Hey everybody! After 2 days in Bucharest with medical and interview I just got home with the
visa in my passport and a booked flight to Cleveland on June 24!!!! Looks like I am gonna blow my candles and kiss my husband in Cleveland this year
Danyel I'm sorry things are moving so slowly with your case and I'm sure any of us would feel the same if we were in your shoes... no one can deny that and any advice like "hang in there, be strong etc" does not make you feel any better. I was one of the lucky ones who got approved fast, God only knows by what miracle. There still are people waiting from 2007 to be approved and I don't know how that's possible, but from what I've seen naggig them to approve your case will not do any good. Yet I haven't figured out what DOES help things go faster... What I did in my worst time was charge my batteries in my husband's optimism and live this time apart in such a way as not to seem like a lost period of time. We are still alive, in love even if hopeless some times. I don't know if it helps.. I hope it does at lest the tinniest bit

Now about my experience with the medical and interview:
MEDICALWent to one of the required clinics in Bucharest after making an appointment 4-5 days earlier. 4 signed photos on the back were required (not 3 as the instructions said... always be on the safe side) and the medical forms included in packet 3 with nothing written on them - the doctor does all the writing. After checking your ID and photos, the doctor asks about medical history, any health problems, vaccinations (if you miss one from your record they will give it to you), blood samples are taken for tests, blood pressure is measured, the doctor listens to your lungs, checks your abdominal area and asks you of any pain. After this you are sent for chest X-ray. This all took me 1 hour tops and 100$

(I had taken HPV vaccination a few days earlier - 200$). At 15.30 tests were ready so I picked up the brown sealed envelope to be taken to the embassy for the interview.
INTERVIEWI was scheduled at 13.00 (like everybody else

) and we entered the consular section one by one after endless security checks with no luggage, cell-phones or other gadgets... First we were called at the counter, requested our passports and then digital fingerprints. After a while I was called back to the counter and requested the papers (Affidavits of support, DS-156 with photos, photo album, evidence of the relationship - I had everything very nicely put in a folder with transparent pouches, labeled so they could see what it was, since they take the evidence and look at it without you being there to explain what they're looking at). I sat in the room waiting to be called at the counter for the interview, and at 14.30 I was called and spoke to a consul (who spoke English AND Romanian, but I chose English). It all took 2 minutes and the questions were the ordinary ones:
When did you meet and how?
When did he visit?
When was the marriage?
Where does he work?
Where will you live?
I think what mattered is that I tried to look positive and even make the consul smile a little.
Afterwards she thanked me and asked me to take a seat and wait... and I waited and waited without knowing I got the visa or not. I was interviewed second in line and given the visa first. They just called me at the counter and gave me the passport and the evidence back, saying the visa is good for 2 years and please adjust status in this period.
AND THAT WAS IT!!!! No harrassing about anything! Now I'm even thinking I was toooo stressed out about everything but there's no way of staying calm when your entire life is at stake....but now the important thing is I am looking at my passport and the visa is on it and my husband is waiting for me on June 24 to arrive home after one and a half years of our relationship.
I wish you all good luck and an experience as positive as mine! I will continue to write in this forum to see how you all get your visa ans post a message as long as mine is right now
Kisses and thanks for all the advice!