QUOTE(sunnybear @ Jun 13 2008, 08:40 PM)

Well good news and bad news...I got message from CRIS....so good news is our case is being worked on..BAD news is they are saying we are held up in security checks

Ok neither of us have any record of any kind! The only thing we could think would be holding us up is the fact I was married to a military guy so I lived in Michigan,Utah, Okinawa Japan, and England over the past 10 years. That and the fact Gareth got turned away at customs in December (because they thought he was going to try and come and stay on a 6 month visa instead of going back at the end of it).
Soooo what do you all think? We are pretty dang down about all this as it says it could be another 180 days and also Gareth read an attachment (I cannot read it until I get home from work) saying something how people can be stuck for years in this!!!! UMMMMM WTF?!?!?!?
Anyone have positive words of wisdom for me? PLEASE
I am so so sorry sunny! I know how frustrating it must be!!
Like Gareth told you, I would try to focus on something different.
When I was feeling down some months ago, I tried to be as busy as I could, to go out,to go see some friends. My fiancé was also used to tell me to do not focus on something you don't have any controls on.
Easy for me to say, but it is what I did, and it did work well for me.
I don't believe in God, but I have you in my thoughts as well... wish you the best of luck into that process!