QUOTE(tito @ Jan 31 2008, 04:58 PM)

On the other hand, it's the USC who has the most to lose if things don't work out...seems to me almost universal that the great majority of costs and expenses are borne by the USC...the USC stands to be subject to support costs if things don't work out...the USC can't just toss everything and move home...the USC has got to support the ex if things don't work out. Bitter? Nah. Realistic.
I don't understand why you think this way. I am way richer than USC husband and I've paid all expenses for visa and other stuff. Why do you think all immigrants are very poor and can't even support ourselves? Biased?
You don't even know how much U.S is charging to immigrants to get through from fiance visa to greencard to get a citizenship. What U.S is charging us is beyond ridiculous and no way in million years my home country charges that much fee on immigrants/foreigners.
Whatever you say, United States Immigration Law lets immigrants to remove conditions IF they see immigrants had been in a faithful marriage.
And THEY DO APPROVE those people to stay in United States even after divorce, so if you can't accept that fact, just fight against that law of United States to change.
PS You mentioned you've been to other countries for religious mission. Doesn't your religion tell you to open arms to other people? Or does it tell you to be biased on foreigners lol