Hi everybody, I have followed this thead with great interest, especially because my husband (he's the USC) and I are going through the DCF process at the moment.
Here's a (rather rough) timeline:
Sept. 1st: Because we live close to Frankfurt, we were able to file the I- 130 (incl. the G-325As) directly at the consulate (which, after reading all this seems like a good idea), after the approval we filled out and handed in the DS- 230I.
A good tip I got from another forum was to have copies of the G-325A with you because many parts of the DS- 230 part I are the same as the G-325A.
All in all the day at the consulate was ok, we knew about the security checks and the cell- phone- no- go. The only thing with the security check that I had underestimated was that we went to the consulate right after the "London liquid bomb issue" and my bag was full of deodorant, sunscreen, hairspray, lipbalm etc. They had to stuff all that into their little storage containers

but they laughed about it and made fun of me- so I guess it wasn't all that bad either.
Fortunately, I had been to the consulate before (J1 Visa application two years back, still at the old consulate) and knew about the waiting times and therefore brought food, something to read and drinks (the security asked me to take a sip of my water, too).
Arriving at the consulate at 7.45am, there were already long lines outside, one on the left for the information desk, one on the right for the security check. After a couple of minutes a guy came out and asked everybody in line what they were here for and sent us and others to the front of the line. I'm not sure why, I think it had to do with the immigrand visa.
Inside the building we were sent upstairs to the immigrand visa section, where there were no lines or people waiting at all. There was one other couple sitting at a table and correcting things in their I- 130.
After our number was called, we went to the counter and handed in our papers, my husbands birth certificate was of no interest at all. There were a couple of minor things in the I- 130 and the biographic infos that had to be changed, no big deal though (Example: we had left spaces blank on the forms and that's a no. Every space as to be filled out and if something is not applicable or if one doesn't have kids for example, one has to put in N/A or "none")
Also, the one thing we didn't have with us were photocopies of my husbands passport (bio and residency page), the copymachine in the embassy was broken so the guy at the counter copied them for us. Which was nice.

After that, we paid the 190$, filled out the DS- 230 part I, waited a while (maybe 30 mins) and went to the very nice lady at the last window for the day who checked everything, gave me the checklist, info on the medical and the info on the pictures. She was very accurate, especially looked at the section where I had to state where I lived since my 16th birthday. Unfortunately, on the paper it says: where one has lived for more than 6 months and so I left out the bits where I had lived for less than 6 months. Not good.
She added the pieces I had left out.
And off we went!
All in all, we were in and out in three hours.
I had everything asked for on the checklist ready but the police certificate, so I ordered that one.
Sept. 6th:Next step: the medical. Since I live close to Frankfurt, going to the "no appointment needed" doctor in Frankfurt was the obvious thing to do. I was there right when they opened their doors at 7.30am and already 5th in line.
Long wait, filled out some paper, went to pay the 125€, was sent down into the lab to give blood and urine, have xrays done of my lungs, went back upstairs. Waited.
The actual medical examination lasted about 3 minutes, the my eyes were checked, the doctor looked into my throat, looked at the xrays and into my "Impfbuch" - and told me which vaccination I needed. (Rubella, mumps, measels).
He sent me off with a document for my doctor who had to give me the vaccination (extra cost 80€ and no money back from the health insurance because it was not "necessary"). After getting the vaccination the next morning, this document was faxed to the doctor in Frankfurt so that he could forward my medical report to the consulate.
I think I left the doctor in Frankfurt at about 11am. I strongly advise everybody who will go to Frankfurt to get the medical to get there early, one couple arrived at 10.55 and was sent home.
Sept. 26th:Long delay because the police certificate was sent to a wrong address, after I called a couple of times they finally sent it to me and I faxed the checklist to Frankfurt.
In the meantime we sold all our furniture, more or less all our belongings, moved all our stuff into one room in a shared appartment where I'll live until I will go to the States.
as of today:I'm waiting for the interview appointment, I have all the papers ready, including a big chunk of proof for our relationship. We only got married in August but have been with one another for more than 3 years, so I thought it might me good to have a lot prepared (never know).
I concentrated on "official" things like:
- My husband has had me as his "primary beneficiary" more than two years ago already
- we had an account together in the US
- My "miles and more" statement showing a number of flights from FRA- SEA and back
- a number of travel confirmations for trips we took
- proof of the places we have lived together at
and a couple of "inofficial" things:
- pictures showing us from all over the world
- pictures showing me (or us) with his familiy, grandparents, etc
- pictures showing him (or us) with my familiy
- postcards and letters addressed to both of us
- birthdaycards to one of us mentioning the other one's name
- ...
I'm a bit nervous and excited and would like to have the interview done and over with!
By the way, Candance- you said, your POE will be Seattle, which is the city where my husband's from and where we're going to live- what about you? Seattle, too?
Good luck to everyone, hope my experiences could be of any help.
Sophyie.