After several trips to Shenyang to visit my lady and asking her family for permission to marry I spent many hours working to get her K1 visa processed. It came with a very good time line and I went to China on 02/01/2016 to spend 3 weeks with her and to enjoy our trip back to the USA with her. She was in our home for almost 70 days and two postponed wedding dates. Before we left Shenyang I was informed by my fiancee that she had borrowed money from her mother and oldest brother to pay for my birthday celebration, presents to bring to the US for my family members and to pay for new clothes and other items needed to come to America !! This is something I judged as a lie and at this point in our 2 year relationship I needed to have her admit this was money paid to family as Bride Money which is a Chinese cultural tradition. I paid the $5000 to see if she could tell me the truth later? After many questions and her talking in circles I decided after the cancelling the wedding date the first time I was not going to marry a 53 year old woman that can't tell the truth. She was put on a plane and sent home. She is now unable to get back into the US because of the K1 visa and a one time entry. I loved this woman deeply and I also know that a partnership Must be built on Trust and Honesty. This is a very difficult time for me to offer this and I am still in love with her but I must love myself more and understand the Cultural Differences and also that she was unwilling to tell me the true about this issue and a few other situations that came up. I will find the woman that is to be my partner and I know that she is hear in the US and Chinese. My task is to keep moving forward and use the tools and resources here in the US to find a woman that understands what this Great County has to offer and help Make America Great Again. God Bless
