update on age differance & collaboration.

[bostonBruce 38]

so the final decision by jama embassy after sending more collaboration and sending them the email followed by n phone call if they rec. it and accepted, which the lady said that's fine , then got n email after, requesting her passport, all this is August 2016, we been emailing and calling to find out where the visa is since they asked for her passport. They told me by email I have to go with her for n follow up interview. ( I didn't go with her the first time) we know its an age difference cuz the lady at interviewed asked her y marry and older man, which she literally cried out cuz I Love him, apparently not good enough. so off I go to embassy next month.

Anyone have any idea the questions I will get asked? had experience with this?

[LionessDeon 2,060]

It would be beneficial if you would correct your profile to the right visa "Filed For" as K1 and not naturalization so that your posts are directed to the appropriate forum for responses.  You both need to be confident not crying.  If your relationship is real then be strong, confident, and firm.  Know everything about each other.  They are testing you to see if you crack.

 

http://www.visajourney.com/wiki/index.php?title=Consular_Interview_Questions

Edited December 13, 2017 by LionessDeon

[Pinkrlion 2,607]

You need to contact your congressman, are you saying this has been since August 2016 over one year ago?  It is more than an age difference, how long have you been in a relationship?  They do not believe that it is a bonafide relationship.  Plenty of older men have married younger women in JA.  

[bostonBruce 38]

oops sorry interview was aug 4 2017 missed n year seems so long lol aug 14 I sent email for collaboration, after that she called embassy spoke to n lady that confirmed my email and said that was acceptable ( we met twice week each together with pics of us), august 18  asked for Moesha's passport via email, ceac updated aug 25 for AP called September numerous times without getting thru, finally after numerous emails from both of us again, they emailed back saying I had to go to interview when I can travel. emailed them back with my email I had sent in Aug and the request for passport and asking why they saying now I have to go there? they responded next day still have to come.

[LionessDeon 2,060]

May want to prepare for a Stokes interview.  You can used the advanced search tool to research.

[bostonBruce 38]

1 minute ago, LionessDeon said:

May want to prepare for a Stokes interview.  You can used the advanced search tool to research.

yes thank u , I'm reading it now and making notes, I will go thru all we did and talked about since we been chatting, how our first physical meeting went how I felt seeing and being with Moe, of course we been chatting everyday since talking abut future etc. I think once they see us together and knowing her likes n dislikes, what we both want in the future we will b fine. Thanks for your replys

[LionessDeon 2,060]

3 minutes ago, bostonBruce said:

yes thank u , I'm reading it now and making notes, I will go thru all we did and talked about since we been chatting, how our first physical meeting went how I felt seeing and being with Moe, of course we been chatting everyday since talking abut future etc. I think once they see us together and knowing her likes n dislikes, what we both want in the future we will b fine. Thanks for your replys

Make sure she does the same.  They may separate you and ask the same questions of her and compare answers.  I hope it all works out.  Try your best to remain calm and relaxed.  I'll keep you both in my immigration prayers.

[angelbrown 195]

1 hour ago, bostonBruce said:

yes thank u , I'm reading it now and making notes, I will go thru all we did and talked about since we been chatting, how our first physical meeting went how I felt seeing and being with Moe, of course we been chatting everyday since talking abut future etc. I think once they see us together and knowing her likes n dislikes, what we both want in the future we will b fine. Thanks for your replys

Agree with other responses that they think the relationship is not bonafide. What evidence did you submit with application? Did they ask for additional evidence at the interview? Although that may be irrelevant at this point, I was just wondering if you submitted more of the same (cumulative) vs something of substance. I am 15 years older than my husband and age was not even brought up or mentioned. Make sure you both know detailed information about each other, not just how you feel about one another. The interviewers don’t care about the mushy love stuff, they want to know that the relationship is real and in good faith. @lala64 had to do a stokes interview in JA. It appears she hasn’t been on in a while but maybe you could message her to see if she gets the message to respond. Good luck!

Edited December 13, 2017 by angelbrown

[Pinkrlion 2,607]

So just to clarify, you have only met twice in your entire relationship for one week each time before you got engaged and filed K-1?

[mytruelove18 607]

I am from Dominican Republic, it is a high fraud country, but if your relationship is real, you dont have nothing to worried, 

I am 37 and my fiance 62, we had interview on november 20 and the co didnt ask nothing about age.

My case is under ap for something wrong on the police certificate.

[Jabberwocky1969 126]

This sure sounds like fraud to me.

 

[Boiler 43,433]

Do they do Stokes at Consulates? Sounds like they have serious doubts.

[bostonBruce 38]

yes they do,

[Jeanne Adil 1,651]

17 hours ago, mytruelove18 said:

I am from Dominican Republic, it is a high fraud country, but if your relationship is real, you dont have nothing to worried, 

I am 37 and my fiance 62, we had interview on november 20 and the co didnt ask nothing about age.

My case is under ap for something wrong on the police certificate.

Don't be surprised if your case is returned to the US

some embassies ask about age

some have actually been laughed at as happened inTunisia for one member

they are really not suppose to mention age as it violates the USC constitutional rights and they do know that in US people like Larry King married a woman 26 years younger

but they use other reasons

you can fight the age difference if it comes up as we have the big ae differnce and he is here ready for naturalization

good luck to you

[geowrian 22,335]

Age itself is not a cause for denial. However, an unusual age difference in conjunction with other factors can (and has) been used as a basis for refusal due to not believing the relationship is bona fide.

 

Visa applicants are not awarded US constitutional rights, and the petitioner is only permitted to petition for a family member...there's no right for a family member to be issued a visa.