Full Version: Oral
Love giving and receiving.
Give and receive..mmmmm...
Nothing starts the day or evening off better than a little stimulating lick or two ...
Personally I find the ability to control what i do soo exciting.. not only for me but for my baby as well.
to feel the response.. its mutual.. .
lick2
Nothing starts the day or evening off better than a little stimulating lick or two ...
Personally I find the ability to control what i do soo exciting.. not only for me but for my baby as well.
to feel the response.. its mutual.. .
lick2
QUOTE (roi_aggie @ Apr 24 2006, 08:33 AM) 
QUOTE (RaspberrySwirl @ Apr 23 2006, 07:08 PM)
QUOTE (ladybutterfly @ Apr 21 2006, 05:40 PM)
QUOTE (Jaylen Brit @ Apr 21 2006, 01:39 PM)
QUOTE (ladybutterfly @ Apr 20 2006, 11:58 PM)
Im afraid I dont like this thread, reading it just makes me jeolous! My husband doesnt like doing it and never does! I love it on the other hand, as most woman do! Believe me, it has caused many an arguement but I dont know what to do!
relationships are give and take - you can't force him obviously but then neither should he expect it from you. Really he can't have it both ways.
Im sure he could learn to love it - maybe having a brazillian might help him decide?
I agree with you about the give and take which is why I decided months ago not to bother no more, why should I when he dont do the same to me!
As for the brazillian, im afriad it aint a question of shaving, that is always done, its more of a case of he has a phobia about the odour of woman 'down there'. Even suggested doing it straight after a shower but it is no go!
I guess some men are just not into oral. Does he like getting blowjobs? Maybe he's had some really awful experiences. I don't know.
David used to be reserved about it as well but then again he doesn't like blowjobs either. He likes getting right down to the action heh. Which kinda leaves me hangin' at times >.> I suppose this is too much info, but how about trying things like honey or body paste or chocolate or erm yeah you get my drift.
I like giving and I LOVE receiving.
I'm outta here
I'd like to know the answers to your questions as well. Is it a case where he is uncomfortable about oral sex in general, or just going down on a woman??? Is there a way to find out if he ever liked it, or if it may have something to do with you? Not to imply anything... but I personally LOVE to go down on a woman, and feel it is a very important part of sex, before, during, and after!
However... some women do better than others in taking care of their "kitty", which can be a big factor in how eager a man is willing to go "muff diving". Such things as yeast infections, odors, etc. can be a major turn off when it comes to a man performing oral sex... no matter how much he loves to do it, or how much he loves his partner. It can be a difficult thing to talk about as well. Most men aren't going to just tell you that there is something wrong "down there"... they will just avoid it. Once again, not implying there is anything wrong with you... just offering my opinion and experience.
Hope things get better for you in that department, because for me... I can't imagine NOT doing it!
She did say he wont even AFTER A SHOWER..so its obviously his issue and nothing to do with HER..maybe he did have a bad experience long ago - but really he ought to try an get over it..it might be fun too..if they explore together - love the choccie body paint idea - u can buy all sorts of things that taste nice to put all over..
so I hear
There's a nice syrupy thing that tastes of cinamon..smells strongly of it too..and one of mint
Ice cream is good too...plus you get the whole cold and hot factor
Apparently
ahahahah... gotta love Jay's tips
here are some great products for possible use...
a little info about the company:
Kama Sutra Company History
When Kama Sutra started their company over 30 years ago, in the midst of the turbulent 1960's, the youth of America were challenging "the establishment" at every level on fundamental issues of government, society and relationships. It was the decade of flower power, free love, student protest. While the inspiration for Kama Sutra Company's name came from the 4th century Indian text on lovemaking, The Kama Sutra of Vatsayayana, our purpose was thoroughly modern. Their very first product, Kama Sutra's Oil of Love, was created to bring people together and help heal the wounds that were tearing our country apart. Since that time, they have carefully extended our original idea to bring an entire group of related products into a world that needs them now as much as ever. As their products have become more numerous, their purpose has become more focused: to help loving couples create joyful experiences of intimacy and tenderness. Through such intimacy, physically and emotionally healthier human beings emerge, who in turn become more able to give love to the world. This is what Kama Sutra is all about.
FAQ about Kama Sutra Products:
1)There are no instructions...how do I use this product?
We do not provide instructions for use with the products. What Kama Sutra tries to provide the customer with in and on the package is information regarding the qualities each product possesses - i.e. is it edible, is it good for the skin, the different therapeutic qualities of the aromatics. How you use the product is left to your own discretion, imagination and for what ever each individual feels comfortable using that product for.
2)Which products are edible?
All nine flavors of the Oils of Love, the Massage Creams, Honey Dust powder, the Lover's Paint Box edible body chocolate and Pleasure Balm.
3)Do you do animal testing in your research?
No we do not. Our line is made with absolutely no animal products and we have never conducted tests or research on animals.
4)What products can I use as a lubricant?
Any of the nine flavors of the Oils of Love are recommended to be used as a lubricant as well as the Love Liquid as these products are water based. The massage oil series is NOT recommended nor is it considered safe to be used as a lubricant.
5)Which products can be used safely with condoms?
Any of the nine flavors of the Oils of Love as well as the Love Liquid can be used safely with condoms because they are water based. These are the ONLY products safe for use with condoms.
6)What does the Pleasure Balm do?
Pleasure Balm is an edible flavored emollient designed to heighten and prolong pleasure. It has a gently numbing and cooling effect. Women may be more sensitive than men to this product if applied directly, test a small amount first. Pleasure Balm is not safe to use with condoms.
7)Will any of your products make me break out in a rash?
Probably not. If you are concerned, like any body or skin care product read the ingredients carefully and use small amounts at first if you think you might be sensitive to something new.
8)My Pleasure Balm looks like it has crystals forming at the top...help!
A natural characteristic of the Pleasure Balm is that it will form crystals on the surface. This is a reaction to the sweetener oxidizing with the air. Scrape off the crystals on the surface before use. It is still OK to use.
did you happen to see that they have chocolate body paints????
a little info about the company:
Kama Sutra Company History
When Kama Sutra started their company over 30 years ago, in the midst of the turbulent 1960's, the youth of America were challenging "the establishment" at every level on fundamental issues of government, society and relationships. It was the decade of flower power, free love, student protest. While the inspiration for Kama Sutra Company's name came from the 4th century Indian text on lovemaking, The Kama Sutra of Vatsayayana, our purpose was thoroughly modern. Their very first product, Kama Sutra's Oil of Love, was created to bring people together and help heal the wounds that were tearing our country apart. Since that time, they have carefully extended our original idea to bring an entire group of related products into a world that needs them now as much as ever. As their products have become more numerous, their purpose has become more focused: to help loving couples create joyful experiences of intimacy and tenderness. Through such intimacy, physically and emotionally healthier human beings emerge, who in turn become more able to give love to the world. This is what Kama Sutra is all about.
FAQ about Kama Sutra Products:
1)There are no instructions...how do I use this product?
We do not provide instructions for use with the products. What Kama Sutra tries to provide the customer with in and on the package is information regarding the qualities each product possesses - i.e. is it edible, is it good for the skin, the different therapeutic qualities of the aromatics. How you use the product is left to your own discretion, imagination and for what ever each individual feels comfortable using that product for.
2)Which products are edible?
All nine flavors of the Oils of Love, the Massage Creams, Honey Dust powder, the Lover's Paint Box edible body chocolate and Pleasure Balm.
3)Do you do animal testing in your research?
No we do not. Our line is made with absolutely no animal products and we have never conducted tests or research on animals.
4)What products can I use as a lubricant?
Any of the nine flavors of the Oils of Love are recommended to be used as a lubricant as well as the Love Liquid as these products are water based. The massage oil series is NOT recommended nor is it considered safe to be used as a lubricant.
5)Which products can be used safely with condoms?
Any of the nine flavors of the Oils of Love as well as the Love Liquid can be used safely with condoms because they are water based. These are the ONLY products safe for use with condoms.
6)What does the Pleasure Balm do?
Pleasure Balm is an edible flavored emollient designed to heighten and prolong pleasure. It has a gently numbing and cooling effect. Women may be more sensitive than men to this product if applied directly, test a small amount first. Pleasure Balm is not safe to use with condoms.
7)Will any of your products make me break out in a rash?
Probably not. If you are concerned, like any body or skin care product read the ingredients carefully and use small amounts at first if you think you might be sensitive to something new.
8)My Pleasure Balm looks like it has crystals forming at the top...help!
A natural characteristic of the Pleasure Balm is that it will form crystals on the surface. This is a reaction to the sweetener oxidizing with the air. Scrape off the crystals on the surface before use. It is still OK to use.
did you happen to see that they have chocolate body paints????
QUOTE (keltic @ Apr 24 2006, 04:39 PM)
did you happen to see that they have chocolate body paints????
Oh this is going to give new meaning to my chocolate woman fantasies. Maybe it's better now that it can be my wife.
QUOTE (roi_aggie @ Apr 20 2006, 05:23 PM)
What can I say... I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body... I love P#ssy!!! 
exactly what my husband said
QUOTE (OyenJames @ Apr 24 2006, 09:51 PM)
QUOTE (roi_aggie @ Apr 20 2006, 05:23 PM)
What can I say... I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body... I love P#ssy!!!
exactly what my husband said omg i had to read the name of the person who said that to make sure it wasn't hubby, he says the exact same thing
QUOTE (nessaandcharles @ Apr 24 2006, 08:41 PM)
QUOTE (OyenJames @ Apr 24 2006, 09:51 PM)
QUOTE (roi_aggie @ Apr 20 2006, 05:23 PM)
What can I say... I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body... I love P#ssy!!!
exactly what my husband said omg i had to read the name of the person who said that to make sure it wasn't hubby, he says the exact same thing
i also said i'm a dinosaur.........a lickalotapuss
QUOTE (charlesandnessa @ Apr 24 2006, 08:55 PM)
QUOTE (nessaandcharles @ Apr 24 2006, 08:41 PM)
QUOTE (OyenJames @ Apr 24 2006, 09:51 PM)
QUOTE (roi_aggie @ Apr 20 2006, 05:23 PM)
What can I say... I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body... I love P#ssy!!!
exactly what my husband said omg i had to read the name of the person who said that to make sure it wasn't hubby, he says the exact same thing
i also said i'm a dinosaur.........a lickalotapuss
so funny! That's a rare dinosaur
QUOTE (ladybutterfly @ Apr 20 2006, 11:58 PM)
Im afraid I dont like this thread, reading it just makes me jealous! My husband doesnt like doing it and never does! I love it on the other hand, as most women do! Believe me, it has caused many an arguement but I dont know what to do!
Man... I like some biffburger most mornings.
Poor you.
QUOTE (triaxiom @ Apr 25 2006, 11:41 AM)
QUOTE (ladybutterfly @ Apr 20 2006, 11:58 PM)
Im afraid I dont like this thread, reading it just makes me jealous! My husband doesnt like doing it and never does! I love it on the other hand, as most women do! Believe me, it has caused many an arguement but I dont know what to do!
Man... I like some biffburger most mornings.
Poor you.
biffburger?
QUOTE (charlesandnessa @ Apr 24 2006, 08:55 PM)
QUOTE (nessaandcharles @ Apr 24 2006, 08:41 PM)
QUOTE (OyenJames @ Apr 24 2006, 09:51 PM)
QUOTE (roi_aggie @ Apr 20 2006, 05:23 PM)
What can I say... I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body... I love P#ssy!!!
exactly what my husband said omg i had to read the name of the person who said that to make sure it wasn't hubby, he says the exact same thing
i also said i'm a dinosaur.........a lickalotapuss
love it!!!
You know what they say... if the name fits... wear it!!!
QUOTE (triaxiom @ Apr 25 2006, 11:41 AM)
QUOTE (ladybutterfly @ Apr 20 2006, 11:58 PM)
Im afraid I dont like this thread, reading it just makes me jealous! My husband doesnt like doing it and never does! I love it on the other hand, as most women do! Believe me, it has caused many an arguement but I dont know what to do!
Man... I like some biffburger most mornings.
Poor you.
How about the following dishes:
Sheepherder's special: a glass of water and a piece of yew
Crotch cobbler
Hair pie
Furr burger
Box lunch...
and most importantly.... don't forget to always eat at the Y
I am a giver and a big taker as well!!!
You gotta love it
You gotta love it
This is sooo the best topic.
Love getting it, love giving it.
... and I'm one of those lucky girls, because my man loves giving it too.
Love getting it, love giving it.
... and I'm one of those lucky girls, because my man loves giving it too.
Thanks for all the links for the body paint and stuff, will check it out. But judging from this poll I guess I am the only one then that doesnt get a good lickin 
Awww Maria - if it's any consolation I didn't used to in my last marriage, so been there.
bump
QUOTE (sukie175 @ Apr 28 2006, 08:27 AM)
Awww Maria - if it's any consolation I didn't used to in my last marriage, so been there.
Thanks for sympathising Sarah. Was that one of the reasons at all why your last marriage didnt go the distance? I hate to focus on one thing with my husband as he has so many wonderful qualities but sometimes I start to feel really bitter towards him because he wont do something to please me. I really feel that if you love someone you want to please them and will do it even if you dont like to do it. We never have arguements, in fact, this is the only thing we ever do argue about!!! Sounds crazy I know. I sometimes even fantasize about being with another man because of this issue, and that isnt healthy in my marriage is it? Im totally at a loss with the issue I really am.
I love giving it and receiving it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
QUOTE (ladybutterfly @ Apr 28 2006, 06:19 PM)
QUOTE (sukie175 @ Apr 28 2006, 08:27 AM)
Awww Maria - if it's any consolation I didn't used to in my last marriage, so been there.
Thanks for sympathising Sarah. Was that one of the reasons at all why your last marriage didnt go the distance? I hate to focus on one thing with my husband as he has so many wonderful qualities but sometimes I start to feel really bitter towards him because he wont do something to please me. I really feel that if you love someone you want to please them and will do it even if you dont like to do it. We never have arguements, in fact, this is the only thing we ever do argue about!!! Sounds crazy I know. I sometimes even fantasize about being with another man because of this issue, and that isnt healthy in my marriage is it? Im totally at a loss with the issue I really am.
Sorry to hear that this is causing you so much pain. Personally I can't imagine sex without having a snack at the Y. But you might try an alternitive. I bought my fiance a little thing called a butterfly. She tells me it is very close to the feeling of oral sex. I know it may be a poor substitute but it may do the trick for you. And you can use it while you and your man are making love. You never know. When he sees the pleasure it gives you in may change his mind. Good luck to you.
love it both ways, 
QUOTE (GaryC @ Apr 29 2006, 12:35 AM)
QUOTE (ladybutterfly @ Apr 28 2006, 06:19 PM)
QUOTE (sukie175 @ Apr 28 2006, 08:27 AM)
Awww Maria - if it's any consolation I didn't used to in my last marriage, so been there.
Thanks for sympathising Sarah. Was that one of the reasons at all why your last marriage didnt go the distance? I hate to focus on one thing with my husband as he has so many wonderful qualities but sometimes I start to feel really bitter towards him because he wont do something to please me. I really feel that if you love someone you want to please them and will do it even if you dont like to do it. We never have arguements, in fact, this is the only thing we ever do argue about!!! Sounds crazy I know. I sometimes even fantasize about being with another man because of this issue, and that isnt healthy in my marriage is it? Im totally at a loss with the issue I really am.
Sorry to hear that this is causing you so much pain. Personally I can't imagine sex without having a snack at the Y. But you might try an alternitive. I bought my fiance a little thing called a butterfly. She tells me it is very close to the feeling of oral sex. I know it may be a poor substitute but it may do the trick for you. And you can use it while you and your man are making love. You never know. When he sees the pleasure it gives you in may change his mind. Good luck to you.
Absolutely... it's all good!
Ok, ok... Just got the old thread alive... I was lost reading the polls and this one made me stop to read the entire thing...
As a lucky one, we are both giver and taker and we love it...
Now, I wonder: who tried with the Black Halls candy??? Its soooooooooo cool!!! Maybe its a good suggestion for ladybutterfly!!!
Carol
As a lucky one, we are both giver and taker and we love it...
Now, I wonder: who tried with the Black Halls candy??? Its soooooooooo cool!!! Maybe its a good suggestion for ladybutterfly!!!
Carol
HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUAAAAAAAAAHUAHAUHAUAHA migaaaaaa
Well.. with Halls and then you blow it ? HUAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Good one
Well.. with Halls and then you blow it ? HUAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Good one
...wow, still going.
ooo ooo I found another one
:sigh:
:sigh:
QUOTE (aussiewench @ May 25 2006, 03:14 AM)
ooo ooo I found another one
:sigh:
:sigh:
QUOTE (aussiewench @ May 25 2006, 03:14 AM)
ooo ooo I found another one
:sigh:
:sigh:
QUOTE (aussiewench @ May 25 2006, 03:14 AM)
ooo ooo I found another one
:sigh:
:sigh:
Outstanding shipmate!!!
I really enjoy giving it, and he enjoys getting it 
It works both ways
It works both ways
Lmaoooooooooo
Lorelle, you are the best
Lorelle, you are the best
LOL LOL LOL
Lorelle
where do you get all those smileyss
Lorelle
where do you get all those smileyss
We are both givers... - dont know who is doing all the receiving..
Its my turn !!!! (to give)
Its my turn !!!! (to give)
cant go there ... sorry
post boosting
post boosting
When we first started seeing eachother my wife was shy about that , until I finally got my way and now she loves it!
I like gently nibbling her hip bones while massaging her inner thighs all the up to the intersection. then i move in
Ok I better stop too much detail may get me in trouble.
Yummy!
I like gently nibbling her hip bones while massaging her inner thighs all the up to the intersection. then i move in
Ok I better stop too much detail may get me in trouble.
Yummy!
heehee
QUOTE
When we first started seeing eachother my wife was shy about that , until I finally got my way and now she loves it!
I like gently nibbling her hip bones while massaging her inner thighs all the up to the intersection. then i move in
Ok I better stop too much detail may get me in trouble.
I like gently nibbling her hip bones while massaging her inner thighs all the up to the intersection. then i move in
Ok I better stop too much detail may get me in trouble.
TMI!!!!!!!!!!! Close to soft porn
give, give, give till my jaw aches, then give some more...
my ex-wife didn't seem to appreciate it much...
maybe another reason she's my EX-??
LOL
-- Dan
my ex-wife didn't seem to appreciate it much...
maybe another reason she's my EX-??
LOL
-- Dan
Is it lunchtime yet?? Getting Hungry
Wow. So many givers. Personally, I feel that oral sex is something "you have to do"
if you want your partner to return the favour.
if you want your partner to return the favour.
We are asexual!
QUOTE (ladybutterfly @ Apr 21 2006, 06:40 PM)
he has a phobia about the odour of woman 'down there'. Even suggested doing it straight after a shower but it is no go!
Can you really blame him? Even the best of them smell like a day-old fish stand in Chinatown.
I can't understand how something that smells so foul can evoke paroxysms of pleasure and
excitement.
I don't like the smell. I don't like the taste. I don't like the aftertaste.
QUOTE (mawilson @ Aug 25 2006, 03:28 PM)
I don't like the smell. I don't like the taste. I don't like the aftertaste.
Same here.
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