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Hello All

I am an indian who got married to American citizen and came to USA on CR1 visa in Aug 2014.

Husband has been forcing me and my family to pay him money and have his name added to my salary accounts and make other financial investment since then.

As I did not give in to his demands, he is not willing to apply jointly for removal of my conditions on CR1 visa (marriage based green card).

Can somebody please help me on this?

1. Can I file for waiver without applying for divorce?

2. Can my company apply for H1b visa and get me stay in USA on H1 visa?

3. Is there any other way to save GC?

Thank you for any inputs!

God bless you.

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08 Aug 2013 - Case accepted at USCIS
22 Feb 2014 - case transferred at NVC (post clearance and acceptance at USCIS)
18 Apr 2014 - Paid AOS fees
29 Apr 2014 - Paid IV fees
05 May 2014 - Filled DS 260 form
03 Jun 2014 - Submitted AOS and IV documents
07 Jun 2014 - Acknowledge by telephone representative of AOS & IV documents received
08 Jul 2014 - Checklist from NVC, mentioning list of docs to be brought at Interview
10 Jul 2014 - Interview date confirmation on call
11 Jul 2014 - Received mail notification of Interview on 19 Aug 2014
13 Jul 2014 - Fingerprinting done at VAC Mumbai
11 Aug 2014 - Medical Exam at Rele Clinic Mumbai
19 Aug 2014 - Interview at Mumbai Consulate

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You said you want to save your marriage...really, REALLY? Did you envision to have a scumbag like him by your side as a husband and a father for your kids in the future?You have a problem bigger than

Transborderwife
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It takes two people to save it unfortunately

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Someone who is not even willing to support removal of your conditions is not worth staying married to. The foundation of marriage is not slavery and threats.

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Divorce and move on. Sort out the immigration issues separately. Don't accept this type of behavior.

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Is there a reason you cannot divorce?

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Is there a reason you cannot divorce?

I really want to save our marriage :(

08 Aug 2013 - Case accepted at USCIS
22 Feb 2014 - case transferred at NVC (post clearance and acceptance at USCIS)
18 Apr 2014 - Paid AOS fees
29 Apr 2014 - Paid IV fees
05 May 2014 - Filled DS 260 form
03 Jun 2014 - Submitted AOS and IV documents
07 Jun 2014 - Acknowledge by telephone representative of AOS & IV documents received
08 Jul 2014 - Checklist from NVC, mentioning list of docs to be brought at Interview
10 Jul 2014 - Interview date confirmation on call
11 Jul 2014 - Received mail notification of Interview on 19 Aug 2014
13 Jul 2014 - Fingerprinting done at VAC Mumbai
11 Aug 2014 - Medical Exam at Rele Clinic Mumbai
19 Aug 2014 - Interview at Mumbai Consulate

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I really want to save our marriage :(

Someone who is not even willing to support removal of your conditions is not worth staying married to. The foundation of marriage is not slavery and threats.

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I really want to save our marriage :(

Which is more important to you? The green card may be acquired without the marriage. All the questions you asked pertain to the GC so I'm guessing that's more important to you.

It's difficult for anyone on this forum to give you marital advice on so little info. Talk to someone close, a friend, coworker, or your priest. Alternatively, there are many posts discussing divorce waivers and the GC.

Good luck.

Feel. The. Bern.

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You said you want to save your marriage...really, REALLY? Did you envision to have a scumbag like him by your side as a husband and a father for your kids in the future?You have a problem bigger than your GC my dear...DIVORCE him and move on

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You said you want to save your marriage...really, REALLY? Did you envision to have a scumbag like him by your side as a husband and a father for your kids in the future?You have a problem bigger than your GC my dear...DIVORCE him and move on

The OP is probably undergoing a stressful situation. There's not enough details to judge her intentions or the other side of the story. Kindness is in order.

Feel. The. Bern.

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The OP is probably undergoing a stressful situation. There's not enough details to judge her intentions or the other side of the story. Kindness is in order.

Sometimes harsh reality is more important than kindness

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Hello All

I am an indian who got married to American citizen and came to USA on CR1 visa in Aug 2014.

Husband has been forcing me and my family to pay him money and have his name added to my salary accounts and make other financial investment since then.

As I did not give in to his demands, he is not willing to apply jointly for removal of my conditions on CR1 visa (marriage based green card).

Can somebody please help me on this?

1. Can I file for waiver without applying for divorce?

2. Can my company apply for H1b visa and get me stay in USA on H1 visa?

3. Is there any other way to save GC?

Thank you for any inputs!

God bless you.

On the contrary, questions I have are

1. Did he share his income with you and have put your name in his bank accounts?

2. Did he put you as a beneficiary in any insurances?

3. Did he provide for you and for your child(ren) when you have no job / no income?

4. Did he share the property he own with you?

If he did all that for you, don't you think it's only natural for you to return all the favors to him as a couple when you have an income?

If he didn't do any of these for you, I agree with other posters and get a divorce and get a GC under ROC on your own.

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Which is more important to you? The green card may be acquired without the marriage. All the questions you asked pertain to the GC so I'm guessing that's more important to you.

It's difficult for anyone on this forum to give you marital advice on so little info. Talk to someone close, a friend, coworker, or your priest. Alternatively, there are many posts discussing divorce waivers and the GC.

Good luck.

Marriage is my priority but parallel I have many responsibilities to be taken care of and hence GC is important as well, as my job is dependent on it.

I spoke to his relatives, marriage counselor and friends. Misunderstanding and money matters brought us at this stage.

Thank you all for your suggestions. God bless you all :)

08 Aug 2013 - Case accepted at USCIS
22 Feb 2014 - case transferred at NVC (post clearance and acceptance at USCIS)
18 Apr 2014 - Paid AOS fees
29 Apr 2014 - Paid IV fees
05 May 2014 - Filled DS 260 form
03 Jun 2014 - Submitted AOS and IV documents
07 Jun 2014 - Acknowledge by telephone representative of AOS & IV documents received
08 Jul 2014 - Checklist from NVC, mentioning list of docs to be brought at Interview
10 Jul 2014 - Interview date confirmation on call
11 Jul 2014 - Received mail notification of Interview on 19 Aug 2014
13 Jul 2014 - Fingerprinting done at VAC Mumbai
11 Aug 2014 - Medical Exam at Rele Clinic Mumbai
19 Aug 2014 - Interview at Mumbai Consulate

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