After working so hard to bring my wife here to America, all the money, forms, waiting, run-around turmoils, nerves twisted so tight that they'll never completely unravel...We're going back to Viet Nam. Anyone ever have a scared feeling that maybe, just maybe, even after the greencard's in hand, they won't let her come back? I know it's totally hypothetical, but I can't get that feeling out of me.

Give me about a year, and I'll tell you if I have that feeling........

I do not understand why they would not let her come back. As long as she got her Greencard, passport (eventually marriage certificate) with her.
Do not worry too much!!! Just relax and enjoy your trip back

It's a let down is what it is. You wait and worry and run around like your head is cut off and then one day, *poof*, it's all over when you get that card in the mail. You feel like it's too good to be true.....like a dream.

It's been so quiet in my household the last year and a 1/2, I find it hard to believe all the stuff we went throught to get here.

Enjoy and relax for a while.