QUOTE(RaspberrySwirl @ Apr 23 2006, 07:08 PM)

QUOTE(ladybutterfly @ Apr 21 2006, 05:40 PM)

QUOTE(Jaylen Brit @ Apr 21 2006, 01:39 PM)

QUOTE(ladybutterfly @ Apr 20 2006, 11:58 PM)

Im afraid I dont like this thread, reading it just makes me jeolous! My husband doesnt like doing it and never does! I love it on the other hand, as most woman do! Believe me, it has caused many an arguement but I dont know what to do!
relationships are give and take - you can't force him obviously but then neither should he expect it from you. Really he can't have it both ways.
Im sure he could learn to love it - maybe having a brazillian might help him decide?

I agree with you about the give and take which is why I decided months ago not to bother no more, why should I when he dont do the same to me!
As for the brazillian, im afriad it aint a question of shaving, that is always done, its more of a case of he has a phobia about the odour of woman 'down there'. Even suggested doing it straight after a shower but it is no go!
I guess some men are just not into oral. Does he like getting blowjobs? Maybe he's had some really awful experiences. I don't know.
David used to be reserved about it as well but then again he doesn't like blowjobs either. He likes getting right down to the action heh. Which kinda leaves me hangin' at times >.> I suppose this is too much info, but how about trying things like honey or body paste or chocolate or erm yeah you get my drift.
I like giving and I LOVE receiving.
I'm outta here

I'd like to know the answers to your questions as well. Is it a case where he is uncomfortable about oral sex in general, or just going down on a woman??? Is there a way to find out if he ever liked it, or if it may have something to do with you? Not to imply anything... but I personally LOVE to go down on a woman, and feel it is a very important part of sex, before, during, and after!

However... some women do better than others in taking care of their "kitty", which can be a big factor in how eager a man is willing to go "muff diving". Such things as yeast infections, odors, etc. can be a major turn off when it comes to a man performing oral sex... no matter how much he loves to do it, or how much he loves his partner. It can be a difficult thing to talk about as well. Most men aren't going to just tell you that there is something wrong "down there"... they will just avoid it.
Once again, not implying there is anything wrong with you... just offering my opinion and experience.
Hope things get better for you in that department, because for me... I can't imagine NOT doing it!