I am not happy with my married life. PERIOD.

Sorry to hear that! Is it problems with your spouse or problems adjusting to living with your spouse?

Unfortunately...both. It just breaks my heart and I wish I can go back to the Philippines soon. Thank you for your time.

I'm sorry to hear that
Do whatever makes you happy, you only live once

Looking at your timeline.............

Do you have EAD? Can you work?

Do you have a DL?

I know Andre and I had rough patches when he was essentially stuck at home, bored, and wanting a life again. Once he got that AOS, could work and drive, it all worked itself out.

If you really love this guy and want to work it out, running back is not the answer. Please think long and hard before making any rash decisions.

here is a good song for you Peachy its called 50 ways to leave your lover by the great Paul Simon..

anyone correct me meif im wrong, (lay off the wise and well educated mermaid)because i know we have some picky no life having clarifying english and punctuation teacher wanna be having mofos up in here....

slip out the back jack
make a new plan stan
hop on teh bus gus
dont need to discuss much
just drop off the key peachy ,,, and set yourself free!!
Im sure it will be no prob reentering your home country!!!!

Can you give us more detail? Do you feel you picked the wrong guy to marry? Do you have some expectations that are not being realized?

That is sad... I hope things can still be worked out for you.

What's stopping you from getting on a plane and going home?

yesterday you seem happy about biometrics being done and hoping for approval soon. today, you want to go back to the Philippines. you seem confused and have some issues to deal with. hopefully you can give it some time before making a decision.

Charming!

I am srry to hear this.but give it some time discuss it with him..you seem very confuse based on your previous post.....
I hope you can come to a conclusion soon.

Best wishes

What? You know, every time I get to the point of feeling secure about my English language skills I read one of your posts and realize I understand NOTHING and have a long way to go yet...

Oh, and that sidekick to the mermaid was plain old rude!

you can go home to Phils.



good grief

Cindishah, in looking at your post history, you are in no position to be critical of Diaddie's advice or education.... at least she has contributed meaningful and helpful information on this board. She also doesn't resort to name calling in order to make a point....

Dont mention it mermaid..just trying to keep it real!!!!!!

Sorry, either you and I don't speak the same language or I'm missing what you are laying down. What do you mean?

Give yourself some time and do some soulsearching. Are you in general happy in your relationship? Everyone has good and bad days and especially when you're not in your familiar surrounding, the bad days is what really get to you.

Sit down with your husband and tell him how you feel, given, that this is an option at all. I believe the two of you have gone to great length to be together, i.e. going through the visa process, you moving to the US, etc.

Whatever you decide to do in the end, good luck!!!

It takes a LOT of time to adjust to a new life in a new place with a new spouse...give it time...they say it takes at least a year to adjust to a marriage, a year to adjust to a new environment... If not, and the feelings persist, yeah, you can and should go back home. Nothing stopping you. But perhaps you might give it some time and see what happens.


Mrs. J06: not 'understanding' wanna-be ghetto trash talk is not a reflection of your ability to speak and understand the ENGLISH language.

Uh i was STICKING UP FOR MERMAID KNOW of here FOR MANY MANY YEARS AS BEE NMARRIED AND ON HERE FOR MANY MANY YRS 2003 in fact

I apologize then.... I went back and re-read your post.... difficult to understand the broken English/missing punctuation.

mis comm on myside as well, im running 3 programs @ once, working on a staff /student teaching model, and pulling long hr @ the clinic and hospital..

... and yet you still have time for VJ! You go girl!

Sorry. I hope things work out however your heart desires.