Hi
I am new here!
My husband is from Southeast Turkey, not far from Urfa, and I am from Georgia.
Has anyone tried travelling to a non-american destination while waiting for the K3 or the CR-1 to process?
I went to Turkey for almost a month in Jan/Feb and got married while there. My husband lives with his parents and brothers and sisters. His (our) family is wonderful!! Even though I do not speak much turkish besides the very basics we got along really well and by the time I left everyone was in tears, sad to see me go. Because of my limited time there my husband and I did not have a very big celebration or honeymoon. The family wants to have a wedding party for us when i go back in September.
In the meantime, I am trying to get us on a honeymoon, so we can have some alone time. I have a timeshare in Aruba and thought that would be an ideal place to go, well of course Turkish people need a visa to go

. I called the netherlands embassy and explained that I was an american wife and was taking my turkish husband to Aruba. They said if he has american visa no problem, I said we are working on that and it could be months before one is issued. Well the person I talked to told me to gather up my employment pay stubs for 3 months, (he is not currently working as he usually works during the tourist time in marmaris but decided this year not to go as foolish me thought he might be coming to the USA in June or July),have the resort reservation, proof of health insurance thru my employer, his round trip plane ticket, I think that was all. I got all that and gave it to my husband, well when he called to make his visa appointment they said forget the wifes info bring his fathers employment stuff and get travellers insurance.
He goes for his appoint with both mine and his fathers info his passport and plane tickets and the resort reservation which is in both our names. The appointment is to take about one hour with a decsion before he leaves - NOT! They tell him to come back in a week, lucky for him he has family in Istanbul he can stay with during this time because it is a 20 hour bus ride to home. He goes back a week later and they say they can not make a decsion on the visa they have to send it to Aruba for the decision and he should have his passport with or without visa in 10 days. That was June 19th, still no word. I had
to make my plane reservations July 3rd or the price went up $200 or cancel the reservation for the resort and lose nothing on my timeshare by the 3rd. So I have my plane tickets hoping his visa comes thru!! If not I maybe honeymooning by myself. My plane ticket is not cancelable but I can change it for $100 if my plane change which I could use for part of my ticket back to turkey this fall. Can anyone relate to this??
Right now I am so sick of VISAS, I want to sell my house and belongings and just move to Turkey!!!
Sorry for the long post.
Nice to have a Turkey forum....I had to laugh when I read about all the bread someones husband eats,
when I lived with his family bread was the staple of every meal, and i also am not a big bread eater, and
they had a fit if i did not eat enough bread, they had 4 or 5 different variety of bread while i was there. Some
was like a loaf of bread, some was like a pizza crust, and some were like tortillas.
Good luck on your visa journeys!!