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roi_aggie
of course it does! yes.gif
Mrs. Forgetful
Anyone who says size doesn't matter is lying! You have to think about length and circumference! If it's too big it'll hurt, if it's too small you wont feel it. Thank God I love my husband! He's perfect!
john & jean
ran across this and just whistling.gif had to rerun it
john & jean
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DakotaK1
Wow some of these Polls are getting more and more kinky LOL
sukie175
You can check out anytime you like....but you can never leave

Did someone call my name??
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Nessa
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Nagishkaw
QUOTE(DakotaK1 @ Mar 4 2008, 06:23 PM) *
Wow some of these Polls are getting more and more kinky LOL


WELCOME TO VJ!!!
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snowfrostedlashes
I know I was actually quite daunted by the size issue because I'd only been intimate with one other person previously and he was significantly smaller in that area than Mark is... so I was worried in all kinds of silly ways about whether it would hurt or even if it would fit!

Because he is larger and because I'm obviously unused to regular sex with the whole distance issue, it does mean that we can't just leap on each other like some couples tell me they do. Luckily neither of us minds the extra prep-work wink.gif

Ultimately, if both partners are considerate and pay attention to the others needs, all should work out well. But for me, I think I would be severely put off a relationship with someone if they were extremely large - that may seem shallow of me, but comfort is a factor.
Wacken
QUOTE(Nagishkaw @ Mar 6 2008, 07:41 AM) *
QUOTE(DakotaK1 @ Mar 4 2008, 06:23 PM) *
Wow some of these Polls are getting more and more kinky LOL


WELCOME TO VJ!!!
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I keep thinking someone should have already suggested a cut vs. uncut poll seeing this one, but alas it does not show up in the related threads box.
DeadPoolX
The problem -- as I see it -- with the whole "does size matter" issue is the way it's presented in society and the media. It's often shown as "bigger is always better" and despite what TV shows and college-themed movies would have us believe, that's not necessarily true. What I believe most women mean when they might say "size matters" is not that "bigger is better" but, instead they'd like a size that is compatible with them.

If you think about it, that makes sense. First of all, how many women really want to be poked and prodded by a 12" shaft of flesh? Maybe they'd be interested in looking at it, but I doubt very many would actually want it probing their insides. Even if a woman did want that, it wouldn't matter if she couldn't effectively and comfortably accomodate it. Not all women can, despite what porn may "teach" us. What good is sexual intercourse if it hurts everytime?

So I think all most women mean when they say "size matters" is they'd like a size that is relatively compatible with them -- not necessarily something that resembles King Kong's schlong (or possibly Eric). Besides, I have to imagine that the man attached to the penis is more important than the penis itself. After all, if women only wanted the penis (and not the man), it'd probably be a lot less of a hassle to just go buy a dildo or a large vibrator. tongue.gif

NOTE: This is just a theory thought up by a man, but based off discussions with numerous women of different ages and relationship status. This theory may or may not work for you; if it does, great and if it doesn't, that's fine too. smile.gif
panamania79
QUOTE(sukie175 @ Apr 28 2006, 12:44 AM) *
I think it would be untrue to say that size does not matter....I have had an 'are you in yet' experience and it wasn't ever gonna be a lasting relationship, despite him being gorgeous. I have also been to the other end of the scale and it made sex uncomfortable and infrequent.

So I think it does matter that he is a comfortable fit blush.gif

I am not getting into the it's how he uses it angle here, this is just a straight yes or no answer.


Yes it does.I have never bought that "motion in the ocean" theory.
bora bora
Size does matter - and by that I mean a comfortable size.
I agree with DeadPoolX.

If you've had to ask the question "is it in yet?" (or think it) then you know that some size is important. And as far as being too big, did you see the "Sex and the City" episode when not even Samantha could handle that BIG guy...?
almaty
I think size only matters, if the woman youa re with..has a vagina the size of the grand canyon..........
Jason-Sasha
Interesting results. I guess the saying "size doesn't matter" is a bunch of horse $hit. laughing.gif
The Robinsons
YES it absolutely matters. The bigger the better - that goes for both length and thickness
Maria~n~Dane
I'd have to say YES!! size matter's for me, coz i want to be penetrated NOT tickled ( vixen's quote - my best friend from back home and on yahoo) blush.gif crap, did i just type that out loud innocent.gif

What can i say laughing.gif
Magenta
QUOTE(Maria~n~Dane @ Mar 17 2008, 10:10 AM) *
coz i want to be penetrated NOT tickled


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Maria!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Amby
I would only say that it mattered IF it was one of those that was so small it made you say "that's all?" and yes I saw one of those once
browneyedgirl
QUOTE(sukie175 @ Apr 28 2006, 01:44 AM) *
I think it would be untrue to say that size does not matter....I have had an 'are you in yet' experience and it wasn't ever gonna be a lasting relationship, despite him being gorgeous. I have also been to the other end of the scale and it made sex uncomfortable and infrequent.

So I think it does matter that he is a comfortable fit blush.gif

I am not getting into the it's how he uses it angle here, this is just a straight yes or no answer.


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mawilson
QUOTE(Amber&Neil @ Mar 17 2008, 07:29 PM) *
I would only say that it mattered IF it was one of those that was so small it made you say "that's all?" and yes I saw one of those once

Do these guys ever get married, I wonder? They're basically f*cked, no woman seems to want them.
mawilson
QUOTE(The Robinsons @ Mar 16 2008, 03:55 PM) *
YES it absolutely matters. The bigger the better - that goes for both length and thickness

The bigger the better, no matter how big it is? ohmy.gif

Then I guess you either haven't seen BIG or have a big ol' sloppy hole.

P.S. Not a personal attack, just an observation!
Amby
QUOTE(mawilson @ Mar 17 2008, 06:46 PM) *
QUOTE(Amber&Neil @ Mar 17 2008, 07:29 PM) *
I would only say that it mattered IF it was one of those that was so small it made you say "that's all?" and yes I saw one of those once

Do these guys ever get married, I wonder? They're basically f*cked, no woman seems to want them.


laughing.gif all I know is this guy really wanted me and he got his pants off and I actually said "that's all?" then I went out into the living room and told this very obese girl that he wanted to see her and then I left. I hear he "rocked" her world. I didn't ask for details

QUOTE(mawilson @ Mar 17 2008, 06:55 PM) *
QUOTE(The Robinsons @ Mar 16 2008, 03:55 PM) *
YES it absolutely matters. The bigger the better - that goes for both length and thickness

The bigger the better, no matter how big it is? ohmy.gif

Then I guess you either haven't seen BIG or have a big ol' sloppy hole.

P.S. Not a personal attack, just an observation!


that reminds me of an episode of sugar rush they're in a counseling session when the mom complains her husband's penis is too small and that's why she wants to swing the counselor responds...maybe his penis isn't small maybe stella's vagina is massive laughing.gif let me see if I can find a clip on youtube
almaty
QUOTE(mawilson @ Mar 17 2008, 06:55 PM) *
QUOTE(The Robinsons @ Mar 16 2008, 03:55 PM) *
YES it absolutely matters. The bigger the better - that goes for both length and thickness

The bigger the better, no matter how big it is? ohmy.gif

Then I guess you either haven't seen BIG or have a big ol' sloppy hole.

P.S. Not a personal attack, just an observation!


laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif brother ma...touche
mawilson
QUOTE(Amber&Neil @ Mar 17 2008, 08:13 PM) *
laughing.gif all I know is this guy really wanted me and he got his pants off and I actually said "that's all?" then I went out into the living room and told this very obese girl that he wanted to see her and then I left. I hear he "rocked" her world. I didn't ask for details

Awww poor guy, he's probably still traumatised by your rejection!
Nessa
of course they get married, all they have to do is make lots of money.
A.J.
QUOTE(Nessa @ Mar 17 2008, 09:15 PM) *
of course they get married, all they have to do is make lots of money.

it doesn't take a "lot" blush.gif
Amby
QUOTE(mawilson @ Mar 17 2008, 08:02 PM) *
QUOTE(Amber&Neil @ Mar 17 2008, 08:13 PM) *
laughing.gif all I know is this guy really wanted me and he got his pants off and I actually said "that's all?" then I went out into the living room and told this very obese girl that he wanted to see her and then I left. I hear he "rocked" her world. I didn't ask for details

Awww poor guy, he's probably still traumatised by your rejection!


3-4yrs later he tried it again but this time the girl wasn't around. just had to let him down the harshly laughing.gif
almaty
QUOTE(Amber&Neil @ Mar 17 2008, 09:55 PM) *
QUOTE(mawilson @ Mar 17 2008, 08:02 PM) *
QUOTE(Amber&Neil @ Mar 17 2008, 08:13 PM) *
laughing.gif all I know is this guy really wanted me and he got his pants off and I actually said "that's all?" then I went out into the living room and told this very obese girl that he wanted to see her and then I left. I hear he "rocked" her world. I didn't ask for details

Awww poor guy, he's probably still traumatised by your rejection!


3-4yrs later he tried it again but this time the girl wasn't around. just had to let him down the harshly laughing.gif


hmmm.. sadly i remember this event..the fat girl ....stalked me for days until i moved out of the area
Ms. Squirrel
QUOTE(Amber&Neil @ Mar 18 2008, 01:13 AM) *
QUOTE(mawilson @ Mar 17 2008, 06:46 PM) *
QUOTE(Amber&Neil @ Mar 17 2008, 07:29 PM) *
I would only say that it mattered IF it was one of those that was so small it made you say "that's all?" and yes I saw one of those once

Do these guys ever get married, I wonder? They're basically f*cked, no woman seems to want them.


laughing.gif all I know is this guy really wanted me and he got his pants off and I actually said "that's all?" then I went out into the living room and told this very obese girl that he wanted to see her and then I left. I hear he "rocked" her world. I didn't ask for details

QUOTE(mawilson @ Mar 17 2008, 06:55 PM) *
QUOTE(The Robinsons @ Mar 16 2008, 03:55 PM) *
YES it absolutely matters. The bigger the better - that goes for both length and thickness

The bigger the better, no matter how big it is? ohmy.gif

Then I guess you either haven't seen BIG or have a big ol' sloppy hole.

P.S. Not a personal attack, just an observation!


that reminds me of an episode of sugar rush they're in a counseling session when the mom complains her husband's penis is too small and that's why she wants to swing the counselor responds...maybe his penis isn't small maybe stella's vagina is massive laughing.gif let me see if I can find a clip on youtube


Oh but seriously, who would do Nathan! LOL Even if he had the biggest schlong and he was the last man on the surface of the earth, I would keep my hands of him. He's much better off cooking toad in a hole. (besides, Stella's vagina probably does have the size of a volcano LOL) Got to love Sugar Rush.

And yeah, to add my two eurocents - size does matter.
Eresh
Size definitely matters...the thickness more so than the length.
Queen Jenn
QUOTE(aselano @ Aug 5 2006, 07:05 PM) *
QUOTE(jen&darcy @ Apr 29 2006, 12:05 AM) *

QUOTE(keltic @ Apr 28 2006, 10:29 AM) *

i think what matters is the man attached to the penis... and how he uses it... but, hey, thats not supposed to be in this thread, so we wont go into it

[snip]he could have been 3" or 12" for all i knew... it wouldnt have changed how i felt about him... we would have just had to find positions that were suitable for either extreme


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good.gif (Snipped out one part because I have no clue how it'll be yet, we've chosen to wait til after marriage. wink.gif)


We're waiting, too. So I have no idea what he's like in that area blush.gif
But I do know that I love him with all my heart and that we can work with whatever size and shape he comes with.
mawilson
QUOTE(Queen Jenn @ Mar 19 2008, 12:47 PM) *
We're waiting, too. So I have no idea what he's like in that area blush.gif
But I do know that I love him with all my heart and that we can work with whatever size and shape he comes with.

Well if he's Nigerian, you probably have nothing to worry about blush.gif tongue.gif
Queen Jenn
Uhhh, yeah, someone told me that before . . . blush.gif
mawilson
QUOTE(Queen Jenn @ Mar 19 2008, 04:23 PM) *
Uhhh, yeah, someone told me that before . . . blush.gif

Actually, I take that back. You have a LOT to worry about laughing.gif
darkhorse
This is how I like it. whistling.gif
The bigger the better blush.gif
almaty
ohmy.gif ohmy.gif is that brother Eric in that photo?
Krikit
QUOTE(almaty @ Mar 20 2008, 08:27 AM) *
ohmy.gif ohmy.gif is that brother Eric in that photo?

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The things I miss when I stay out of the sex threads. Who knew? laughing.gif
JVKn'CVO
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Saludos,
Caro
KitEEgirl
Of course it matters.......not saying that that is all that matters...but it contributes
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