Hey Everyone,
thank you for your quick replies!
Yea, I figured it'd be best to list the actual address at which we live(d) for the co-habitation part of the forms, as well as her "actual" residence for mailing purposes. Satellite, Chris, and Slim, thanks for the advice; the discrepancy is what I was most worried about,and I know I feel better hoping that whoever reviews my application will be more interpretive than a bureaucratic robot that spits out my app as rejected if address X doesn't match address Y in entirety!!
Also Satellite funny story for ya about utilities, as I think my wife's family may have something similar going on- my first time back in Russia after meeting then leaving

my dear Kat' was during my Winter Break from college, January 07. We went to spend some time in her family's apt in Stantsia Mstyora, a miniscule village (if that!) in Vladimirskaya Oblast' (Vladimir is part of the Golden Ring, once capital of Rus', about 300km east of Moscow). Well, one reason we took off for Mstyora is that there's a washing machine there, which Kat's landlady in Vladimir didn't have, and we had a TON of dirty clothes and very little energy to hand wash them (let only desire, me being a spoiled American who earlier would complain about putting his clothes INTO A MACHINE!)
So, we get to Mstyora and begin enjoying time with the family etc. but also get down to business (=washing our clothes!). Afterwards it doesn’t surprise me to not find a drying machine, but we have a problem- I can’t hang my jeans up to dry because they’re the only pair I’d brought with me from Vladimir. At this point Katya tells me to hang them on a line above the stove, for what, I have no idea, until I see the stove turned on, gas burning away, below the clothesline!! I began to get very nervous about the cost of all this and explained to my girl that I could wait for the jeans to dry, no problem, when she told me that it was OK to dry them above the stove because her godmother Valya, a pensioner who’s the only one permanently living at the apt while everyone’s off in Moscow earning money, pays a set monthly rate for gas, no matter how much she uses.
So, Satellite, perhaps this is a similar situation to your wife’s previous living condition, with some sort of flat rate per person. You can be sure that that rate was INCREDIBLY low by our standards, though-I’m not sure how much dear Valya pays, but after living for a month in a 1BR in Vladimir with Katya, our gas bill was thirty-some-odd rubes. Mind you, we were paying for a winter month, with heat running constantly, cooking every day, etc, and all this gas cost LESS THAN FORTY RUBLES!!! I don’t know if we have subsidized utilities for the northern states, I know that in D.C. electricity costs (I think) more in the Summer due to increased demand, but my typical gas bill back home in the Winter is $300+!
So, yeah, utilities are a funny thing here in Russia…
Oh yes and Slim, so a little about us.
I met Katya in September 07 in Vladimir, where I was just starting two semesters of studying abroad through ACTR, and she was in her junior year studying Economics at a university located next to mine. After two or so weeks of eating lunch in this soviet-era-looking cafeteria that the two universities shared, I was tired of listening to the other students in our group blabbing incredibly loudly in English (yes, there’s some truth to the loud American stereotype), and thought, dammit, I didn’t pay all this money to travel to Russia to speak English with Americans! So, I walked up to a table with an incredibly cute Russian girl and her friend and asked in Russian if they’d mind me joining them. A friendship pursued between Kat’ and me from then until April, with each of us demanding English/Russian conversation from the other, and then, with only ONE month left for me in Russia, we began dating (DAMN!!). That Summer was tough, with neither of us certain where we were headed (after all, who can make such guarantees??), but emails and cheap calling rates from the U.S. to Russia helped, and by my winter trip to Vladimir I was pretty much certain (though Kat’, the typical worrying woman

, still had her doubts). *FLASH TO SUMMER* After getting my diploma, I hopped on the metaphorical first flight to Russia, not sure where to work, etc., but fairly certain she was THE ONE. Thankfully, (non-Moscow) Russia is pretty cheap to live in, so it was only in late July that I absolutely had to find work. And it didn’t take me long, after a month of searching, with the help of some acquaintances, I found a job doing-what else?-teaching English! For anyone thinking of running off to Russia to be with his/her love, I think work is the last thing you need to worry about, so long as you’re in a city. Native speaking teachers are in high demand, the pay is nice, and some places don’t even care if your degree is in teaching or you have certifications!! Mind you, the legality of such companies may not be so solid, LOL, but for those in my situation, waiting to either get Russian temp residency or a visa for one’s spouse/fiancée, it’s a much better option than sitting at home in the states missing one’s beau!
Well guys this has turned out to be another pretty long post! I guess I’m pretty starved for social outlets-Moscow is a BUSY freakin city, especially if you’re running around all the time to different companies teaching their employees English freelance, and so, alas, little time is left to make friends. I’ve got no regrets, just warning you all that to live in an affordable apt in Moscow means to live on the OUTSKIRTS (=second-to-end-of-the-line metro stop, then 30 min by bus), which means it’s pretty tough to go out partying in the center. Which reminds me, does anyone know ‘typical’ rents for say NY or any other big U.S. cities? I’m tired of Russians gloating about Moscow being the most expensive city in the world, esp. when utilities/food/other basics are so much cheaper than back home in D.C., as I remember! My best guess is that Moscow is rated most expensive because of its way over-inflated housing market, a bubble I’m just waiting to see burst!
Oh yea and my apologies for any weird English I may have typed or grammatical mistakes I may have made—6+ months in Russia has done a number on my English language skills! Chego!!?? LOL
I look forward to getting to know all of you better, and getting answers to my questions. Oh yea and anyone looking for Russian info/tips/etc., please hit me up! Gentlemen, remember, if you especially miss your Russian beaus, now’s the TIME TO FLY!! During the winter months I flew DC to Moscow RT for $700, vs. one way for that much in the summer. No one wants to go to the frigid motherland in the winter, so take advantage of those discounts for some cozy fireplace fun!!
Thanks again for the quick replies,
Nick