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JALOVE
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 03:33 PM) *
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 12:22 PM) *
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 03:12 PM) *
QUOTE(brownnskinn @ Mar 5 2008, 11:32 AM) *
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 03:25 PM) *
Pardon mi...mi might too kuntri fi dis...How do you FLIRT with class in front of your SO? Please, enlighten me or elobratishhh fi mi.



DWL.... laughing.gif laughing.gif ...I don't know. I know how to flirt when he's not around yes.gif always playful and never any intent...unless I need help with a tire, or some bags or some tile or something. Hubby get all kinds of stuff for free...I know he flirts his self up on some stuff.


woo hoo, dis a how mi flirt....mi seh mi pimp miself out fi di free tings dem. haha


fi real , the man at the gas station like me, all he does is give me free soda, but mi want free gas, mi can buy a dollar soda *cha*


haha, this remind me of when I was little, like 7 and miy older sis11 use to pimp me out to the local corner market store clerk tuh get free pickles and cookies.....she say, "go smile at the man nah' haha, yeah we started young.


lol nice.... smile.gif ok with that bein said now u have me wanting corner store onion pickles and pickled pig feet and a pack of rainblow and lemon cookies
Trelawny20853
QUOTE(Deyoungting @ Mar 5 2008, 03:30 PM) *
QUOTE(brownnskinn @ Mar 5 2008, 02:41 PM) *
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 03:34 PM) *
that, they find it VERY hard to believe, but once you've been through something like that, it kind of messes with your head. But you have to realize at some point that all MEN are not the same and I love and respect my daddy and brothers very much. So my HEART has been through it.



Good for you Lawny. rose.gif It's important not to carry that into your next relationship for sure.

Ditto good.gif I was carrying ALOT of my insecurities about my ex-husband into my relationship wid Ken...until Ken said one day..."Gillian, yuh a guh mek yuh hex-husband broke us hup...yuh knoa dat!" I never even thought about it like that before! Then I finally had to let go and let G-d! And realize Ken is NOT Dorian(my ex)- (Thank G-d)...and Dorian was NO KEN! laughing.gif laughing.gif I just had a DEEP DOWN FEAR and never wanted to be PLAYED out like that again. But it's true what they say...you live and learn!

Thus far, I haven't regreted(sp?) it! It is hard though to move on and forgive him and even more importantly yourself! But I had to close that door, so my Ken window would open biggrin.gif

Bless,

Gill


Thank God and AMEN! Gwaan thru sistren. Mi a tell u...once you REALLY, REALLY realize your SELF-WORTH...nobadi can bring u down. U deh pon top a di WORLD... I feel like swinging on a swing. A wah wrang wid mi. Lawd mi glad mi have unu fi support.
Jengles
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 03:33 PM) *
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 12:22 PM) *
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 03:12 PM) *
QUOTE(brownnskinn @ Mar 5 2008, 11:32 AM) *
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 03:25 PM) *
Pardon mi...mi might too kuntri fi dis...How do you FLIRT with class in front of your SO? Please, enlighten me or elobratishhh fi mi.



DWL.... laughing.gif laughing.gif ...I don't know. I know how to flirt when he's not around yes.gif always playful and never any intent...unless I need help with a tire, or some bags or some tile or something. Hubby get all kinds of stuff for free...I know he flirts his self up on some stuff.


woo hoo, dis a how mi flirt....mi seh mi pimp miself out fi di free tings dem. haha


fi real , the man at the gas station like me, all he does is give me free soda, but mi want free gas, mi can buy a dollar soda *cha*


haha, this remind me of when I was little, like 7 and miy older sis11 use to pimp me out to the local corner market store clerk tuh get free pickles and cookies.....she say, "go smile at the man nah' haha, yeah we started young.



that is too funny
Forever Young
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 03:42 PM) *
QUOTE(Deyoungting @ Mar 5 2008, 03:30 PM) *
QUOTE(brownnskinn @ Mar 5 2008, 02:41 PM) *
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 03:34 PM) *
that, they find it VERY hard to believe, but once you've been through something like that, it kind of messes with your head. But you have to realize at some point that all MEN are not the same and I love and respect my daddy and brothers very much. So my HEART has been through it.



Good for you Lawny. rose.gif It's important not to carry that into your next relationship for sure.

Ditto good.gif I was carrying ALOT of my insecurities about my ex-husband into my relationship wid Ken...until Ken said one day..."Gillian, yuh a guh mek yuh hex-husband broke us hup...yuh knoa dat!" I never even thought about it like that before! Then I finally had to let go and let G-d! And realize Ken is NOT Dorian(my ex)- (Thank G-d)...and Dorian was NO KEN! laughing.gif laughing.gif I just had a DEEP DOWN FEAR and never wanted to be PLAYED out like that again. But it's true what they say...you live and learn!

Thus far, I haven't regreted(sp?) it! It is hard though to move on and forgive him and even more importantly yourself! But I had to close that door, so my Ken window would open biggrin.gif

Bless,

Gill


Thank God and AMEN! Gwaan thru sistren. Mi a tell u...once you REALLY, REALLY realize your SELF-WORTH...nobadi can bring u down. U deh pon top a di WORLD... I feel like swinging on a swing. A wah wrang wid mi. Lawd mi glad mi have unu fi support.


So true Lawny...Swing through Sistren!!! laughing.gif

Lawd, Lawny, it look like yuh Meez a lose some weight..halla dat deh jumping...nuh mus! laughing.gif laughing.gif
Jengles
QUOTE(JALOVE @ Mar 5 2008, 03:40 PM) *
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 03:33 PM) *
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 12:22 PM) *
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 03:12 PM) *
QUOTE(brownnskinn @ Mar 5 2008, 11:32 AM) *
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 03:25 PM) *
Pardon mi...mi might too kuntri fi dis...How do you FLIRT with class in front of your SO? Please, enlighten me or elobratishhh fi mi.



DWL.... laughing.gif laughing.gif ...I don't know. I know how to flirt when he's not around yes.gif always playful and never any intent...unless I need help with a tire, or some bags or some tile or something. Hubby get all kinds of stuff for free...I know he flirts his self up on some stuff.


woo hoo, dis a how mi flirt....mi seh mi pimp miself out fi di free tings dem. haha


fi real , the man at the gas station like me, all he does is give me free soda, but mi want free gas, mi can buy a dollar soda *cha*


haha, this remind me of when I was little, like 7 and miy older sis11 use to pimp me out to the local corner market store clerk tuh get free pickles and cookies.....she say, "go smile at the man nah' haha, yeah we started young.


lol nice.... smile.gif ok with that bein said now u have me wanting corner store onion pickles and pickled pig feet and a pack of rainblow and lemon cookies


you go girl, pickled pig feet.

QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 03:42 PM) *
QUOTE(Deyoungting @ Mar 5 2008, 03:30 PM) *
QUOTE(brownnskinn @ Mar 5 2008, 02:41 PM) *
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 03:34 PM) *
that, they find it VERY hard to believe, but once you've been through something like that, it kind of messes with your head. But you have to realize at some point that all MEN are not the same and I love and respect my daddy and brothers very much. So my HEART has been through it.



Good for you Lawny. rose.gif It's important not to carry that into your next relationship for sure.

Ditto good.gif I was carrying ALOT of my insecurities about my ex-husband into my relationship wid Ken...until Ken said one day..."Gillian, yuh a guh mek yuh hex-husband broke us hup...yuh knoa dat!" I never even thought about it like that before! Then I finally had to let go and let G-d! And realize Ken is NOT Dorian(my ex)- (Thank G-d)...and Dorian was NO KEN! laughing.gif laughing.gif I just had a DEEP DOWN FEAR and never wanted to be PLAYED out like that again. But it's true what they say...you live and learn!

Thus far, I haven't regreted(sp?) it! It is hard though to move on and forgive him and even more importantly yourself! But I had to close that door, so my Ken window would open biggrin.gif

Bless,

Gill


Thank God and AMEN! Gwaan thru sistren. Mi a tell u...once you REALLY, REALLY realize your SELF-WORTH...nobadi can bring u down. U deh pon top a di WORLD... I feel like swinging on a swing. A wah wrang wid mi. Lawd mi glad mi have unu fi support.


I know, that is why i like to chill out more time between relationships and god forbid i see any inconsistences (sp) in a story i used to turn into a reporter on eyewitness news.
Trelawny20853
QUOTE(Deyoungting @ Mar 5 2008, 03:45 PM) *
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 03:42 PM) *
QUOTE(Deyoungting @ Mar 5 2008, 03:30 PM) *
QUOTE(brownnskinn @ Mar 5 2008, 02:41 PM) *
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 03:34 PM) *
that, they find it VERY hard to believe, but once you've been through something like that, it kind of messes with your head. But you have to realize at some point that all MEN are not the same and I love and respect my daddy and brothers very much. So my HEART has been through it.



Good for you Lawny. rose.gif It's important not to carry that into your next relationship for sure.

Ditto good.gif I was carrying ALOT of my insecurities about my ex-husband into my relationship wid Ken...until Ken said one day..."Gillian, yuh a guh mek yuh hex-husband broke us hup...yuh knoa dat!" I never even thought about it like that before! Then I finally had to let go and let G-d! And realize Ken is NOT Dorian(my ex)- (Thank G-d)...and Dorian was NO KEN! laughing.gif laughing.gif I just had a DEEP DOWN FEAR and never wanted to be PLAYED out like that again. But it's true what they say...you live and learn!

Thus far, I haven't regreted(sp?) it! It is hard though to move on and forgive him and even more importantly yourself! But I had to close that door, so my Ken window would open biggrin.gif

Bless,

Gill


Thank God and AMEN! Gwaan thru sistren. Mi a tell u...once you REALLY, REALLY realize your SELF-WORTH...nobadi can bring u down. U deh pon top a di WORLD... I feel like swinging on a swing. A wah wrang wid mi. Lawd mi glad mi have unu fi support.


So true Lawny...Swing through Sistren!!! laughing.gif

Lawd, Lawny, it look like yuh Meez a lose some weight..halla dat deh jumping...nuh mus! laughing.gif laughing.gif


Lose weight...mi wish...di DAMN swing soon pon dung.
JALOVE
part 6 sho is moving fast lol its we are at page 11 already in not even one day.

JaEnglishGirl
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 01:50 PM) *
I think flirting with another woman in front of me is DISRESPECTFUL...I would never do that and I'm sure my man wouldn't like it.

Years ago I was dating this guy and we went out to eat. I noticed from we sat down that this woman kept flirting with my date and we kept talking about it. So, I told him I'm going to get up and go to the restroom. The woman's date went outside to make a call and the woman walked by and handed her business card to my date. She also wrote on the back of the card (call me after 11pm he'll be at work. When I got back to the table my date gave me the card and YES, I got up walked over to her table and handed it to her date (which was her husband) and told him to read what's on the back. Was I wrong to do that?

Years ago, meeda walk up tuh har and bax har renking rass....Today I'd merely spit pan har...ok ok ok, I merely ask her in an extra LOUD voice if she neva did a get nutting fi satisfy har a night time, and maybe she shoulda try likkle alum
Jengles
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 5 2008, 04:02 PM) *
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 01:50 PM) *
I think flirting with another woman in front of me is DISRESPECTFUL...I would never do that and I'm sure my man wouldn't like it.

Years ago I was dating this guy and we went out to eat. I noticed from we sat down that this woman kept flirting with my date and we kept talking about it. So, I told him I'm going to get up and go to the restroom. The woman's date went outside to make a call and the woman walked by and handed her business card to my date. She also wrote on the back of the card (call me after 11pm he'll be at work. When I got back to the table my date gave me the card and YES, I got up walked over to her table and handed it to her date (which was her husband) and told him to read what's on the back. Was I wrong to do that?

Years ago, meeda walk up tuh har and bax har renking rass....Today I'd merely spit pan har...ok ok ok, I merely ask her in an extra LOUD voice if she neva did a get nutting fi satisfy har a night time, and maybe she shoulda try likkle alum


good grief, ya'll is violent
Yardiewife
Mi have one secret secret7vf.gif

TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY!!! WOOHOO!!! I love birthdays!
JaEnglishGirl
I don't think 'innocent' flirting exists in Jamaican culture like that....

I would deem it disrespectful for me to say playfully something like JG did to her landlord in front of my husband.....I would say something like 'I see where he gets his manners from' to my father in law for instance, but anything past that I don't think I'd feel comfortable with.

While it's totally innocent, I think maybe it's just not culturally acceptable for me....

Please don't think I'm knocking you for it though, to each his own!
Yardiewife
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 5 2008, 01:10 PM) *
I don't think 'innocent' flirting exists in Jamaican culture like that....

I would deem it disrespectful for me to say playfully something like JG did to her landlord in front of my husband.....I would say something like 'I see where he gets his manners from' to my father in law for instance, but anything past that I don't think I'd feel comfortable with.

While it's totally innocent, I think maybe it's just not culturally acceptable for me....

Please don't think I'm knocking you for it though, to each his own!


This is how I am as well - although I can't link it to my JA heritage/culture. I don't flirt any sort of way, even playful and innocent. Doing something like that was engrained in me as being disrespectful to your spouse. Just like JE I am not looking down on anyone or anything but it is just something that I can't personally do. My views on it are different than most I presume.

Jengles
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 5 2008, 04:09 PM) *
Mi have one secret secret7vf.gif

TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY!!! WOOHOO!!! I love birthdays!



happy B-Day!!!!!
Marlita
QUOTE(JALOVE @ Mar 5 2008, 12:40 PM) *
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 03:33 PM) *
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 12:22 PM) *
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 03:12 PM) *
QUOTE(brownnskinn @ Mar 5 2008, 11:32 AM) *
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 03:25 PM) *
Pardon mi...mi might too kuntri fi dis...How do you FLIRT with class in front of your SO? Please, enlighten me or elobratishhh fi mi.



DWL.... laughing.gif laughing.gif ...I don't know. I know how to flirt when he's not around yes.gif always playful and never any intent...unless I need help with a tire, or some bags or some tile or something. Hubby get all kinds of stuff for free...I know he flirts his self up on some stuff.


woo hoo, dis a how mi flirt....mi seh mi pimp miself out fi di free tings dem. haha


fi real , the man at the gas station like me, all he does is give me free soda, but mi want free gas, mi can buy a dollar soda *cha*


haha, this remind me of when I was little, like 7 and miy older sis11 use to pimp me out to the local corner market store clerk tuh get free pickles and cookies.....she say, "go smile at the man nah' haha, yeah we started young.


lol nice.... smile.gif ok with that bein said now u have me wanting corner store onion pickles and pickled pig feet and a pack of rainblow and lemon cookies


Girl, this was the lick! Walters Market! thats where I would go for all that when I was little. They always had the pig feet on the counter in the back with the pickles in that big jar. i loved that place, til it got burned in the LA riots in the '90's..so sad.
Marlita
wha yuh secret Yardie? yuh pregnant, pregnant?!!

QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 01:21 PM) *
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 5 2008, 04:09 PM) *
Mi have one secret secret7vf.gif

TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY!!! WOOHOO!!! I love birthdays!



happy B-Day!!!!!


oh!!!, haha. I couldnt see the spoiler. Happy Birthday!
JALOVE
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 04:28 PM) *
QUOTE(JALOVE @ Mar 5 2008, 12:40 PM) *
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 03:33 PM) *
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 12:22 PM) *
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 03:12 PM) *
QUOTE(brownnskinn @ Mar 5 2008, 11:32 AM) *
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 03:25 PM) *
Pardon mi...mi might too kuntri fi dis...How do you FLIRT with class in front of your SO? Please, enlighten me or elobratishhh fi mi.



DWL.... laughing.gif laughing.gif ...I don't know. I know how to flirt when he's not around yes.gif always playful and never any intent...unless I need help with a tire, or some bags or some tile or something. Hubby get all kinds of stuff for free...I know he flirts his self up on some stuff.


woo hoo, dis a how mi flirt....mi seh mi pimp miself out fi di free tings dem. haha


fi real , the man at the gas station like me, all he does is give me free soda, but mi want free gas, mi can buy a dollar soda *cha*


haha, this remind me of when I was little, like 7 and miy older sis11 use to pimp me out to the local corner market store clerk tuh get free pickles and cookies.....she say, "go smile at the man nah' haha, yeah we started young.


lol nice.... smile.gif ok with that bein said now u have me wanting corner store onion pickles and pickled pig feet and a pack of rainblow and lemon cookies


Girl, this was the lick! Walters Market! thats where I would go for all that when I was little. They always had the pig feet on the counter in the back with the pickles in that big jar. i loved that place, til it got burned in the LA riots in the '90's..so sad.


Darn i forget about the pickled hot sausages too. Now the eggs i was not even gonna try. I cant imagin what a pickled egg taste like imagin that.
Yardiewife
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 01:35 PM) *
wha yuh secret Yardie? yuh pregnant, pregnant?!!

QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 01:21 PM) *
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 5 2008, 04:09 PM) *
Mi have one secret secret7vf.gif

TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY!!! WOOHOO!!! I love birthdays!



happy B-Day!!!!!


oh!!!, haha. I couldnt see the spoiler. Happy Birthday!


Thanks!

laughing.gif Marlita DO NOT bring out deh obeah pregnancy microphone no0pb.gif PUT IT AWAY!!! laughing.gif laughing.gif
Marlita
happy.gif

Yardie, mi see yuh meez and mi wuk inna deh same office...weh yuh deh? Mek we go fi lunch!
Jengles
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 04:35 PM) *
wha yuh secret Yardie? yuh pregnant, pregnant?!!

QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 01:21 PM) *
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 5 2008, 04:09 PM) *
Mi have one secret secret7vf.gif

TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY!!! WOOHOO!!! I love birthdays!



happy B-Day!!!!!


oh!!!, haha. I couldnt see the spoiler. Happy Birthday!


I couldn't see it either until i hit reply, all i saw was a black bar...my orginal reply was i'm nosy and wanted to know what the secret was
Yardiewife
Oh if you highlight across it it will show up. It was called a "spoiler effect" so I thought I would give it a try. Didn't know it would be hard to see laughing.gif
Jengles
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 5 2008, 04:37 PM) *
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 01:35 PM) *
wha yuh secret Yardie? yuh pregnant, pregnant?!!

QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 01:21 PM) *
QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 5 2008, 04:09 PM) *
Mi have one secret secret7vf.gif

TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY!!! WOOHOO!!! I love birthdays!



happy B-Day!!!!!


oh!!!, haha. I couldnt see the spoiler. Happy Birthday!


Thanks!

laughing.gif Marlita DO NOT bring out deh obeah pregnancy microphone no0pb.gif PUT IT AWAY!!! laughing.gif laughing.gif



fi real because she nuh careful wid it and always a point it all over the place.
Jomo's girl
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 02:17 PM) *
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 5 2008, 02:01 PM) *
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 12:54 PM) *
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 5 2008, 10:41 AM) *
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 12:19 PM) *
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 5 2008, 08:51 AM) *
The thing I am trying to say is there is no going back. If a man cheats on me, he better be willing to move forward. I have never, nor will I ever take a cheater back. It is my one rule I have never, nor will I ever go back on.

So, no, the answer is that it is not hard to stick to a rule you make if you really believe in that rule.

In a marriage, or any relationship for that matter, there are always grey areas to compromise on. However, I believe cheating breaks ALL the rules. I never compromise on this issue.



Just to play devils advocate here....what if you found out your partner cheated say, a year ago? You just find out, would you leave him now, or forgive what he did a year ago? Also, what if this same situation had children involved, meaning you have a young child between the 2 of you?


Yes, one of us would have to go. There are not "what ifs" in this one for me. If he cheats....at any point during our relationship.....and I find out about it, it's over. I believe in this issue with everything I have. There is no gray area here. I make it very clear from the beginning of a serious relationship. If you want me, you can have only me. If you want others, then move along.

No other scenario would make a difference. I am not dependent on any man. I need my husband in many different ways but to say I am solely dependent on anyone but myself is absolutely ridiculous. I am a strong woman completely capable of taking care of myself. My husband does not complete me, nor vice versa. We compliment each other.


WOW! Well I don't think anyone questions your "independecy" JG. You make it quite clear that you can take care of yourself. However, I don't think that has anything to do with a partner that cheated a year ago.



Of course it does. If I set ground rules that say I am unbendable on this subject, why would any time period or dependents make a difference?
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 01:00 PM) *
all i did was go to lunch and you all chat up two more pages,



uhhummm (clears throat) and who started it?


but dependents might make a difference right, if u couldn't support yourself and your kids??


That might be the case, I suppose. I guess I can't see that point of view cause I've never been in that position. I've always worked hard not to ever be that dependent on anyone.
Yardiewife
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 01:40 PM) *
happy.gif

Yardie, mi see yuh meez and mi wuk inna deh same office...weh yuh deh? Mek we go fi lunch!


laughing.gif Mi ere a wuk like foolishness...gotta love/hate month end dead.gif Mi juss get back from lunch but mi will go again laughing.gif Wha we a go have?
Hotlegz
obeah who a get obeah today..

OK..mi kinda late but y'll know me...Mek my hsband ever put dung any kinda flirting infront a mi and we will have a war..no one flirts in this relationship..u lead ppl on they might think there is some seriousness behind it when u might be comepletely trying to be friendly...bettah yet the other sex
sjb1221
Happy Birthday Yardie rose.gif
Hotlegz
Yeah Yards..HAPPY B-DAY..WISHES OF MANY MANY MORE !! rose.gif
MSNELLY
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 5 2008, 11:28 AM) *
Cheating is cheating....and that is anything he wouldn`t do in front of me


I agree 110%
MSNELLY
QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 12:42 PM) *
QUOTE(brownnskinn @ Mar 5 2008, 09:51 AM) *
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 01:39 PM) *
QUOTE(Jomo @ Mar 5 2008, 12:32 PM) *
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 5 2008, 11:28 AM) *
Cheating is cheating....and that is anything he wouldn`t do in front of me



I agree with both of the last 2 posts on this subject.

We are all adults here. We know what friendship entails and when know when it crosses over the boundry into something else. If he's hiding stuff from you, that boundry has been crossed. If me or my husband can't say something in the presence of the other to one of our "friends" then we have a problem.


agree with what i've bolded

but i'm thinking i'm not understanding what emotional cheating is! i'm thinking that it is stuff u should be telling your wife and your not, maybe because the two of you have grown apart, i'm picking up from the other posts..that in really almost come in like flirting?? is this right?? like fishing to see if u can go there (sexually) helpsmilie.gif


I thinkin it can be both ways. I think flirting can be strictly physical. Heck I flirt. But when you to get to confiding in another man or woman that's different, you look foward to your interactions with the other person, they start to make you feel good( need being met) They are forfilling a neet not being met by the husband or wife or not realizing their need can only be met by the MAN ABOVE. They are headed for trouble.


Come on now, we ALL flirt. I wouldn't think my man to be human if he didnt. wacko.gif its when you take it to another level. i can flirt in front of my man and he knows its just playful Marlita doing her thing.


flirting will get u told the hell off, and thats just plain disrespectful to me
Hotlegz
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GIRLS I WANNA SHOUT...I FEEL THE BEST I'VE FELT IN 1 1/2 MTH..OMG NEVA THOUGHT THIS DAY WOULD COME..MI A PRAY IT STAY THOUGH...MI EAT ACKEE AND SALTFISH TODAY AND MI CRANBERRY JUICE SOMETHING I COULDN'T KEEP DOWN...I'M LOVING IT..MI A TEK MI TIME DOA MY GOSH ...THANK YOU ALL FOR EVERY WORD OF PRAYER AND GOOD THOUGHTS..MI LOVE OONUH



Great news, Kimmy.

My wish is that the rest of your pregnancy goes very quick and smoothly.

Kimmy I hope you continue to feel great!!

I am sick again in the 3rd trimester. I think I caught the flu. They sent me home from work. I am waiting for the results on a blood test. They should be in a few hours. There was a couple out breaks of fifths disease at my work. I am thinking I don't have it. I heard you could loss your baby if you get it before 20 weeks pregnant. So I thank the Lord that I am in the third trimester.


Hope you feel better soon.



JAx.. I HOPE U FEEL BETTER SOON and that it is not fifths disease vry contagious..u'll be surprised what that baby is doing for you smile.gif it doesn't want to be sick either smile.gif i hope all comes back ok
Yardiewife
Oh Jax I hope you feel better rose.gif I hope the blood work comes back ok. My mom just started working at a school this year and she got fifths disease - not fun at all.
Hotlegz
Jomo i forgot to say thank you...i too wish the rest of this preggo ting goes by fast..*is it delivery day yet*...aww bwoy
MSNELLY
Happy Birthday Yardie rose.gif rose.gif
sjb1221
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Happy Birthday Yardie rose.gif rose.gif


MSNELLY - I see your visa journey has ended....best wishes to 'ya rose.gif
MSNELLY
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QUOTE(MSNELLY @ Mar 5 2008, 05:07 PM) *
Happy Birthday Yardie rose.gif rose.gif


MSNELLY - I see your visa journey has ended....best wishes to 'ya rose.gif



THANKS EVERYTHING HAPPEN FOR A REASON BETTER NOW THEN LATER
Yardiewife
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QUOTE(sjb1221 @ Mar 5 2008, 04:08 PM) *
QUOTE(MSNELLY @ Mar 5 2008, 05:07 PM) *
Happy Birthday Yardie rose.gif rose.gif


MSNELLY - I see your visa journey has ended....best wishes to 'ya rose.gif



THANKS EVERYTHING HAPPEN FOR A REASON BETTER NOW THEN LATER


That is a good attitude to have rose.gif I hope life goes well for you from here on out smile.gif

Thank all for the bday wishes! kicking.gif
MSNELLY
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QUOTE(MSNELLY @ Mar 5 2008, 02:11 PM) *
QUOTE(sjb1221 @ Mar 5 2008, 04:08 PM) *
QUOTE(MSNELLY @ Mar 5 2008, 05:07 PM) *
Happy Birthday Yardie rose.gif rose.gif


MSNELLY - I see your visa journey has ended....best wishes to 'ya rose.gif



THANKS EVERYTHING HAPPEN FOR A REASON BETTER NOW THEN LATER


That is a good attitude to have rose.gif I hope life goes well for you from here on out smile.gif

Thank all for the bday wishes! kicking.gif


ITS GOING WELL ALREADY MY PHONES BILL IS BACK TO NORMAL wink.gif ENJOY UR DAY
brownnskinn
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QUOTE(Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 04:35 PM) *
wha yuh secret Yardie? yuh pregnant, pregnant?!!

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QUOTE(Yardiewife @ Mar 5 2008, 04:09 PM) *
Mi have one secret secret7vf.gif

TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY!!! WOOHOO!!! I love birthdays!



happy B-Day!!!!!


oh!!!, haha. I couldnt see the spoiler. Happy Birthday!


I couldn't see it either until i hit reply, all i saw was a black bar...my orginal reply was i'm nosy and wanted to know what the secret was



Yeah there is sumting wrong with it. Happy b-day girl!!!!
brownnskinn
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all i did was go to lunch and you all chat up two more pages,



Look what you started whistling.gif .. and you mean you went to lunch laughing.gif



Yuh now I love mi belly, we need to have a class on how jengles should not sitdown to a meal that has 3 starches and no protein.


Even worse no veggies. Hubby made breakfast the odda day he had pancakes, waffels and oatmeal blink.gif
Jengles
OKAY,

NEXT QUESTION

how do u handle people who don't respect your relationship - or think your s/o is with you only to get their papers.


mr jengles met this older guy from j.a. at school, the guy lives with his daughter, the guy is in his 50's mr jengles says. ok so they talk every once in a while. the school had something for xmas and mr jengles made two dishes. They guy calls and invites mr jengles over to his house for xmas dinner. so mr jengles asks me if we can go, so i said sure in the evening. the guy then calls mr jengles and says to him, too bad mr jengles couldn't come over and cook xmas dinner for him and his daughter. I'm like huh???? mr jengles just took it as a complement to his cooking. I didn't cause u know the man has his family so what the hell are u talking about. anyway xmas day I was sick so we didn't go anywhere.

then the man calls and mr jengles says to him he is going to j.a. and the man could call me and get mr jengles cellphone number in j.a. o.k cool. the man calls a week later when he thinks mr jengles is in j.a. (remember now he lost his passport) so he was supposed to be in j.a. when the man called. the man says oh my duaghter went down yesterday. she's wasn't even staying anywhere around ochi, but still that is what u're calling him to tell him. not how u are doing or how is j.a. Is it just me reading too much into something. I asked one of my friends and she said I wasn't, just want to make sure. I haven't said anything to mr. jengles. the man has been calling since mr jengles has been gone but never when i'm home. so how do deal with something like that??



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QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 04:10 PM) *
QUOTE(brownnskinn @ Mar 5 2008, 02:02 PM) *
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 03:00 PM) *
all i did was go to lunch and you all chat up two more pages,



Look what you started whistling.gif .. and you mean you went to lunch laughing.gif



Yuh now I love mi belly, we need to have a class on how jengles should not sitdown to a meal that has 3 starches and no protein.


Even worse no veggies. Hubby made breakfast the odda day he had pancakes, waffels and oatmeal blink.gif



Vegegies, that sounds like a bad word!!! I should do a lot better than what i'm doing.
brownnskinn
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QUOTE(brownnskinn @ Mar 5 2008, 01:45 PM) *
Gill you crack me up.

I want some cheesecake tongue_ss.gif

STOP IT BROWNIE!!!!! Don't Chica...you have been doing SOOOOOOOOO well...guh brush your teeth! They say that takes the taste outta yuh mouth!

Plus how many more minutes is that on the treadmill?????? no0pb.gif no0pb.gif

Bless,
Gill


I didn't eat any!(today) I was just craving it. Gosh! blink.gif I don't know whats the matter. Ive been cravin carbs like crazy. I had it under control but this week has been mad crazy. I want every thing I see, den I want everything I can't see. I still wuk out same wey.
JaEnglishGirl
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QUOTE(sjb1221 @ Mar 5 2008, 04:08 PM) *
QUOTE(MSNELLY @ Mar 5 2008, 05:07 PM) *
Happy Birthday Yardie rose.gif rose.gif


MSNELLY - I see your visa journey has ended....best wishes to 'ya rose.gif



THANKS EVERYTHING HAPPEN FOR A REASON BETTER NOW THEN LATER

Girl you never seh a betta thing....Hold your head HIGH because it takes a STRONG woman to make the RIGHT choices sometimes.....
Jengles


I wanted to add that the reason why the guy hasn't spoken to me is because, he's calling when he thinks only mr jengles is home.
JALOVE
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 05:41 PM) *
I wanted to add that the reason why the guy hasn't spoken to me is because, he's calling when he thinks only mr jengles is home.



yeh something seem a bit shady abt mr man
Trelawny20853
Mi rahtid...mi lef fi one hour an unu reach a 13 areadi...
brownnskinn
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 06:35 PM) *
OKAY,

NEXT QUESTION

how do u handle people who don't respect your relationship - or think your s/o is with you only to get their papers.



I get less, and less of this. Actually people didn't expect us to last this long. When I get comments I usually just ignore them.

Jengs I can't follow your story, so dose he want you or your hubby wacko.gif tongue_ss.gif laughing.gif

Trelawny20853
QUOTE(Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 04:07 PM) *
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 5 2008, 04:02 PM) *
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 01:50 PM) *
I think flirting with another woman in front of me is DISRESPECTFUL...I would never do that and I'm sure my man wouldn't like it.

Years ago I was dating this guy and we went out to eat. I noticed from we sat down that this woman kept flirting with my date and we kept talking about it. So, I told him I'm going to get up and go to the restroom. The woman's date went outside to make a call and the woman walked by and handed her business card to my date. She also wrote on the back of the card (call me after 11pm he'll be at work. When I got back to the table my date gave me the card and YES, I got up walked over to her table and handed it to her date (which was her husband) and told him to read what's on the back. Was I wrong to do that?

Years ago, meeda walk up tuh har and bax har renking rass....Today I'd merely spit pan har...ok ok ok, I merely ask her in an extra LOUD voice if she neva did a get nutting fi satisfy har a night time, and maybe she shoulda try likkle alum


good grief, ya'll is violent


JENGS,

U nevah know seh yard ooman FACTEY and luv fi fight whistling.gif innocent.gif
brownnskinn
QUOTE(Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 06:45 PM) *
Mi rahtid...mi lef fi one hour an unu reach a 13 areadi...



We'll be on part 7 in no time.
MSNELLY
QUOTE(JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 5 2008, 04:40 PM) *
QUOTE(MSNELLY @ Mar 5 2008, 05:11 PM) *
QUOTE(sjb1221 @ Mar 5 2008, 04:08 PM) *
QUOTE(MSNELLY @ Mar 5 2008, 05:07 PM) *
Happy Birthday Yardie rose.gif rose.gif


MSNELLY - I see your visa journey has ended....best wishes to 'ya rose.gif



THANKS EVERYTHING HAPPEN FOR A REASON BETTER NOW THEN LATER

Girl you never seh a betta thing....Hold your head HIGH because it takes a STRONG woman to make the RIGHT choices sometimes.....


TRUST ME MY HEAD IS HIGH wink.gif
Yardiewife
I am guessing he wants Mr. Jengles for his daughter?!? Something definitely seems off about the guy and his intentions.

Everytime A and I would be doing good everyone was happy for us...then when something would go bad people would come out of the woodwork telling me all about how he was only here for the green card he was using me etc. I just ignore it and if I do comment I say something like "well what goes around comes around if that is the case" or "well that is too bad for me isn't it" really sarcastic and snotty and kissing my teeth laughing.gif
Trelawny20853
[quote name='Jengles' date='Mar 5 2008, 05:35 PM' post='1636931']
OKAY,

NEXT QUESTION

how do u handle people who don't respect your relationship - or think your s/o is with you only to get their papers.


mr jengles met this older guy from j.a. at school, the guy lives with his daughter, the guy is in his 50's mr jengles says. ok so they talk every once in a while. the school had something for xmas and mr jengles made two dishes. They guy calls and invites mr jengles over to his house for xmas dinner. so mr jengles asks me if we can go, so i said sure in the evening. the guy then calls mr jengles and says to him, too bad mr jengles couldn't come over and cook xmas dinner for him and his daughter. I'm like huh???? mr jengles just took it as a complement to his cooking. I didn't cause u know the man has his family so what the hell are u talking about. anyway xmas day I was sick so we didn't go anywhere.

then the man calls and mr jengles says to him he is going to j.a. and the man could call me and get mr jengles cellphone number in j.a. o.k cool. the man calls a week later when he thinks mr jengles is in j.a. (remember now he lost his passport) so he was supposed to be in j.a. when the man called. the man says oh my duaghter went down yesterday. she's wasn't even staying anywhere around ochi, but still that is what u're calling him to tell him. not how u are doing or how is j.a. Is it just me reading too much into something. I asked one of my friends and she said I wasn't, just want to make sure. I haven't said anything to mr. jengles. the man has been calling since mr jengles has been gone but never when i'm home. so how do deal with something like that??


JENGS what is the name of your boss...joke mi a mek...mi ago read di...lawd u type nuff

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