Ok I am headed off to lunch but had a topic I wanted to throw out there...

Would you still file AOS or removing conditions for your spouse if things in the marriage didn't work out between the two of you? Take out all the factors of them just coming for a green card and all that. It was a genuine bona fide marriage but it just didn't work between the two of you. Would you file to let them stay here?

What factors would or wouldn't cause you to file for them?

(Please don't read more into this than there is in regard to my personal situation...I am genuinely just curious and wonder what others would do in the situation.)

Yardie,

so sorry to hear about your grandma! I think the people at those places becaome desensatized after a while and forget that they are dealing with someone's grandmother. Are u guys able to bring her home on weekend??

yes because I would want the child support

Well, considering AOS should really be filed before the I-94 expires and he is out of status, I would say Hell no. If my marriage can't last 90 days, it couldn't have been very bonafide in the first place. And, honestly, I would not accept any reasoning whatsoever at this point.

Now, if you are talking about Lifting of Conditions......2 years later, that would be a different story for me. I'd still say NO; but at least he could file a waiver and file for himself. I would not oppose his petition.

Yep that is basically my standpoint as well. I wouldn't oppose it but I am not going to be held responsible for the next 10 years of my life for someone who doesn't want to be married.

Thanks Jengles...she lives there in this assisted living/retirement home fulltime all the time. She has like a little studio apartment and all her meals and everything are included. It really is a nice place I just think the care is lacking. She never really leaves there...she just doesn't have the energy. We have taken her out to dinner and stuff like that but she doesn't really like to leave so she just stays there. That is very true about the desensatization...never really thought of that.

Thanks Shauna The lack of disrespect is just astounding to me sometimes. Sorry your grandma had to go through that.

Geesh everyone must be working at work for once We will never get to page 100 today at this rate. I was hoping that the Captain would have to shut our thread down in less than a month cause we get to big

How are you feeling Shauna? Ready to have her already?

Yep that is basically my standpoint as well. I wouldn't oppose it but I am not going to be held responsible for the next 10 years of my life for someone who doesn't want to be married.

today has been actually a good day....not to tired..just not that hungry either..which is a good thing but at night forget about it....i just can't get comfortable at all...and my dreams are horrible....
it was funny today my mom and i were..where else shopping and were talking to this lady about her stroller and how well she liked it ect ect...and i thought to myself...wow...this is what my life has come to....checking out baby strollers oh well i will be ssssoo happy when she is here.....

Ok I am headed off to lunch but had a topic I wanted to throw out there...

Would you still file AOS or removing conditions for your spouse if things in the marriage didn't work out between the two of you? Take out all the factors of them just coming for a green card and all that. It was a genuine bona fide marriage but it just didn't work between the two of you. Would you file to let them stay here?

What factors would or wouldn't cause you to file for them?

(Please don't read more into this than there is in regard to my personal situation...I am genuinely just curious and wonder what others would do in the situation.)

Thanks Jengles...she lives there in this assisted living/retirement home fulltime all the time. She has like a little studio apartment and all her meals and everything are included. It really is a nice place I just think the care is lacking. She never really leaves there...she just doesn't have the energy. We have taken her out to dinner and stuff like that but she doesn't really like to leave so she just stays there. That is very true about the desensatization...never really thought of that.

Thanks Shauna The lack of disrespect is just astounding to me sometimes. Sorry your grandma had to go through that.

today has been actually a good day....not to tired..just not that hungry either..which is a good thing but at night forget about it....i just can't get comfortable at all...and my dreams are horrible....
it was funny today my mom and i were..where else shopping and were talking to this lady about her stroller and how well she liked it ect ect...and i thought to myself...wow...this is what my life has come to....checking out baby strollers oh well i will be ssssoo happy when she is here.....

English,

your stroller still looks weird,

do you take it into stores and stuff...it would be too big for the small aisles we have here in nyc

I LOVE mine, this is what I have....

hhhmm interesting....how does it work once the child is older?? is there a seat then that they can sit in?

Oh yes!!!

Here's a video

http://www.stokkeusa.com/xplorydemo.htm

Yep that is basically my standpoint as well. I wouldn't oppose it but I am not going to be held responsible for the next 10 years of my life for someone who doesn't want to be married.

so the carry cot turns into a seat then and can be turned to face you or the other way?

i like the fact that it is higher up...is it easy to fold and put away?

but what if it is the american citizen who wants to end the marriage?

Like Jomo said...I wouldn't apply for the AOS pacakge if things didn't work out. Once you sign the I-864 along with the AOS application...you're stuck being responsible for the next 10 years anyway. So between the 2 year and 10 year...depending on the circumstances...I may.
Hello everyone.

Jamie - sorry to hear about your grandmother. Hope she gets better soon.

Ok guys in 15 mins I am off to the Comcast office to see about getting myself a home phone and internet Hope and pray it goes well and I can get something in my area (remember it is bush ) and that I can get a good deal and they set it up soon! Gosh I really hope I can get something!

GOOD MORNING my BEAUTIFUL SISTAHS!

Order our steps dear God this week.

Heavenly Father, another week is upon us. I ask that you order steps this week dear God. So much is going on in our lives that we sometimes don't take the time to thank you for what we have and to cherish and appreciate everything that you have blessed upon us. But, today, I/we lift up our hands and voices in prayer dear God and ask that you watch over my sisters here and elsewhere in the world. I ask that you hold on to us as we go through trails in our life dear God. I ask that you protect my sisters on VJ that are pregnant and watch over their precious gift that you have blessed them dear God. (Especially, Kimmy - I pray she gain at least 25lbs). I ask that you heal those that are in pain and those that are recovering from illness, so that may remain healthy. I ask that you keep all of us near and dear to you, as we go through the immigration process. Shower us with your strength and wisdom dear God.

And Lord, GILL, GILL, GILL, tommorow, Tuesday, March 11, 2008 is her interview day. Lord I ask that you stand over the Embassy in Jamaica and you stand beside her as she waits in line with Ken and as she goes through the interview process. Lord, please deliver her safely to the embassy, please protect her and wrap your arms around her and Ken. Lord we know that without you, we are nothing and with your we are everything.

All of these I/we pray and ask of you, dear God, in your heavenly name. Amen.





Mawin Shyne...u deh a Friday areadi... I had to drag my son out of bed this morning. Telling me it's DARK outside Mommy the SUN IS NOT AWAKE YET and goes back to sleep.

Jengs mi agree mi in it fi di child support too..and of course to make his life HELL ...but I wouldn't file for someone to stay here if we have no ties nothing..no need to be here...no golden dick no deh yah so..like Jengs seh a "mi ave di golden pums"

So mi a tell mi husband bout di schoold kids..him seh him no surprised a so dem pickney deh stay a Norman Manley..."if u go to dem a seh wah u a do is wrong, u woulda hear how much claut inna yuh ears" bwoy it's sad..what values are being taught..maybe mommy too busy a try mek it...maybe daddy no give a... and mommy a one whore..who the heck knows

Yards...I'm late but I pray ur grandma lives her days comfortably...and of course we PRAY u get yuh service inna yuh bush..


English I LOVE THAT STROLLER..except mi cyaa afford it although mi did seh mi a go splurge pon dah one yah love it though
kinds reminds me of the bugaboo which mi love tuh

Mi no si Lawny from eveing weh yuh deh..hope all is well and u nah mek di EX stress yuh too much...memba April round di corner

Ok I am headed off to lunch but had a topic I wanted to throw out there...

Would you still file AOS or removing conditions for your spouse if things in the marriage didn't work out between the two of you? Take out all the factors of them just coming for a green card and all that. It was a genuine bona fide marriage but it just didn't work between the two of you. Would you file to let them stay here?

What factors would or wouldn't cause you to file for them?

(Please don't read more into this than there is in regard to my personal situation...I am genuinely just curious and wonder what others would do in the situation.)

Lawny..no bodda bex..u know Jengs and di dinner like how Mr.Jengs not in town

talk truth cause me done say weh day yah, is him doing the cooking...so mi nuh no wha she a look for from mi, is me to look from she...a chat bout she a cook curry goat fi two days and all now it nuh cook!!

ok mi nah mad..why is there a prono advertisement at the top of VJ screen...hahaah..mi deh a mi sister yard and mi a hope a her PC a act up...




hahaaa..wait til she come ..u a mek fun a har CURRY GOATTTTT !!!

Jengs,

mi deh wid yuh pon dis one...everytime a new "religious" group come "over" they bawl descrimination..what about the laws of the land that existed before...? I'm all for rules and regulation because it keeps "order". But, for ur kids toget some prayer inna school dem affi go Catholic school...My school was/is catholic and I remember everything that they "tried" to teach to this day. And bout di governor mi ear bout it today....can you imagine if these are the people that are setting these "rules" and braking them at the same time..how are we as lay men to uphold them true? I love America but as the years go by it seems less and less a country of standards I want to keep. look at the Mormans..shyt mi no inna wah dem inna but look it WORKS..doesn't it ??

Wow that is shocking and disturbing

I guess one thing I dislike about the USA, 90% of the strollers are puke green!!




please don't all stone me at once!

Well, considering AOS should really be filed before the I-94 expires and he is out of status, I would say Hell no. If my marriage can't last 90 days, it couldn't have been very bonafide in the first place. And, honestly, I would not accept any reasoning whatsoever at this point.

Now, if you are talking about Lifting of Conditions......2 years later, that would be a different story for me. I'd still say NO; but at least he could file a waiver and file for himself. I would not oppose his petition.

HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY NANNY
I hope you enjoyed your day

Oh yes!!!

Here's a video

http://www.stokkeusa.com/xplorydemo.htm

Sorry to hear about your Grandma Jamie!


Hey I just bought a green one with frogs. It was the cheapest one around and my favorite color is green so it works for me.


My husband told me he would go back to Jamaica if that would ever happen. With the CR1 there is no AOS. So they already have their green card once they arrive.

Wow they are expensive from 700 to 1099. My goodness it must be nice. Where they cheaper in UK?

Damien said the same thing two year ago. Things are a little different now. Not sure if he feels the same way....

For a stoller That reminds me to re-fill my BC prescription.

For a stoller That reminds me to re-fill my BC prescription.