here ya go KimKim (cause mi special enough right? )

of course u are..! tank you..how mi get dem..

and some more...mi did haffi split it up cause dem say mi post too much images













Lawd mi find dis one and mi haffi add it...

mi liek di butt one Yaads.. funny

and di bounce smileys

Yuh have one photobucket account?

a 4:30 aready..mi ave class at 6:30 and mi no waan go when mi register dem tell mi di class was 6...if mi did ever know seh a 6:30 a wouldn't tek it..cho



yeah

jengs how the baby..get over her sickness?

So save the images to your comp and then upload them into your photobucket. Once you are done with that you can delete them from your comp. Make sense?

YUP..it's in the Washington Post. I think YARDI is accounting software but it's still funny.

it's like every time mi turn round she sick...i'm not getting it...she nose always stuff up...she'll be ok for a day then get sick again...and she just started a new daycare so a new round of sickness start

Poor thing I hope she gets well soon!

hi!

I hope she feels better soon!

Did you talk to the Dr?

I know when Tierra started daycare she had a runny nose for 2 years straight! (at least thats how it seemed)
When I would talk to the Dr he would say not too worry, its just daycare etc.. he is also a dad of 2 girls I think.

Now Tierra will be 6 on the 20th and she never gets all that sick KNOCK ON WOOD!

I have a crazy question: Would you be friends with someone who is into alternative sex lifestyles like swinging or S&M, etc??

It's really none of my business but I'm wondering if you treat or view them differently?

Mi too and she's such a happy baby even though she is sick

yes Yaards i makes sense..

Jengs I can imagine...does the daycare allow kids to come if they're sick ?

Shem..dat is really funny

yeah the same thing happened with my son and he's five, now i think sometimes she's making him sick. lol I'm just trying to be patient.

Hope she feels better soon.

just as long as no one is looking at me or my hubby like that it's all good.

I wouldn't care UNTIl they start pulling me in it.. to each his own...if u know ur not strong enough to keep away then u break ties with that couple/friend

Oh my gosh! Its funny you ask that. Recently I found out that some co-workers are into that kind of stuff. Since we all telework from different states I dont see them that much but it is a bit strange.
I guess to each his own, whatever makes them happy and it doesnt really effect me.
I still like them. I don't treat them any different and they still do their jobs the same way.

As I think about it more I notice that most of the people I have found are into this are not real happy with their relationships (they are married people). I feel kinda bad for them. I know how happy Louis makes me and I can't imagine having to look elswhere for happiness.

Cat

How yuh find out?!?!

Seriously though...I think it would all depend on the person and what they were doing. If it was my best friend and I found out they were swinging...well that wouldn't work for me from a religious standpoint of having sex with numerous partners. Our values would be totally different most likely so it wouldn't make for the best friendship.

Now if it was my best friend and she was all into kinky stuff with her husband...well to each their own and as long as they are both happy and no one is getting hurt, who am I to say anything?

As long as what they are doing isn't immoral or illegal...well have fun if that is what they are into and it makes them happy. Just as long as they respect the fact that not all of us are into it and don't necessarily enjoy the same things.

yes, i need to utilize my job's backup services

I found out about co-workers at a recent company get together... people drink too much and start talking!! LOL

what if they didn't talk about it around you?

yea a some don't know how to wash kids hands or even wipe it with soap and water to limit the transfer it's tough mi know..but dat was alwasy one of my problems with daycare

Kimora never wen til she was 10mths..she went to a small one ran by Jamaicans..u couldn't walk pon di floor wid yur shoes after a certain time cause dem clean dem..and yuh crap a hand sanitizer when yuh come..a no much di likkle help..she as there for a couple of months and they closed she never went to another..NOW MI A DEAD SHE NEED FI DEH ROUND HER PEERS

Just knowing about it would be hard for me to continue a close friendship. I wouldn't treat them horribly or anything and I would still maintain some sort of a friendship but don't think I could be super close. Sex outside of your marriage with numerous partners - that is just a little too much for me. I think a choice to do something like that says something about your values/morals and character...which are important factors when having a close friend.

you would come to her and say my man is cheating and she would say so what. lol



I hear u, if u chose to remove yourself from the situation...on the other hand if it works for them, then it works for them

That would be WAY too weird for me

she's been around adults only?? Is that why she's so grown

EXACTLY !!

Wooiee Kimmy juss wait til she reach a school Yuh sure yuh waan anodda? Yuh hands nah full enough yet?

DON'T REMIND MI....dats why mi a pray it's a boy fi pwn him off to him fawda...

ok mi affi get back to reality..mi gone a class so mi wi si oonuh lata...3hrs with this man..cho

my husband has his welding "degree" or whatever its called there from high school in Jamaica.
Do you guys think that will hold much weight here in the states? and what are some jobs welders can do?

does he have experience?

lol hi kim im ok doing pretty good and you!!