QUOTE(♥JP♥ @ Feb 7 2008, 06:50 PM)

Well I envy you. The first 3 months of this pregnancy have been rather hellish but I'm sure if I compare it to someone else who has had it worse than me then it won't seem so bad. For me by far the 2 hardest things have been clothes and food. I haven't craved anytihng its been quite the opposite. I've had pretty bad morning sickness and no desire to eat most foods including all forms of meat, poultry, and seafood.
Clothes, I HATE maternity clothes. HATE HATE HATE. So basically at 3 months, I don't feel pregnant, I just feel fat. And I hate ALL my clothes, even the new ones. I'm umcomfy, I've got this sciatic nerve thingy thats pretty darn painful. So I think that may be why S-E-X is the last thing on my mind.
I feel ya. Those first 3 months were torture at times. I was ALWAYS sick. Morning, noon, night. Every smell, every sight, every gross thought and I was instantly head-first in the can. I spent half the work day in the restroom. I didnt start craving stuff until about 4 months. Before that EVERYTHING was eeeeeeevil. Foods I used to love and get comfort from were instantly awful. I never knew what to shop for, if I could stand looking at groceries at all, because nothing sounded good. I do remember drinking alot of iced fruit juice and drinkable yogurt. Those have been staples throughout the pregnancy and seem to bode well with the tum.
I was anxious to start wearing maternity clothes, and I didnt have too much trouble finding things I liked. But I understand being in pain. I have spondylolisthesis (vertebrae slip down over each other) and up until I got pregnant I was getting these lovely spinal nerve blocks every 3 weeks and popping Hydrocodone 10 3x a day. Its no fun to go from tolerable pain/moderate relief to zero relief in a matter of days. You're probably already doing the same stuff I am to stave off the leg pain, but if you havent tried it (and your doc okays it) make friends with a heating pad and ice pack. My OB allows me to have short visits with a heating pad on low, once or twice a day. Long enough to soothe a little, but not long enough to raise my temp. The ice pack I can use anytime I want, as long as I want and it does help relieve some of the swelling, which takes a little pressure off those poor irritated nerves. If your back can handle it, try laying down flat and putting your legs up over a box, sofa, or chair. Arrange yourself like you are sitting in a chair while laying down. Ive found this helps take alot of pressure off my L-spine (for a short time) and thusly the sciatic nerve.
As for the horizontal polka, we've learned to be rather creative. TBH I had no idea things would be more fun

But thats just me. Im sure its not the same for all women.
Hopefully you'll be past the icky phase soon. When I hit 18-20 weeks I felt like a new woman. I actually had some energy for a few weeks and settled nicely into the happy pregnant woman role. Food was good again, clothes fit right, mood leveled out, etc. The 3rd trimester has been a little hard, but knowing you're on the home stretch does ease the mind a little.