ladyynara
Mar 14 2008, 01:41 PM
I got approved today!
They had the hardest time doing my fingerprints though! 2 different machines and 3 attempts. Hopefully this won't delay the visa actually getting to me as we're in the last week here at our rental property, eep!
Toshtishtash
Mar 14 2008, 01:42 PM
Congratulations
Jeraly
Mar 14 2008, 01:45 PM
Gratzies!!!
Anyone heard from babbles yet?! It's driving me nuts!!
*julez*
Mar 14 2008, 01:46 PM
Congratulations ladyynara!!!!!
January 2008 Graduates of the US Embassy in London:Malia & Tom (Tom_g), jmrb, Dazzler, walkies_a, julez & Griff, English Muffin, Stephen & Amber, Chris & Amy, Shorty & Nilz, NikkisPrecious, Randy & Maggie(Mustang-sally), ddkm, Gwen666, Teachmehistory, Jeff & Bev (Wellywench), Shadow42 (Andrew & Robin), Chelsea & Ed (edchels), DD2004, Barrel_roll
February 2008 Graduates of the US Embassy in London:
C and J (Cheryl & Josh), Tinkerbelle, weedebz, nacampbell (Neil & Annie), kdancer, GlenandLisa, Lil-Lost-Girl, lostpup, jodinjames, Janaus, Courtney, Gareth's Girl, ericdraven
- bunsk2007..........................................2008-02-11 ????????????
- Sad Eyes............................................2008-02-25 Stuck in AP - hopefully not for long!
- piqqulet..............................................2008-02-29 ???????????
- Bforbarree...........................................2008-03-03 APPROVED!!!!
- StillthePrettiest....................................2008-03-04 APPROVED!!!!
- toshtishtash........................................2008-03-05 APPROVED!!!!
- londonuk.............................................2008-03-06 APPROVED!!!!
- pkscotus.............................................2008-03-06 APPROVED!!!!
- lisalu100.............................................2008-03-10 APPROVED!!!!
- Darren&Laura.......................................2008-03-11 APPROVED!!!!
- tomsandi............................................2008-03-12 APPROVED!!!!
- DonnaB..............................................2008-03-12 APPROVED!!!!
- ladyynara...........................................2008-03-14 APPROVED!!!!
- babblesgirl..........................................2008-03-14 @10:00
just cos I love her! - zoobuffalo...........................................2008-03-18
- KJC...................................................2008-03-20 @ 10:00
- GeordieLover.......................................2008-04-01
- ajeanne.............................................2008-04-07
- thejoz/thesquozenone..........................2008-04-10
- NickyMcMillan......................................2008-04-30 @ 10:00
bakofoil
Mar 14 2008, 02:26 PM
Yay! I got approved!!! 3 and a half hours in that place with about 10 minutes of conversation with a nice man at window no 12 and a very nice American lady (not the infamous Chinese lady) at window no. 16. Had a few probs with the medical on Wednesday but found out today after the interview that the Senior medical officer signed me off last night!! My med stuff is being forwarded to the embassy no later than it would have had nothing gone wrong! YAY!
Anyway, as part of my acceptance speech I would like to thank the following people:

I would like to thank the nice American lady at window no.16 without whom none of this would be possible.
Julezabelle for keeping me sane and helping me out so much with organising things pre-interview
Tomsandi for having two interview dates and being super generous and helping me get an early interview date.
StP and Aly for making me laugh and keeping me going when I got a bit low.
And everyone on the UK board for being supportive to everyone going through interview in London. I felt so much better knowing what I would face in there. So thanks everyone for your reports!
Anyway that's me done. I should also thank my Mum for giving birth to me and waiting outside the embassy for me for almost 4 hours.
StillThePrettiest
Mar 14 2008, 02:32 PM
babbles!!!!! SO good to hear from you... and such good news

wow, you're all done... I'm so happy for you

wish I'd thought to arrange a meet-up while you were down here though

lisalu, please do hang out and post more! and congrats on your approval!
*julez*
Mar 14 2008, 02:35 PM
Congratulations babblesgirl!!!!!

January 2008 Graduates of the US Embassy in London:Malia & Tom (Tom_g), jmrb, Dazzler, walkies_a, julez & Griff, English Muffin, Stephen & Amber, Chris & Amy, Shorty & Nilz, NikkisPrecious, Randy & Maggie(Mustang-sally), ddkm, Gwen666, Teachmehistory, Jeff & Bev (Wellywench), Shadow42 (Andrew & Robin), Chelsea & Ed (edchels), DD2004, Barrel_roll
February 2008 Graduates of the US Embassy in London:
C and J (Cheryl & Josh), Tinkerbelle, weedebz, nacampbell (Neil & Annie), kdancer, GlenandLisa, Lil-Lost-Girl, lostpup, jodinjames, Janaus, Courtney, Gareth's Girl, ericdraven
- bunsk2007..........................................2008-02-11 ????????????
- Sad Eyes............................................2008-02-25 Stuck in AP - hopefully not for long!
- piqqulet..............................................2008-02-29 ???????????
- Bforbarree...........................................2008-03-03 APPROVED!!!!
- StillthePrettiest....................................2008-03-04 APPROVED!!!!
- toshtishtash........................................2008-03-05 APPROVED!!!!
- londonuk.............................................2008-03-06 APPROVED!!!!
- pkscotus.............................................2008-03-06 APPROVED!!!!
- lisalu100.............................................2008-03-10 APPROVED!!!!
- Darren&Laura.......................................2008-03-11 APPROVED!!!!
- tomsandi............................................2008-03-12 APPROVED!!!!
- DonnaB..............................................2008-03-12 APPROVED!!!!
- ladyynara...........................................2008-03-14 APPROVED!!!!
- babblesgirl..........................................2008-03-14 APPROVED!!!!
- zoobuffalo...........................................2008-03-18
- KJC...................................................2008-03-20 @ 10:00
- GeordieLover.......................................2008-04-01
- ajeanne.............................................2008-04-07
- thejoz/thesquozenone..........................2008-04-10
- NickyMcMillan......................................2008-04-30 @ 10:00
March has been an amazingly good month for the UK visa seekers!
Big hugs babblesgirl! I am so pleased that it all went well! *happy dance*
Toshtishtash
Mar 14 2008, 02:38 PM
Yay! Congratulations!!!
bakofoil
Mar 14 2008, 02:42 PM
It's so good to see all this week's interviewees having that big red APPROVED next to their names. Congrats everyone!!!
Ladyynara, I feel like we were ships that passed in the night. Congrats!!
StP, yeah I wished I'd made a note of your mobile number but to be honest, until this afternoon I wasn't in the best of moods. The medical was a bit of a nightmare for a while there. We will meet up some time though
StillThePrettiest
Mar 14 2008, 03:01 PM
so sorry it was a hassle

glad you're through it now though

give it a week or two, and you won't even remember
*julez*
Mar 14 2008, 03:03 PM
P.S. Babblesgirl, I love your "visa acceptance" speech! It was hilarious! I feel so honored to have gotten a mention!!
greeneyedgirlfl
Mar 14 2008, 04:03 PM
Congrats to both of you!!!
lisalu100
Mar 14 2008, 08:01 PM
Congratulations Babblesgirl and Ladyynara!! They are finally going to let us in, and ACTUALLY STAY!
One way to look at all of this.... if our relationships can survive separation for this long, and all the anxiety which went with it, we have a pretty solid foundation on which to build a successful marriage. In the past 18 months - Marty moved back to the USA, he got divorced from his former wife, we both changed jobs, we bought a house, survived USCIS, and we have planned a wedding. Those are pretty high up there on the list of most stressful things to do, and our relationship is only stronger. Like I said before, life is pretty good right now
greeneyedgirlfl
Mar 14 2008, 08:02 PM
QUOTE(lisalu100 @ Mar 14 2008, 09:01 PM)

Congratulations Babblesgirl and Ladyynara!! They are finally going to let us in, and ACTUALLY STAY!
One way to look at all of this.... if our relationships can survive separation for this long, and all the anxiety which went with it, we have a pretty solid foundation on which to build a successful marriage. In the past 18 months - Marty moved back to the USA, he got divorced from his former wife, we both changed jobs, we bought a house, survived USCIS, and we have planned a wedding. Those are pretty high up there on the list of most stressful things to do, and our relationship is only stronger. Like I said before, life is pretty good right now

So happy for you!!!
lisalu100
Mar 14 2008, 08:12 PM
Thanks! I'm happy for all of us
bakofoil
Mar 15 2008, 03:50 AM
QUOTE(lisalu100 @ Mar 15 2008, 01:01 AM)

Congratulations Babblesgirl and Ladyynara!! They are finally going to let us in, and ACTUALLY STAY!
One way to look at all of this.... if our relationships can survive separation for this long, and all the anxiety which went with it, we have a pretty solid foundation on which to build a successful marriage. In the past 18 months - Marty moved back to the USA, he got divorced from his former wife, we both changed jobs, we bought a house, survived USCIS, and we have planned a wedding. Those are pretty high up there on the list of most stressful things to do, and our relationship is only stronger. Like I said before, life is pretty good right now

I know! Yesterday at the embassy at moments it felt a bit surreal really. I was sitting there waiting for my number to be called and there's all those people there every single day (admittedly most of them are non-immigrant visa applicants) and I'm thinking "all the stress and anxiety of the last few months awaiting the USCIS decision culminates in THIS?" It just seemed odd that it wasn't more glamorous or at least gruelling (other than the waiting around) - if you know what I mean.
I'm not complaining though. What a great feeling it is knowing it's all over and we can actually be together.
ladyynara
Mar 15 2008, 05:13 AM
I know what you mean Babblesgirl! We even had the same American lady interview us at window 16

We must have been in the same room, as we were still queueing for the courier at 10:30am.
Grats on your approval!
bakofoil
Mar 15 2008, 07:25 AM
Thought I'd post a review. It's a bit long and detailed but hopefully it will give those of you waiting some idea of what goes on.
My appointment was at 10am. My mum was hassling me to join the queue at 9am but it was very busy and the nice police officer told me to return at 9.40am. We went to sit in the park and played I-spy to settle my nerves (yes, I felt like a big kid!). We were amazed at how the US were ever allowed to build such a monstrosity in a square filled with such beautiful Edwardian architecture.
At 9.40am I joined the queue where you are asked to show your passport and then you can wait in line. It is here that they give you small clear plastic baggies for mobile phones etc. The signs say you need your appointment letter ready and the D-156. I had an alphabetical folder all organised and itemised but was still struggling to get out the correct paperwork especially standing outside with nowhere to set your stuff down. You see a lot of people with barely any paperwork and I assume these were all visitor visa applicants. Fortunately, the lady in front of me (who I shall refer to as 'P') had a big folder like me and we got chatting. She was not aware of VJ but her fiance had contacts in immigration and so she seemed fully aware of what would be required. We were not asked to move forward to security until around 10.45am but the time really flew because we had so much to talk about.
Finally the 10am appointments were called forward and a grumpy chap checked I actually had an appointment. In the security office it is much like going through airport security. If you take a mobile phone you can leave it in this office. They just give you a number.
Then around the corner towards the main entrance of the embassy. You are asked again to show your appointment letter and they issue you a number on a sticky label. Non-immigrant visas are in the 1000's and immigrant visas in the 5000's. You walk up the stairs to the left of the main desk and take a seat in the waiting room. At 11am ish the waiting room was heaving. There are monitor screens showing how many of each type of visa are waiting and which desk is dealing with which number. There are also tannoy announcements to indicate which number needs to go to which numbered station. The numbers seem to come fast and furiously and people come and go between the waiting area and the interview stations. Be aware that the 5000's are not called as frequently because there are only a handful waiting at a time. P and I sat down together still chatting but this time the nerves started to build and it seemed like a long wait.
At 12.40am they called P's number and I knew I would be next. It took around 30 minutes for my number to be called and I started to panic about not having thought about responses to questions they might ask. Silly really because I had nothing to worry about. P had returned to the waiting area in the meantime where she was filling out a pink form. When my number was called I went to interview desk 14 where a really pleasant English man was waiting with my papers. He asked first for my passport and the DS-156. He handed back the DS-156 saying I had already submitted it. He then asked me to sign the DS-156K (the one they tell you not to sign when you submit packet 3). He stuck the sticky number on my passport and asked me to go to desk 12 to pay my $131.00 (£65) and return with the receipt. At some point he also seemed to be checking me biometrically against the photo I supplied.
Back at desk 14 the gentleman asked me for my photographs, birth certificate and copy, police certificate and copy and finance info. I explained I had a co-sponsor and handed the two piles of info over separately. He handed back the originals He looked through it all carefully but efficiently and said 'brilliant!' and smiled at me when he finished. At this point I told him I also had a notarised letter of intent from my fiance. He said it was not required but he would add it to my file anyway. He told me that all the papers were in order, gave me a pink form to fill out and asked me to return to the waiting area to be called for interview.
Back in the waiting area I found the nearest empty chair and began filling out the pink form which is basically details where the visa should be sent and you hand this in to the courier desk right at the end. P came back to sit with me and we remarked on how easy it all seemed to be so far. We were preparing ourselves for a long wait but P's number was called again very soon after. Approximately 10 minutes later my number was called and I made my way up to desk no. 16.
There I met a blonde wavy haired American lady who greeted me with a massively warm smile. She asked if I had waited very long and I shrugged and replied 'Ah I've waited a long time for this day, a couple more hours won't make any difference'. She smiled and got me to do my fingerprinting. She remarked on how clear my prints were 'A+ for fingerprints! Shame there isn't a high paying career for someone with such wonderful prints!'. She then began to ask me some questions, but actually it felt like we were simply having a chat over coffee or something. She was so enthused and gentle with her questioning and I didn't feel once like it was an interrogation. One question naturally led to the next as it would in a normal conversation and I probably said more than I needed to;
How did you and your fiance meet?
Which chat room?
Some light hearted discussion over our joint interests and what we both did for a living.
When was that?
How often have you visited him?
When did you decide you wanted to get married?
Explained here that we decided to get married in April last year and that the official engagement occurred at Christmas.
You're not married yet are you!?
Probably because I said 'decided to get married' and mentioned a visit to Las Vegas in the previous questions. She seemed more amused than anything.
Has he visited you at all?
Explained not and his financial circumstances plus the fact I have great holidays as a school teacher
She then said 'Right well, everything seems great!' She explained in detail what would happen now. That my visa was approved pending the medical results and fingerprint checks (she explained these need to be checked against their systems to ensure I am not a criminal), that as soon as those clear the visa will be sent out to me by courier. Explained all the AOS stuff and wished me a very happy life. The tears were welling up at this point but I held back. All the time she was just smiling at me and so I commented ' You have such a lovely job!' and she replied 'well, usually yes with people like you but sometimes I have bad news to deliver.' I thanked her about 50 times and went to join the courier desk queue.
Here I saw P again, about 6 places in front of me in a VERY long slow queue for the courier service. We exchanged our good news and then an hour and a half later I had paid my £14.00 + £10.50 for before 10am delivery and went out to see how my eternally patient mother was doing in the park.
Apparently a police officer had approached her and said 'Are you waiting for someone in there?' pointing to the embassy 'expect 3 to 4 hours!'.
greeneyedgirlfl
Mar 15 2008, 09:42 AM
Thank you so much for the detailed review!!! Every one Darren reads makes him a little less anxious about our impending unscheduled-as-of-yet interview...we sent off packet 3 yesterday!!!
Meg and Grae
Mar 15 2008, 09:49 AM
Hi all,
My fiance is working on packet three and plans to mail it back on Monday. He wants to schedule a work related trip (not to the US) at the end of April but plans to be home for his interview at the beginning of May. He's already scheduled his medical for middle of next week so that won't be a worry. I don't know how fast the London embassy is scheduling interviews at the moment but I can't think that he'd be in before late April/beginning of May as it'll take a week for them just to receive his packet. I advised him to include a note, acknowledging the understanding that scheduling is a huge task for them, but requesting that his interview be after the 1st of May. How quickly are interviews coming from London right now? And has anyone ever requested something such as this before? And to what success?
Any help is greatly appreciated! Thank you!!
Meg
bakofoil
Mar 15 2008, 10:03 AM
Cover letters explaining any unusual circumstances seem to work well in London.
If you're returning packet 3 now and let things run their natural course I imagine you would get a date in April. The interview dates appear to be within 2 to 6 weeks of returning the packet. I actually think it would be helpful for them to know when you're available, particularly if this date is later than what they might actually have given you and they seem to be very helpful when they can.
You have nothing to lose by including a cover letter. If you have to reschedule an interview that may delay things further. Good luck!
QUOTE(greeneyedgirlfl @ Mar 15 2008, 02:42 PM)

Thank you so much for the detailed review!!! Every one Darren reads makes him a little less anxious about our impending unscheduled-as-of-yet interview...we sent off packet 3 yesterday!!!
I thought I waffled on a bit but I think it's helpful to read everyone's reviews. People have differing experiences but it's good to have some gauge on what to expect.
Are you hoping for an interview during your visit?
StillThePrettiest
Mar 15 2008, 10:28 AM
great review, babbles! so cool to hear how simple it was for you... I'm so very glad

I'm also so very glad that my own interview was so early - is my ninety minutes a record?
Meg and Grae
Mar 15 2008, 11:07 AM
Hi Everyone,
I'm sooooo glad we've found this thread. It's great! I had another question. Is it appropriate to send photocopies of my W-2 and my income tax files for both myself and my mother (our cosponser) with my fiance to the London interview? I've read about getting official copies from the IRS but it'd be so much faster and easier if copies of my own personal files were acceptable. Any thoughts? Thank you!!
bakofoil
Mar 15 2008, 11:15 AM
QUOTE(Meg and Grae @ Mar 15 2008, 04:07 PM)

Hi Everyone,
I'm sooooo glad we've found this thread. It's great! I had another question. Is it appropriate to send photocopies of my W-2 and my income tax files for both myself and my mother to the London interview? I've read about getting official copies from the IRS but it'd be so much faster and easier if copies of my own personal files were acceptable. Any thoughts? Thank you!!
I personally don't have a clue what all this tax terminology means but I can tell you what J and his mom sent me - which the guy commented 'brilliant' on.
For J:
Notarised I-134
Recent Bank Statement showing student loan deposit
Notarised Statement of non-filing of income tax
Statement of Student Financial Aid including grants, loans and scholarships received
For J's mom:
Notarised I-134
Earnings statement/pay check copies for the past 3 months
Photocopies of W-2 and Form 1040 for the past 3 years (2004 -2007)
Letter from employer stating employment status/annual salary and commencement of employment.
Hope this helps
Meg and Grae
Mar 15 2008, 11:42 AM
QUOTE(babblesgirl @ Mar 15 2008, 04:15 PM)

QUOTE(Meg and Grae @ Mar 15 2008, 04:07 PM)

Hi Everyone,
I'm sooooo glad we've found this thread. It's great! I had another question. Is it appropriate to send photocopies of my W-2 and my income tax files for both myself and my mother to the London interview? I've read about getting official copies from the IRS but it'd be so much faster and easier if copies of my own personal files were acceptable. Any thoughts? Thank you!!
I personally don't have a clue what all this tax terminology means but I can tell you what J and his mom sent me - which the guy commented 'brilliant' on.
For J:
Notarised I-134
Recent Bank Statement showing student loan deposit
Notarised Statement of non-filing of income tax
Statement of Student Financial Aid including grants, loans and scholarships received
For J's mom:
Notarised I-134
Earnings statement/pay check copies for the past 3 months
Photocopies of W-2 and Form 1040 for the past 3 years (2004 -2007)
Letter from employer stating employment status/annual salary and commencement of employment.
Hope this helps

Thank you so much. The fact that the guy called your packet "brilliant" is all I needed to hear! :-) I'll be sending much of the same things.
Jeraly
Mar 15 2008, 12:20 PM
QUOTE(babblesgirl @ Mar 14 2008, 07:26 PM)

Yay! I got approved!!! 3 and a half hours in that place with about 10 minutes of conversation with a nice man at window no 12 and a very nice American lady (not the infamous Chinese lady) at window no. 16. Had a few probs with the medical on Wednesday but found out today after the interview that the Senior medical officer signed me off last night!! My med stuff is being forwarded to the embassy no later than it would have had nothing gone wrong! YAY!
Anyway, as part of my acceptance speech I would like to thank the following people:

I would like to thank the nice American lady at window no.16 without whom none of this would be possible.
Julezabelle for keeping me sane and helping me out so much with organising things pre-interview
Tomsandi for having two interview dates and being super generous and helping me get an early interview date.
StP and Aly for making me laugh and keeping me going when I got a bit low.
And everyone on the UK board for being supportive to everyone going through interview in London. I felt so much better knowing what I would face in there. So thanks everyone for your reports!
Anyway that's me done. I should also thank my Mum for giving birth to me and waiting outside the embassy for me for almost 4 hours.

*takes a bow*
QUOTE(lisalu100 @ Mar 15 2008, 01:01 AM)

Congratulations Babblesgirl and Ladyynara!! They are finally going to let us in, and ACTUALLY STAY!
One way to look at all of this.... if our relationships can survive separation for this long, and all the anxiety which went with it, we have a pretty solid foundation on which to build a successful marriage. In the past 18 months - Marty moved back to the USA, he got divorced from his former wife, we both changed jobs, we bought a house, survived USCIS, and we have planned a wedding. Those are pretty high up there on the list of most stressful things to do, and our relationship is only stronger. Like I said before, life is pretty good right now

I agree!!! I have maintained for a long while now that going through this process has helped us pave the way for a brilliant future together

Babbles - I am so glad it went well even if it did take ages!!! Do you really have to take the DS-156 with you? I have copies but I also sent it back with my packet 3 I think... Also do you need a copy of the police certificate? I have copies of my birth certificate but not my police certificate... it's not exactly hard but still

Ummm... I think that is all I have to panic about at the moment... that and my medical... I am not too sure how to prove my vaccinations as I have a print out that looks really lame as it is baically just a screen print... Ahhh - now I am beginning to panic!!! LAME!!!
bakofoil
Mar 15 2008, 12:28 PM
QUOTE(Jeraly @ Mar 15 2008, 05:20 PM)

Babbles - I am so glad it went well even if it did take ages!!! Do you really have to take the DS-156 with you? I have copies but I also sent it back with my packet 3 I think... Also do you need a copy of the police certificate? I have copies of my birth certificate but not my police certificate... it's not exactly hard but still

Ummm... I think that is all I have to panic about at the moment... that and my medical... I am not too sure how to prove my vaccinations as I have a print out that looks really lame as it is baically just a screen print... Ahhh - now I am beginning to panic!!! LAME!!!
I took copies of everything just in case. I over did it really because the DS-156 was not required as I had already submitted it with packet 3. Plus they didn't look at any relationship evidence.
The police certificate is yours so copy it (the copy says 'FRAUD' across it, don't worry)and hand both over when asked for, they will return the original of that and the birth certificate when you have your interview. Writing that review it was hard to remember what happened when but I think they kept the originals at first and then the lady at No.16 returned them to me.
The print of the vaccinations sounds fine. Don't stress over that.
eta: The signs outside the embassy say have your DS-156, passport and appointment letter ready. They didn't look at the DS-156 outside either. Maybe it's for non-immigrant interviews.
Jeraly
Mar 15 2008, 12:33 PM
I think when I go to Asda next Friday I am going to pick myself up a little project book with plastic wallets in to put things in that are separate from my main visa file which has everything in from NOA1 to NOA2 to police check etc... Then at least I know I only have what I need and I can order it differently to my real visa file which is chronological

OMG - what do I say if they ask if I got married - I know I will look guilty even though as far as they are concerned I am not married legally... Will have to remember to take ring off as well which will be horrible
bakofoil
Mar 15 2008, 12:42 PM
I got a folder with alphabetical sleeves and made a key ordering things according to the packet 3 checklist, then used the extra pockets for the additional evidence and finally the medical stuff. It's useful because now I can just chuck it all in my suitcase and not have to worry about losing anything.
As far as being married - legally you are not and that's what they're interested in. I think it will complicate things if you tell them about the ceremony, but ultimately this is your choice. At least, legally you are still free to marry.
Jeraly
Mar 15 2008, 12:45 PM
Yeah - I have no intention of mentioning the ceremony unless they specifically ask. In fact my wedding planner has sent us a letter confirming that we have postponed it if they ask because we sent the contract with our initial I-129f saying the wedding date was the 11th Feb. Obviously we have postponed the actual wedding and we are using our planner again for the smaller ceremony we have in August so that will be cool but still... it is a little scary!!
StillThePrettiest
Mar 15 2008, 12:48 PM
I just had four plastic sleeves - one with everything they had SPECIFICALLY asked for, in the Packet 4 letter, one with all my 'back-up' evidence, should it be required, and one each for copies of the initial petition, and the packet 3 stuff
needless to say, the only one I even needed to open was the first one

I handed over my original birth certificates and both my police checks to the first dude, with copies attached, and he looked at them all and gave me back the originals, retaining the copies... I'd made a copy of the affidavit of support too, but he kept the original of that, which was fine by me!
and yeah - the stuff outside is for non-immigrant petitions; it says something about showing your receipt of payment too, but they just wave you on by
bakofoil
Mar 15 2008, 12:48 PM
If they note from your file that your wedding was planned for the 11th Feb and ask you. Then just say we had to postpone the wedding until later. I don't think they will ask beyond that. And if they ask if you are married already then the answer is still no. Don't worry.
Jeraly
Mar 15 2008, 01:16 PM
Yeah I know - it's just a bit of a sticking point is all - I know that it is all fine and I even have evidence from our planner to say it was postponed for my own peace of mind - it's just the only thing I can think of that might cause any sort of problem at all - which of course it probably won't
Poiteen
Mar 15 2008, 03:48 PM
ahahha - I'm in the opposite situation to you Jeraly!! We are legally married, but it was just a quickie for the sake of doing DCF. I don't have a ring or anything, but it's hardly a legal requirement.
The point is in our case that we have a legitimate relationship (even if we don't feel 'married'), and in yours that even though you have had the ceremony that's the meaningful one for you, it wasn't a legal ceremony. Now stop stressing

You're not lying, your not covering anything up. Even if you told them about it, it wouldn't change the fact that you guys are doing this all the right way.
bakofoil
Mar 15 2008, 04:00 PM
QUOTE(Poiteen @ Mar 15 2008, 08:48 PM)

ahahha - I'm in the opposite situation to you Jeraly!! We are legally married, but it was just a quickie for the sake of doing DCF. I don't have a ring or anything, but it's hardly a legal requirement.
The point is in our case that we have a legitimate relationship (even if we don't feel 'married'), and in yours that even though you have had the ceremony that's the meaningful one for you, it wasn't a legal ceremony. Now stop stressing

You're not lying, your not covering anything up. Even if you told them about it, it wouldn't change the fact that you guys are doing this all the right way.

I agree. Good post.
People just adapt their plans to fit in with not being able to predict the time frame involved accurately. When I go to the US we will have a similar situation to you for the sake of AOS and a more meaningful ceremony later in the summer when my family can all get over at the same time. Even if Aly ends up having to talk about the 'wedding' she has still adapted things for the purpose of satisfying the authorities rather than herself.
Jeraly
Mar 16 2008, 06:45 AM
Yeah - but I will be happy when I have my GC and it can all blow over and we can just get on with referring to our February wedding as the one that counts - it will be our anniversary and all but it just takes a lot of explaining to people who don't understand so you always feel like you are having to justify yourself - I know in the future it won't matter so much but right now it is kinda annoying... all in good time I guess
StillThePrettiest
Mar 16 2008, 06:54 AM
it's probably only in here that some people would question it... if you tell others ('normal people'

)that you were married in February I don't think they're going to say 'legal, or ceremony only??' with an accusatory glare
Jeraly
Mar 16 2008, 07:20 AM
Hahah - yeah I know - but the officials as well - I mean we have to go through the AOS interview with a "fake" wedding date and it sucks!! Ah well - it's all a means to an end I guess
janaus
Mar 16 2008, 08:48 PM
QUOTE(Jeraly @ Mar 16 2008, 07:20 AM)

Hahah - yeah I know - but the officials as well - I mean we have to go through the AOS interview with a "fake" wedding date and it sucks!! Ah well - it's all a means to an end I guess

yup...the important thing is that u have ur wedding the way u want it...date isn't as important as the wedding itself
greeneyedgirlfl
Mar 16 2008, 10:07 PM
I have a quick interview question...
We sent 2 copies of the DS-156 to the embassy...
Does D need to take another copy of this with him to the interview or are the two that we sent enough? I ask this because when we were copying the form to send with packet, he only made two copies...
Will this be a problem?
Thanks!
Jeraly
Mar 17 2008, 04:56 AM
Well for us the date was important because we wanted to get married between our birthdays so we were the "same" age when we got married - Jeremy's birthday was the 6th Feb and mine is 16th - we got married on the 11th so we were both 25

Crazy but true
bakofoil
Mar 17 2008, 06:33 AM
QUOTE(greeneyedgirlfl @ Mar 17 2008, 03:07 AM)

I have a quick interview question...
We sent 2 copies of the DS-156 to the embassy...
Does D need to take another copy of this with him to the interview or are the two that we sent enough? I ask this because when we were copying the form to send with packet, he only made two copies...
Will this be a problem?
Thanks!
It shouldn't be a problem at all. I just panicked because at the entrance to the embassy the signs said to have the DS-156 ready along with appointment letter and passport. It also said 'fee receipt' and we've pretty much decided that these signs are geared towards non-immigrant visas since the fee receipt is not applicable to us and when I handed over the copy I had of my DS-156 he gave it straight back to me because I had already sent it in with Packet 3. So, there should be no problems at all.
ladyynara
Mar 17 2008, 04:40 PM
Wooo, just noticed a text message saying I should have my visa tomorrow morning by 10am! Phew!
bakofoil
Mar 17 2008, 05:04 PM
QUOTE(ladyynara @ Mar 17 2008, 09:40 PM)

Wooo, just noticed a text message saying I should have my visa tomorrow morning by 10am! Phew!
Ooh looks like you can make the move before you lose your home!! Congratulations!
I didn't get a text message yet. Though my medical details will have only arrived at the embassy today.
bakofoil
Mar 18 2008, 04:05 AM
Good luck to zoobuffalo for today!!
Jeraly
Mar 18 2008, 05:33 AM
Grr - well the tracking on the royal mail website is still showing my packet as underlivered.. I mailed it on Thursday evening so it should be there by now - surely!?!?!?!
bakofoil
Mar 18 2008, 05:47 AM
Could be that they've just not updated yet. Did you send it special delivery?
Jeraly
Mar 18 2008, 06:17 AM
I don't know - she said at the post office that special delivery was for parcels that had things other than documentation in so I figured it wa skinda the same thing... either way - they advise two working days because it is first class and it has been more than that now
bakofoil
Mar 18 2008, 06:24 AM
I dunno. I think it all depends on who you talk to at the post office. I paid £9 odd and got mine guaranteed next day delivery but that's prolly not necessary in most cases.
I want my text to come from the courier people!! I'm dying to book my flight.
elmcitymaven
Mar 18 2008, 07:48 AM
QUOTE(Jeraly @ Mar 18 2008, 06:17 AM)

I don't know -
she said at the post office that special delivery was for parcels that had things other than documentation in so I figured it wa skinda the same thing... either way - they advise two working days because it is first class and it has been more than that now

That's b*ll*cks! You can have documents sent special delivery, not just parcels. If it helps, quite often it seems that, at the embassy, the docs get there but it takes a while to get from the drop box to the mailroom. You might try calling Royal Mail instead of going online to check status. When we sent back our packet 3 (special delivery by 8am, by the way, and documents only!) by 9am it still wasn't showing as having been delivered. I called the Royal Mail to ask what gives, and they told me it had been delivered to the Embassy at 7am, but the Embassy doesn't really "sign" for it. The carrier made a note it had been delivered, but that since he couldn't enter it strictly as signed for, it didn't go online as an update. (Hope that makes sense!)
Try calling them with your tracking number to see if you can get better info.
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