QUOTE(martaprestegui @ Jan 30 2006, 08:45 AM)

I have tried calling but cannot get through the phone line sounds weird,kinda like its messed up.But NVC e-mailed me and gave me a CDJ case # and on it had my hubbys name and then right after his name it has...
CR-1.My att.said that the I-130 is already at the consulate.But they want the $450.00(visa fees and finger print fees combined)so that they can begin setting up appointment for the I-130 interview.
To me
it sounds like your I-130 petition isn't quite at CDJ yet... it sounds like you are at the beginning of the processing that NVC does for your I-130. This is how I understand the process, others can jump in (please!) to correct me if I'm wrong.
The I-130 is approved at the Service Center and then sent to NVC.
NVC assigns a CDJ case number.
They send out a Agent of Choice document (DS-3032 or something?) if you don't have an attorney. If you do have an attorney, they are automatically your Agent of CHoice.
The agent is then sent the bill for the affadavit of support and visa fees (probably the $450 you're being asked for now).
<------This is where it sounds like you are at.Once you pay this fee, and it is received by NVC, they send out a request for your Affidavit of Support forms.
You fill the Aff. of Support out and send them back in to NVC.
NVC reviews them and approves them
At some point here, they also send out the DS230 and you have to send it back to them too.
Once the sending back and forth has taken place, and NVC has everything (approved I-130 petition fees, aff. of support, and DS-230), then they send the file to CDJ.
I think the real question here are:
1. How long will it take the I-130 to be processed at NVC?
2. How far are you from waiver approval for the I-129F/K3?
If the times are close or the I-130 will be approved at NVC prior to the I129F/K3 waiver being approved, then I'd personally risk losing the $450 and sending it. Otherwise you can go ahead and let the I-130 sit at NVC without paying the $450 and wait for the K3 visa, then adjust status once your husband is able to get into the US (this is what my husband and I did).
The other unknown here is IF the I-130 makes it through NVC process to CDJ before you return for the post-waiver-approval interview, will they issue the greencard instead of the K3 visa? I don't know the answer to this, but I know others who did not need waivers have had success with this. CDJ policy seems to fall in line because they say the I129F petition is no longer valid once the I-130 hits CDJ.
It may be worth your time to jump into the NVC forum and ask how long it is taking for I130s to make it through NVC currently. People there should be able to give you an estimate which will help you figure out the timelines.