how long have you and your spouse, fiance, child/children family haven't seen each other

[Nicki-Goodas-Deo 10]

I haven't seen my husband in a year.I get so mad and frustrated

at the same time. as well as he, he's America born, I'm Jamaican.

with the long visa process. we just have to keep the faith an just know it's going to happen,someday.

lol! at the same time. I wish,they would have a shorter procees

If this is a test to our relationship. Bring it on,1year. Smh! By god will we are stronger.

[Frankjavir 55]

I haven't seen my husband in a year.I get so mad and frustrated

at the same time. as well as he, he's America born, I'm Jamaican.

with the long visa process. we just have to keep the faith an just know it's going to happen,someday.

lol! at the same time. I wish,they would have a shorter procees

If this is a test to our relationship. Bring it on,1year. Smh! By god will we are stronger.

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We see each other every 4 months, taking turns on who makes the visit.

It is difficult, painful and costly to maintain a marital relationship under these circumstances.

[Transborderwife 4,666]

Look at the glass as half full. What is 1-2 years compared to the rest of your lives

[lijoca 0]

Hi am waiting to get case complete too.its been 30 days supervisor review already but nothino.its sooooo frustrated

[Nicki-Goodas-Deo 10]

Hi am waiting to get case complete too.its been 30 days supervisor review already but nothino.its sooooo frustrated

I'm sorry! U just have to hang in there. Our case is completed I'm waiting on a interview date

Look at the glass as half full. What is 1-2 years compared to the rest of your lives

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We see each other every 4 months, taking turns on who makes the visit.

It is difficult, painful and costly to maintain a marital relationship under these circumstances.

[Nicki-Goodas-Deo 10]

It's true transborderwife we have the rest of our life to be together

[Nicki-Goodas-Deo 10]

frankjavin that's great! I'll probably get to see my hubby soon

[Adil & Jeanne 296]

We went thru 6 years and i made 5 trips to Morocco spending over a month each time with 2 3 month visits

yes, it is hard

my husband is here now

seems immigration needs to make some changes

i read one post saying the agents are not trained properly

but as i see it the forms are often confusing like this:

how many people are you applying for? 1

put 1 for yourself +1

if married put 1 +1

now add them

which is 3 but my husband and i are only 2

in icome put last 3 years

now what is current income?

which to me is this year

NO it (acording to instructions) is also last year

Good luck

it is all worth it when finally you are here together

[DJ6372 111]

We went thru 6 years and i made 5 trips to Morocco spending over a month each time with 2 3 month visits

yes, it is hard

my husband is here now

seems immigration needs to make some changes

i read one post saying the agents are not trained properly

but as i see it the forms are often confusing like this:

how many people are you applying for? 1

put 1 for yourself +1

if married put 1 +1

now add them

which is 3 but my husband and i are only 2

in icome put last 3 years

now what is current income?

which to me is this year

NO it (acording to instructions) is also last year

Good luck

it is all worth it when finally you are here together

Why blame the agents?

They have thousands of applications to deal with.

It is the liars, the idiots and the frauds who are cluttering up the system for us

The forms are very easy

I haven't seen my husband in a year.I get so mad and frustrated

at the same time. as well as he, he's America born, I'm Jamaican.

with the long visa process. we just have to keep the faith an just know it's going to happen,someday.

lol! at the same time. I wish,they would have a shorter procees

If this is a test to our relationship. Bring it on,1year. Smh! By god will we are stronger.

Keep the faith Nicky

Its is a long slow journey, but you know in the end you will be with the man you love

x

[FarrahIdir 46]

I have been with my husband since 2012, visited in 2013, then again in 2015. It's hard and this stretch till I visit again will be easily over a year. Hang in there...

[SoerenHelmer 50]

So fare its "only" been little over a month, but will be about 3, when/if i get my greencard.

But we talk every day on skype and i make VLogs for them on my website.

[Nicki-Goodas-Deo 10]

I have been with my husband since 2012, visited in 2013, then again in 2015. It's hard and this stretch till I visit again will be easily over a year. Hang in there...

[Nicki-Goodas-Deo 10]

Yeah we hanging on.farrahldir, we r waiting on a interview date. While we do that, he's going to come and see me later down in January.that makes me very happy!

Yeah we hanging on.farrahldir, we r waiting on a interview date. While we do that, he's going to come and see me later down in January.that makes me very happy!

[LionessDeon 2,060]

I havne't seen my fiance in over 6 mos. Our K1 has turned into a year ban and now awaiting waiver approval. The processing times are increasing and increasing in length. It's very frustrating. Been dealing with this since 07/2014. Don't know how or when it will end. Its the not knowing, not being able to plan anything that's most annoying. There are ALOT of things wrong with this immigration system. ALOT.

[Russ&Caro 1,548]

For my wife and I, we waited apart for 16 months, although the first 3 months were due to some circumstances that made it difficult to file after our wedding. No honeymoon.

Things to do while you're apart:

1. Brush up on your partner's language if it's different than yours

2. Read some books on early marriage issues. This is 95% psychology. A little dry but helpful

3. Start sharing personal finances, budgeting, etc. You'll have some big fights but it means once you're together you'll have many of those fights out of the way.

4. Deeper dives on knowledge of each other. Early on there's a tendency not to fully share, especially the darker stuff. If you're a jealous person, bring it up and work it out. If you're a depressive, perhaps on medication, bring it up. The more you know your partner, the better life will be when you're finally together.

Think of it this way... the more communication, money, psychology and personality issues that you iron out during the year long wait, the more smooth things will go once you're together. I wish I would have paid more attention to these issues before her POE.