I gave up eating outiside, going to parties, taling to friends so i can save money to bring my spouse here when she got here she is treating me like a ######. It really hurts to know when somone is cheatig at you and not treating you with same love and affection you have given them. Please dont marry to indian girls

Sorry to hear that. I guess...I guess nothing anyone would say could help you

Give it some time, Thesingh. She is traumatized by the move to a completely different land and people, far far away from everything she knows and loves. You'd be surprised how a little compassion can go a long way. As well, your experience with one person does not mean the entire female population of an entire country is the same way. You may just be stretching things a little. Good luck.