QUOTE(trailmix @ Jan 13 2008, 01:33 PM)

I don't think the wait is at all unusual. My understanding it that it takes 5-6 years to sponsor a child who is over 21 - unmarried - as vsmtghdy mentioned, if they are married it is even longer.
Is the child over 21?
yes my friend is over 21 years old. i havent checked yet whether his father make a followup of her case. but what do you think should i advise her.