Idocare I am being real with myself in my life and in my posts.
We are talking apples and oranges and will never agree. So be it. That is real life.
All I am asking is for you to keep your revenge/deportation/bitterness posts contained to the appropriate topic and not
post them in happy, joyful milestone topics as you have done in the past or now in other topics where deportation discussion is not relevant.
Perhaps you can find a following in OT where you can devote your time to fraud issues and deportation. I don't think you will find the same passion here in sub-saharan, where most petitioners are waiting for their SO or the few that were hurt have moved on.
If I sound unkind, I don't mean to. I have over and over expressed my sympathy for your pain, as have others and you were advised to forgive and forget and to focus on your child and your own life.
I agree with Besanging on the child support suggestion, why would you not go that route to benefit your child ? You may never see a penny if he goes back.
We, who do not have our SO here yet also have enough pain to deal with and do not constantly want to read about bitterness, fraud and deportation. We get it and thanks for the warning but we do get it, really. We got it a long time ago.
However we are moving ahead towards our goal and find the same old deportation rally redundant.
Please show us some courtesy and sensitivity as we have shown you in the past.
Security checks and the black hole of AP are hard enough to get through without the negativity in the vast majority of your posts strewn into
every topic here......including your New Year wish.
I hope you understand what I am conveying here.
Peace