Cold FEET

[Anitafeliz 1,133]

OMG

In less then 36 hours fiancee arrives im now getting cold feet.....

Im worried!! After all this waiting what if the stories i read on here happen to me??

Im not planning on making him a slave or holding papers against him or beating him....hes safe on that regard...

But face time has been few days last year 2015, 18 days in march, 4 days in may and 3 days last month!!!

We talk daily hes my GM and Goodnight!!! And all in between!!!

Im freaking out who can relate????

Im a nervous ball of nerves!!

Edited September 23, 2016 by Anitafeliz

[Merrytooth 5,748]

How about soaking your feet in warm water and relax?

[Georgia16 2,858]

I think it's normal because now suddenly the process is over and he is coming! .... BUT yes RELAX when he gets there those feelings will disappear and all the good feelings will come out

[Unlockable 7,306]

I know how it feels but I have a feeling you will be alright.

It's true some of the nightmare stories on VJ can get you mind wondering. Focus on the good times you two will have. And be relieved that the separation is almost over.

[Anitafeliz 1,133]

How about soaking your feet in warm water and relax?

Hahahaha i am soaking tomorrow pedicure lol ?

I think it's normal because now suddenly the process is over and he is coming! .... BUT yes RELAX when he gets there those feelings will disappear and all the good feelings will come out

Yey i know im all types of nerves ?

[Georgia16 2,858]

Hahahaha i am soaking tomorrow pedicure lol ?

Yey i know im all types of nerves ?

They will be gone when he had his arms around you and there are no more goodbyes at airports!

[Anitafeliz 1,133]

I know how it feels but I have a feeling you will be alright.

It's true some of the nightmare stories on VJ can get you mind wondering. Focus on the good times you two will have. And be relieved that the separation is almost over.

Asi mismo nuestra union i hope its for the best ? im soo excited and scared at the same time

This is becoming ming reality

[afortunada 182]

Don't you worry about the stories on here!!

Every relationship requires patience, learning, effort...

My husband and I have been living apart for one year now (with many months to go) and see each other every couple months. We discuss the fact that we don't want it to become "normal" being a "FaceTIme couple" - we, too, feel uncomfortable about the waiting and the distance but we love each other so very much and because of our open communication we feel better and are strong because of it.

Just accept the fact that it's not going to be perfect, you're going to need to work at it, and it certainly is a huge change! Embrace it!

ENJOY THE JOURNEY! This one has ended, now go start your new one together.

[Anitafeliz 1,133]

Thank you jackie i hope yours moves fast as well

[afortunada 182]

Thank you jackie i hope yours moves fast as well

yo tambien espero eso

Congratulations, and make sure you post an update for us!

[Anitafeliz 1,133]

yo tambien espero eso

Congratulations, and make sure you post an update for us!

O i will poe is logan at 7am sunday

[C-ma'am 684]

☆☆Post moved from K1 Process to Progress Reports. Post is better suited for this part of the forum

[JR loves JR 196]

It's normal to be a little nervous. There's nerves that go with if he's going to actually get along with your family (especially your child). There's the ones about his adjustment to America. And the ones dealing with if the change of moving to America will steal the magic you had before. And for some people there's the nerves that this might be a scam. All of them are legitimate and should be considered. But don't dwell on them. Make the decision that you're all in. You're the only one you can control. But do everyone a favor, don't marry him until you're sure that it's what YOU want. You have 90 days, and even though the K-1 isn't a get to know you visa, there's nothing wrong with taking the time you need to have peace about your choice. Who knows, you might get it the second you see him or it might take until day 80. Either way, it's okay. When my husband got here, we spent 84 days before getting married because I wanted him to see who I really was when I was working and paying bills and for him to be surrounded by the realities of America (and the Minnesota cold) before he made the commitment. I needed to know that he loved me not just when I was laying on a beach without a care in the world but even when I came home tired and wrinkled with life's junk weighing me down. There's some rubber that had to meet the road before I was sure. And when the time came, I was sure. And you will be too.

Edited September 24, 2016 by JR loves JR

[Anitafeliz 1,133]

It's normal to be a little nervous. There's nerves that go with if he's going to actually get along with your family (especially your child). There's the ones about his adjustment to America. And the ones dealing with if the change of moving to America will steal the magic you had before. And for some people there's the nerves that this might be a scam. All of them are legitimate and should be considered. But don't dwell on them. Make the decision that you're all in. You're the only one you can control. But do everyone a favor, don't marry him until you're sure that it's what YOU want. You have 90 days, and even though the K-1 isn't a get to know you visa, there's nothing wrong with taking the time you need to have peace about your choice. Who knows, you might get it the second you see him or it might take until day 80. Either way, it's okay. When my husband got here, we spent 84 days before getting married because I wanted him to see who I really was when I was working and paying bills and for him to be surrounded by the realities of America (and the Minnesota cold) before he made the commitment. I needed to know that he loved me not just when I was laying on a beach without a care in the world but even when I came home tired and wrinkled with life's junk weighing me down. There's some rubber that had to meet the road before I was sure. And when the time came, I was sure. And you will be too.

Awww thanks for sharing he has two eager ladies here hannah 2 and kariana 5 and me

He also has some pets hes not use to indoor animals lol we have a chinese dwarf and a parrolet...my employers also considering hiring him so we have many things to look foward toooo cleaning out space for him in my closet...

Adreniline is onver the top ?

[JR loves JR 196]

Looks like your nerves are actually about it being as great as you dreamt it would be. It will be. You'll both have some adjustments but a little patience goes a long way. Congratulations and good luck sleeping!