QUOTE(D&LN @ Feb 27 2008, 03:41 AM)

Thanks for the well wishes! Hmmm...like two peas in a pod! However, I'm the US Citizen.

I'll definitely keep you (and everyone else) updated. As for filing, IMHO do it ASAP! (Maybe others would be willing to comment pro/anti?) From our perspective (not to scare you), our wedding ceremony date has moved around a bit due to concerns with immigration - it's still in flux! In fact, we're approaching it from both sides - I'm also applying for the Canadian PR concurrently (yay! I just had my med exam performed by the DMP today!)
just in case since the ultimate goal is to be together after the ceremony.
It did take awhile to create the packet (supporting info, etc.), but one concern I had before doing so was whether or not we would even be able to visit each other while the process was pending. I talked to one of the US immigration officers in Ottawa (as well as perusing the forums here) and he assured me that as long as she showed strong ties to Canada (job, lease, bank statements, etc) that it would normally be no problem with US visitations - he actually said, "why would you jeopardize your chances of immigration?" which made sense to me. Likewise for me going the other way - I now have a packet I've "developed" for traveling to see her! Anyways, that talk pretty much sealed the deal for us sending the paperwork through. (Actually, the guy stamped a B-2 visa with an expiration date of Aug-12 on her last visit this month!)
Although after reading some of the posts here, I feel as though I should have included photos in the packet. I included a notarized affidavit, sample mail correspondence, sample travel plans between our two cities, a sample phone bill showing our numbers, beneficiary statements, and receipts and tickets for trips taken together. Maybe I'm just being paranoid?
OK, enough blabbering.
Danyel y Miguel: I also noticed that my case was "last updated" on 2/26/2008...Is this the 'touch' everyone keeps referring to?
Just my 2 cents, keep the list posted here!

Off topic....Now, I'm trying to cope with the tax ramifications for 2007! If you think immigration laws are crazy, wait until you read IRS Pub 519. Oh vay! Anybody dealing with this yet?
I know, we have to file asap. With regards to your ceremony date constantly changing, I think I'm going through that right now. My hubby and I were so clueless and naive when it came to immigration laws and I ended up being denied twice at the border within this past month. Of course, we had planned our whole wedding already...I was planning on going to the POE tomorrow with a bunch of documents (not to cross the border, just to talk to them - called that POE last week and a friendly officer suggested that I come talk to them) - from all of our wedding arrangements, to a letter from my employer & T4, bank account info & a letter from my bank...also, a doctor's note for his great-grandfather, who has several serious illnesses. All I want is to go through with our plans and then come back to Canada.
I still had the tiniest bit of hope...but in the past week, we've been talking to an immigration lawyer in the US - she found out what they had written under my name...no violations or charges (thank God), but they DID list details of my denials. When I was denied, we only said we were engaged, not married (out of fear - in hindsight, not sure if that was a great idea..).
Based on all of that, the lawyer advised AGAINST going to the border. She said that it was a long shot and that if I tried to admit openly that we ARE married, that the officers at the POE might charge me with fraud (for my previous denials, when we said we were only engaged).
I think that's enough to keep me here. I'm completely depressed. I know that we were ignorant of immigration laws, but we are really paying for it now.
Will I get in major trouble for the denials? If I say, "failure to prove non-immgrant intent" and someone looks into it, I just have this sinking feeling that the visa will be denied.
Sorry for venting, but I just got the bad news from the lawyer and am trying not to cry at work (yes, I go on VJ at work...oops)...