If only ever addicted Julez saw that...she would have said something like: "That´s definately messing with people´s lives"

Haha - Jeremy does that... I laugh at him because he is so lame



Everyone is welcome here but only if they are nice. I think you qualify It's kinda like updates and OT for nice people - the OT forum can be a bit snippy for my liking



GENIUS!!



Oh that is just toooo good

*and* it hasn't even got locked yet Oh dear - we've just hijacked threads and been naughty for the past 24 hours!!

I would have said, My God! They're messing with people's LIVES!

hmm...

I see when I'm not here, everybody behaves

I didn't behave! I didn't behave!

Nah, I've just been making a small effort to focus on my paid work!

You're so naughty!

Haha- I was refreshing and refreshing and no-one was here!!

Try again

You mean you don´t do that? You have to...to please your husband!

You also have to press his clothes so he looks crispy all the time. So you know...after I take the clothes out of the dryer they don´t look creased at all but I don´t care that they look nice. It´s not good enough. I don´t hesitate and since I don´t have an iron I take every piece of his clothes and put it on the ground and lay on it for like 20 mins (each piece). Then I consider it to be pressed enough and put it on his hanger. It´s a lenghty process and I think after I get the work permit and get a job I will spend all my free time doing this for him after work. But I don´t mind at all. It´s all for my husband. I don´t do that with my clothes...I don´t need to look crispy.

You should start acting like a proper wife Jeraly or he will divorce you for not being amusing, not pressing his clothes so he can look crispy and for smelling too good

You know what VJ really lacks today?

Threads about the I-134. Just not enough of them out there. Pretty sad there's not an example form filled out or a stickied thread devoted to the I-134.

SEARCH! SEARCH! People, SEARCH! I know these are LIVES we're talking about, but take time to search the roses! Er, forums.


AAARRRRGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

OK. I feel better for that.

<EOM>

What's an I-134? Do I need it?

Go start a separate thread about it so I can abuse your stupidity. Maybe you can do a "confirmation" thread asking if there is an official April 1, 2008 I-134 thread.

I'm gonna start a "Is there a thread addressing I-134 questions?" thread.

I triple dog dare you!

now he has to do it! Do you really want that thread to exist?

yeah as it will provide us with hours of fun

Haha! Well you're lucky I have actual work to do today.

we're lucky, and you're...?

...Indignant.

*harumph*

and seventy-eight, by the sounds of things

75 actually. At least according to my persona today.

Pitcairn Islands , Mox?? Have I missed something?

OMGWTFETCBBQ!!!1!! I shoudl start lying on his clothes too... thing is his clothes are huge because he is so big so each item will take me 80 minutes if I am to be a proper wifey - left side front, right side front, left side back, right side back... I hope this will make it up to him... I will also dig out all my joke books from the 80s and learn them off by heart..



Moxie - you crack me up What a dumb question though!!! I notice it is aimed purely at American men...

hey guys, ive been sick the past two days so i wasnt at work and able to post my little heart out plus, i never post on the weekend, so its been a while

well adriano and i have been having lots of fun since his arrival a week ago...im teaching him the train system here in ny (which he is convinced he will never be able to learn lol), showing him all of the ethnic neighborhoods in brooklyn and showing him how you can walk for 5 minutes and go from one country to the next (too bad there is no real albanian neighborhood)...i signed him up for free english classes at our public library, which he will be starting on the 14th (i would recommend researching this for anyone who has a non-english speaking fiance)...and of course he got to meet my family (he lovessss my grandma, and i cant blame him - - - he likes to kid around with my 14 year old neice too )...all in all we are very happy watching italian movies from netflix and just enjoying eachother's company...it really is all its cracked up to be oh yea, his favorite food here in america thus far is a hot dog with sauerkraut and ketchup can we really do no better than that???

next thing to look forward to: social security number

Ahh that sounds so nice susie! I can't wait for those kinds of days!! Were you really sick or just playing hookey to spend more time together?? Yea I could see right through that. lolol

It does sound so nice! Congrats again to the 2 of you.

But why the angry face re: the SSN? You know you should wait at least 2 weeks from when he got here to apply for it, right?

glad to hear things are going well susie! sounds like you guys are having so much fun! How funny that he loves hot dogs with kraut and ketchup - a true American in the making!!!

As for the SS#, don't fear it. Griff and I had no probs whatsoever. We did wait the 2 weeks, went in with the necesasary forms, handed them in. No questions asked. A week later the card arrived in the mail. Good luck!

Dig my spangly new siggie update

Yaaaayy!!!! Congratulations!!!!

Hahaha That was a quick trip into work You must live nearby

Wow, Jeraly, congrats! So soon! That is really awesome.

OMGWTFBBQ!!!1!! That's like NEXT WEEK!!!

Yep, it takes me about 10 minutes to get to work.

Congratulations again! Pleasantly and I are so happily for you!

(Oh damn...is it April 2nd already? Dang. )

I KNOW!!! I am totally freaking - you can see my freakingness about things in the now-to-be-updated-if-not-already London Interview thread... apparently they have chanegd K-1 to an immigrant visa now?! I am so confused because I was basing everything on it being a non-immigrant visa... now I need to get a police cert and fast!!! And I dont know where that makes me stand with HPV and vaccines etc...

thanks very much!! i put the angry face, because in the midst of all this fun we are having together, the looming non-fun, immigration things will inevitably (dont know how spell that) come...but hopefully there will be no issue with it...yea, i know we have to wait another week before we head down the office (at 7am next thursday, because all of the other hours are while im at work ) to apply...hopefully it will be quick and painless

ill let you be the judge

*cough cough*



glad to hear that you had no problems with the ssn, hopefully we have the same luck

yayyyyy for jeraly!!!!

congratulations and good luck getting your police cert asap!

Congratz on your interview date Jeraly!!

Thank you!!! I am sooooo nervous now - I feel like I have so much to do even though in reality I will prolly just print things out then recheck them a billion times trying to see if I can find my married name on anything - I changed my e-mail address months ago because my old one just got spammed and because I wanted to start moving things I wanted to keep to my new addy...

Now I am wondering how I am going to show evidence of ongoing relationship!!! Oh I feel like everything I know has suddenly been written in Greek because my brain has turned to mush!!!

Um... I'm thinking those wedding photos of yours might be good.

Not so good for a K-1 visa

LOL!!! Yeah, I hope you're sending your wedding photos by FedEx or mail or anywhere but your luggage or interview packet.

I'm betting Rae thought you meant proving on-going relationship for AOS. I don't know why, but that's what was in my head too since you were talking about your married name. Definitely not good to show those for k-1 visa lolol.

We just sent packet 3 in today (well he did). I feel like I should be doing something too. I have all my i-134 stuff ready to go. I know you guys love questions on that so I have one for you!!
I got my letter from my employer last month (was kinda excited about the noa2 & got overzealous)...do you think that should have been closer to the interview date which will probably be late May to early June (at least i hope so). Or am I just fine with it being dated in March? I think someone said that it's good for a while but I can't remember how long. Please don't blast me for asking! I'm doing lotza important stuff at work and have no time to research info like this on my own (sarcasm). But seriously, is it ok?

Actually as soon as I posted that I thought maybe it was not the best answer, realizing it's a K1, but really, it *IS* proof of your ongoing relationship! LOL

CBR, my guess is your letter is fine. MTL must be aware that since they take forever (or have, in the past) to dole out interviews, some docs must end up being a couple months old.

And get this, my lawyer is actually telling us we need to wait until we have all docs before we send back our checklist. I'm having email arguments with her back & forth. Whatever. We're sending that checklist tomorrow.

I am so stressed today.

Haha - well my photos are on CD/hard drive so they will be unceremoniously stashed somewhere in the depths of my case somewhere in between pages in a book or something I have a couple pics from Hawaii so that should be ok and we have passport stamps but I wondered what other evidence I might need? I know London don't normally check it but I want to make sure I have as much as I can (well - within reason) so I can calm myself a little at least...





Can we be stressed together?! I am freaking about it all being so soon!!

don't stress... it will be FINE

take some time tonight to make some checklists, and start ticking things off... you have time to get everything you need, and now you've got the medical date you're laughing - anything else you need you CAN catch up on afterward, even if that's a bit sub-optimal... just don't let it freak you out

don't go overboard with the evidence of ongoing relationship, either... I haven't heard of ANYone needing to show it through London recently, and you don't want to kill trees for no reason

Yes we can.

I will gladly trade you interview dates if you'd like.


such a good point!
Seriously, I think a couple pics from Hawaii plus your boarding passes or passport stamps or whatever are just fine.

all I printed were a couple of photos, and the index pages from my gmail account showing all the titles and dates of our conversations... that was IT - about six pages - and they didn't even ask for a single piece of it; I was SO glad I hadn't printed reams of stuff

in a (half-hearted in the extreme ) attempt not to take ALL the threads I visit off-topic, I have moved this over here



I tend to think you might be right at that



your wish is my command... I had a similar request at another forum a few months back, hence the *ahem* format
he smells LOVELY

Who is that guy? He looks like this actor who played (I think) Joey Buchanan on One Life to Live.