QUOTE(sunnybear @ Jun 10 2008, 11:07 AM)

Ok getting a bit bummed and Gareth even more so now that we are seeing February approvals!!!!! ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

I really hope that it is as Cecile says and that you'll receive your approval this week!
QUOTE(dbears @ Jun 10 2008, 11:33 AM)

I can relate to 'plan changes from one day to the next...
last month Ricky and I already agreed not to have best man, maid of honor and all that fuzz. We agreed that it will be a very intimate wedding with just me and him and our 3 kids plus his mom and sister and family of his sister..... today, he was talking about getting the measurement of his daughter's bf for the barong (a filipino formal wear for men) and he will be sending it to me so i could go ahead and have it done here.. I was like: "wait, i thought we wouldn't be having all those fuss?"
I just want to have an outdoor wedding with a bbq reception and just a licensed Christian minister to perform the ceremony and that's it... now I don't know what he will pop up again next time we talk... I told him we should set the budget and then plan around it and stick with it NOT plan ahead and then have the budget later.
sunny, hope you could share ideas for a wedding by the lake (it is actually a park)... but first, I hope you will get that NOA2 soonest. I'm rooting for you!!!!
rachel, I am with you.. when the medical and interview seems so close, it will be hard to think of other things... especially big things such as wedding.
Sticking to a budget is good! I can fully understand your concerns...fuss isn't me, either! Good luck sorting everything out; I hope it doesn't cause too much stress.

sunny - I have NO idea what it is like! But I shall let you know when I do know.

Cecile - if it is anything like last December, it will be chilly but bearable outdoors in California if people wear jackets/long sleeves. The temperatures can drop quite sharply after the sun sets, but while the sun is out it is not too cold. It doesn't really rain in December, but later, in January/February, so hopefully it will be sunny.

And it won't be as brown or desolate as England gets; this is the park near Alex's house last Christmas: