QUOTE(kc1974 @ May 6 2008, 07:17 PM)

QUOTE(speaking_softly @ May 5 2008, 10:59 PM)

Now...a previous poster commented about exorbitant costs and how many other developed countries process immigrants at little or no cost. Well thats just grand! But the real question is, why isn't the U.S. citizen spouse emigrating to the foreign spouse's country? Seems like it would be easier and lot less stressful given that the developed country's is so immigration-friendly, no? The fact is that your spouses all wanted to come here to live and not the other way around. I think that says a lot about the good ol' U.S.A. Yes, things take longer, but here in the States we run a lot more security checks on any prospective immigrant (and rightly so) than any other country. Personally, I didn't enjoy dealing with the bureaucracy of petitioning to get my wife here but I'm all for it if it means avoiding another 9/11.
1). Being British, they have security checks there, but who carried out the 7/7 London bombings? Yeah, British born Citizens. Who carried out the Oklahoma bombing? Yeah, a US born citizen. Also, FBI checks take a couple of months at best, so how are USCIS avoiding another 9/11 by letting our petitions sit in a dusty room for the other 12 months? Maybe if the FBI didn't have to do this second check on us in 2 years, they may have more spare time to find the next 9/11...
2). How many US citizens move to their spouse's home country? Any figures? Of course not. Just because the 'foreigners' on this site came here doesn't necessarily mean it was because of the US. No, we came here to be with the person we want to spend our lives with. Maybe your wife chose the place over the person, but I can pretty much guarantee we didn't. If my wife was from Outer Mongolia, I'd have moved there if she wanted me to. Moron.
3). Would you have moved to your wife's home country if she wanted you to? Doubt it.
4). Are you Lou Dobbs?
Thanks for your questions. Happy to reply to you KC...
Actually I already have moved to my wife's home country in a sense as we have a house there and spend about three months out of the year living abroad. Once she obtains her citizenship, we'll be splitting our time evenly between the U.S. and abroad.
And no, she did not choose "the place over the person" as you surmise.

In fact, she's made it very clear to me she doesn't want to live in the U.S. full-time, which is great as my employer has offices in her homeland. My grandparents also emigrated to the States from my wife's country so I guess you could say I'm going home in a way. It's a great place to live. We both look forward to going back every year. Maybe we'll see you there one of these days.
And no, I'm not Lou Dobbs, but I just might be Sean Hannity!
Good luck with your petition KC.