i actually did try to update my timeline, but for some reason i'm having problems. I did apply for an AOS, EAD etc on the same date...
as for renewing the H1B, I did consider that and started on the process. There were some issues with some documents i needed to get...some very old school records that no one seems to know where they might be. I had tried for about three months just to find out if anyone had them (including emails to the MP and MPP, and every ministry i could think of), to no avail. Then several weeks of trying to get though to the agency that dealt with the Visa Screen here. They suggested i make an appointment and go to their office..in PA...i'm in CO with absolutely no guarantee they could even help me...especially frustrating since what they kept suggesting i do, i had done already,and had documents indicating that what they asked for wasnt available. sooooo...by this time it was getting close to the wedding, so I just figured I'd go the other route, rather then pay twice for the same thing.
I'm sure all of you know just how frustrating all of this is. It seems no matter what you try, something is in place to make things more complicated!
I'll try to adjust my timeline again...maybe i'm just dense becuase i'm sleepy (i work nights and havent been to bed yet!)
BTW..how do you know something was 'touched'? Also, how long does it take for things to appear in the computer? My AOS showed up really quickly, however nothing else can be accessed.
thanks to you all for answering by the way...its so nice to talk to others who are going through all of this as well.

Annette