QUOTE(Ralu&Doru @ Apr 13 2008, 12:45 PM)

QUOTE(Vernon Family @ Apr 13 2008, 02:13 PM)

Ralu&Doru - I totally understand how you feel! This endless waiting is hard enough, when you see some cases taking 50 days and others taking 350 days it doesn't leave much room for hope. It's too bad they couldn't just put all these people to work doing name checks and just let us in. It's not like we're trying to get in so that we can work illegally or something. We just want to go in to be with our spouses and those we love. I could honestly wait a year while they process my application to work or whatever but I would rather be there with my husband. The thought that he's going to miss out on who knows how long of our daughters first year of life breaks my heart.
Danyel - What exactly is the RFE trick? And wouldn't a fake touch cause it to take longer?
Vernon, it's cases like yours that break my heart knowing that so many people are suffering being away from each other especially when a baby is involved. The strangest part is that despite their requests of proof in order to make sure of "the bona fides of the marital relationship" and the very complex way in which they process the cases, ironically those "not so just" applicants who are doing this just to get to the US will get approved sooner. And I bet no one can say for sure if a case is for real or not.. If one wants to fool them about a relationship they will fool them! There are ways... And those of us doing this just out of love are left behind. I'm so tired of this illogical way of approving cases... it obeys absolutely no rule!
I'm sorry that I'm so upset today. I miss my husband and who knows when I'll see him... Easter is coming soon here in Romania and he won't be able to come and neither can I go to Cleveland...
Danyel, I was going to ask about that "trick". What is that exactly?
This is the RFE trick, its where you call the "request for more evidence" line. where you actually speak to someone. and it usually generates a touch on your case. but the touch doesnt really mean much in this one because its only a touch from them pulling your case online.
With the RFE trick you'll be able to speak with a breathing person on the phone:
* 1 for English,
* 2 for main menu,
* 2 for reporting an issue,
* 4 for more evidence,
* then 2, 1,
* then entered our case number (with the WAC at the beginning, that is 922+10 digits).
* then it took us to a representative in the service center.
For the VERMONT Service Center, follow these steps...
1-800-375-5283
* 1 for English,
* 2 for main menu,
* 2 for reporting an issue,
* 4 for more evidence,
* then 2, 1,
* then entered our case number (with the EAC at the beginning, that is 322+10 digits).
* then it took us to a representative in the service center