Want to send my wife back to the philipinz

[ck10 0]

i just want to start by saying my wife is a cheater. she has been cheating on me ever since she got here with my neighbor. a couple people have told me. 

 

she is here on a k1 visa. we have been married within the 90 days but i did not submit the 485. no application for green card has been submitted. 

 

what can i do to send her back home?

[kat2017 5]

10 minutes ago, ck10 said:

i just want to start by saying my wife is a cheater. she has been cheating on me ever since she got here with my neighbor. a couple people have told me. 

 

she is here on a k1 visa. we have been married within the 90 days but i did not submit the 485. no application for green card has been submitted. 

 

what can i do to send her back home?

I would hire a PI so that you can have evidence and be 100% certain.

after that I am sure you can contact USCIS and inform them of the situation.

[geowrian 22,335]

I would suggest verifying it as well, but if you don't trust her already then the marriage is getting started on the wrong foot. Try to work it out, but if needed, you can divorce. Since you didn't file AOS yet, she will not have legal status once her I-94 stamp expires (should be 90 days after entry). She cannot file for AOS without you sponsoring her (unless she has other immediate relatives in the US already). If she tries to stay beyond the I-94 stamp, you can report it to ICE. That said, there's no guarantee ICE will act on it and nothing you can do to force her to leave.

 

I would suggest that, if it came to that and you plan to divorce, that you just offer to buy her a one way ticket to go home. It's a small cost to pay in the grand picture. Oh, and get a good divorce lawyer!

[Scandi 3,970]

Tell her to move in with your neighbour.

[ck10 0]

2 minutes ago, geowrian said:

I would suggest verifying it as well, but if you don't trust her already then the marriage is getting started on the wrong foot. Try to work it out, but if needed, you can divorce. Since you didn't file AOS yet, she will not have legal status once her I-94 stamp expires (should be 90 days after entry). She cannot file for AOS without you sponsoring her (unless she has other immediate relatives in the US already). If she tries to stay beyond the I-94 stamp, you can report it to ICE. That said, there's no guarantee ICE will act on it and nothing you can do to force her to leave.

 

I would suggest that, if it came to that and you plan to divorce, that you just offer to buy her a one way ticket to go home. It's a small cost to pay in the grand picture. Oh, and get a good divorce lawyer!

 

Thanks. but i dont know anything about the I-94. does she have one? if so, does it expire after we got married? what is that?

[geowrian 22,335]

1 minute ago, ck10 said:

 

Thanks. but i dont know anything about the I-94. does she have one? if so, does it expire after we got married? what is that?

It's the stamp in her passport from when she entered the US, which is proof that she is in the US legally. For a K-1 visa, it expires in 90 days after entry. It does not expire at marriage.

Edited February 21, 2017 by geowrian

[Jawaree 717]

Seem you have some nosy neighbor who will ruin your marriage, do you have proof,

are you insecure, she may get along great with a male neighbor, but that dont mean

she's shagging him....and you are so ready to deport her huh...where's the trust & love.

Sounds like you living in the Peyron Place

[ck10 0]

she has admitted to it. my brother in law who speaks spanish over heard her while she was talking to her sister on the phone. she even admitted to cheating with 2. my bro in law is trustworthy. no question about that. hoping i can get some straight answers. not some other visa seekers

[MacUK 983]

So you trust your brother-in-law without any doubt but not your own wife?

Have you confronted her about it at all?

Sounds like there's more wrong with the marriage than her playing away.

 

But no, you can't just have her sent back to her home country. She isn't some thing you bought from Amazon that you can return when you want.

You can refuse to file for her AOS, you can report her to ICE (but it will probably end up in a huge file marked 'Angry Spouse' and be forgotten about.

 

ICE aren't going to show up with shackles to deport every person who has a bad marriage. There's not a thing you can do to force her removal, but she will have problems getting legal status so it will be a life living under the radar.

 

What you can do is protect yourself against accusations of abuse. Avoid being alone with her.

[Hypnos 6,576]

People are not UPS or FedEx packages to be sent away; there is nothing you can do to ensure her removal from the US. Your time to do due diligence over your potential spouse was before you helped to bring her to this country, not after. 

 

If you haven't filed for her AoS then she will be out of status and deportable when her I-94 expires. She will also not be able to adjust status through anyone else even if you divorce and she marries another US citizen. 

Edited February 21, 2017 by Hypnos

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