QUOTE(joe11 @ Feb 20 2008, 04:00 PM)

hi
my fiancee got 221g for her k1 visa. even sumbitting all relationship proofs ( emails, photos, phone bills,postmarked cards ), the american consular lady was not convinced. she was very rude and kept asking for more proofs.she also said how come your fiancee did not booked any wedding arrangemets in the usa, my fiancee told that we were not sure when the visa was going to be issued. gave her 221g and typed need additional proof of relationship including but not limited to emails, cards, letters. also asked for wedding arrangements proofs from usa.
i am so upset with this, plz help
thanks
joe
Am sorry your fiancee got 221g. Nothing is lost yet. You need to submit *more* documents.
Do not submit each and every email..Just the email headers from you to her and from her to you( I would assume several hundreds of emails)
Print out all phone calls made to each other...
Photocopy the letters that you got from her(only the mailing address, not the content of the letter), and also ask your fiancee to photo copy letters she got from you..
Maybe get written letters from your family that this is a bonafide relationship.
Did you guys get formally engaged?
Add more evidence of *meeting* in person such as plane tickets, boarding passes, engagement receipts, purchase receipts, photos together, photos with family and so on...
Let the consular officer know that you are planning on getting married at the courthouse when your fiancee is in the US.