QUOTE(Credzba @ Feb 5 2008, 09:45 PM)

There is always someone worse off than yourself.
Your partner is in India, a good friend of the US, and thus treated better.
My wife is in China, not a friend of the US.
The result, I wait the same time in USCIS, and NVC.
But then when the application is all approved, it takes 2-3 months to mail the paper work to the ONE US consulate in China that does immigration.
As you know, China has even more people than India, but India has 3 (maybe more) US consulates that do immigration.
After the "slow boat to china" we wait in line to get our interview for another 2-3 months.
My only consolation is that I can claim to have the best wife in the world, because in fact I looked everywhere in the world to find her.
Our life together will be long, so this year will only be a short distraction.
I agree that the immigration process in the USA is ridiculous.
When companies can pay an expedite fee, and have their petitions approved in 1 month, while US citizens families have no option but to wait... there is something wrong.
Anyway, if you are a US citizen, remember when you vote who looked after you and who didn't.
Be active, write to your senators and representatives.
Make sure they KNOW this is broken.
Well said Credzba

and yes I agree, this whole process sucks