Go for it Charles, that will do it !

Hallo wie geht's ? Danke fur deinen guten Rat und willkommen im sub-saharan wo es im Moment etwas heiss ist Wir sind nicht immer so verrueckt hier.

Go for it Charles, that will do it !

Dankeschoen, Omoba! Und, ich weiss

Dankeschoen, Omoba! Und, ich weiss

that should keep everyone occupied puking instead of fighting

that should keep everyone occupied puking instead of fighting

i see this is still going........so here goes.....

Tsk tsk, speak English, people. Don't make me break out my translator.

Tsk tsk, speak English, people. Don't make me break out my translator.

and ich weisse deutsch..........

ich bein verrueckt au!

aber ein gutes verrueckt ja ? Mit viel Humor !

Does that mean this thread will turn warm and fuzzy now ?

Go for it Charles, that will do it !

i see this is still going........so here goes.....

You know my number !

and ich weisse deutsch..........

ich bein verrueckt au!

Does that mean this thread will turn warm and fuzzy now ?

aber ein gutes verrueckt ja ? Mit viel Humor !

ok, look at the extra hair part on his chest where it is kinda shaped like a heart. You don't see an eye and a nose?

yeah, like a Pinocceo nose and it looks kind of mean

Let me tell you I have seen it all as a massage therapist ! Hairy backs, feet and all.........even hairy feet .......try working on that for an hour !

With the amount of hair on that dude I don't think this thread will have any problems being warm and fuzzy

Ha! I'll break into my handy "german not to be used in mixed company" soon. My repertoire needs building.

With the amount of hair on that dude I don't think this thread will have any problems being warm and fuzzy

Ha! I'll break into my handy "german not to be used in mixed company" soon. My repertoire needs building.

gives new meaning to "shag carpeting" eh?

Ah grossssss


oh good i know a few.....enough to start a barfight
schlaffschwantz........blute koo....strassenmadchen........

Yeah, the nose is long and he definately isnt smiling. The face is a 'he'.

Omoba, I bet you have run across some busted toes, huh?

And Mrs. Gas.

My focus is on how do we make it better, how do we improve and adjust to have good marriages. What can I do to make things better within myself ? Where do I need help ? What are my shortcomings that are disrespectful to my SO ?
Not how do we prepare for doom that is sure to come when it isn't.
To me that is paranoia and unbelief and it may be better for someone with such distrust to remain single.
It is backwards to me.

Point Blank, there comes a time in(life) when we have to look, evaluate our self and say":how did I allow this to happen". We can not blame no one. for anything. That includes God. He gives us free will. There also comes a time to get over things. We all have dealt with devastating blows in life. But in order to heal you must look to the God of peace. Sometimes, when you can not share with family members or close family out of embarassment you will go where it is most comfortable. The air has many pollutants in it. But we continue to breath each moment.
When telling your story: becomes beratement it can not be recieved by others. Wrath and Anger only turns away people.

BassiZainab is always supportive, and so is Oomba. The OP allowed herself to get the best of herself and basically said nothing over and over. yes your story has been repeated. I too have had phone conversations about your story with vjer's. people have empathy towards you not so much as sympathy. The focus is basically a child involved and the childs welfare is the utmost concern. So since Victor is a Doctor, Have him step up and do the proper thing and get on with your life. There is a world outside of VJ. Majority of the time it is best to step away from the things that was apart of the process of the pain.
Be prepared next time to comments to your posts, people are entitled to their comments/posts as you are. People are also entitled to ignore those they chose to.

Health and Wellness Always.

My focus is on how do we make it better, how do we improve and adjust to have good marriages. What can I do to make things better within myself ? Where do I need help ? What are my shortcomings that are disrespectful to my SO ?
Not how do we prepare for doom that is sure to come when it isn't.
To me that is paranoia and unbelief and it may be better for someone with such distrust to remain single.
It is backwards to me.

That's my focus, too. What can I do to be a good wife? Is there anything that I can improve on? What can I do to make him happy? Are there any shortcomings that I need to overcome or bad habits that I need to get rid of?

And when you go into a relationship expecting doom, you'll find it. You have to start out with TRUST!!! You CANNOT have a working relationship (especially a marriage relationship) WITHOUT TRUST!!!